People use these apps for a number of reasons. They're work schedules might make going out nearly impossible so they need to use these to meet new people or they might not have a lot of options in their areas. Sometimes reality is just unkind and people need to explore every avenue including dating apps inorder to get dates.
The reason why pretty much everyone is ignoring you is because you keep repeating that those who teams to struggle in these apps tend to have a lot of negative traits. Which simply isn't true. There was a study released back in the day which showed that there was a definately racial bias against black men and women especially. Are they automatically desperate or thirsty , no ?then learn to show nuance in your arguments and statements.
There is an underlying and possibly harmful mentality that these apps encourage and discussing it and how it relates to personal expirience should never be discouraged or dismissed.
No, those are all terrible excuses to use these apps...like, I drink battery acid because it's closer to where I am sitting than getting up to get water...that bad. And yes, these apps have racial biases just like the rest of society, like wow you really taught me something....way to make my point. There are also dating apps and online websites geared toward minorities and on those sites, the same issues arise...wonder why that is?
Also, no one is saying that any personal experiences related to these apps can't be discussed anywhere...that's ridiculous hyperbole and an over-sensitive reaction to an opinion just because it's different than yours...you are just trying to silence an opinion that is different than yours in saying that. I haven't target one single person's opinion on here, just speaking in general terms on my own opinions and experiences. If you don't like my opinion then ignore it but it's false to say that everyone that doesn't agree with you is trying to silence you.
I'm sorry, but if you are saying you hate these apps but continue using them for weeks or months on end, there is an underlying issue there.
I reached the conclusion that you said the app is perfect because you said it was ridiculous the blame the app for any problems one might have on it.
Never said that, more over-the-top hyperbole. Never said that sexual assault or body shaming on anything like that never happened on these apps. That doesn't have to do with why people are using these apps even though 100% of their experiences are negative.
You decided for yourself that anyone who has ever been frustrated and unsuccessful with a dating app is some thirsty, desperate loser incapable of talking to another human being.
Also hyperbole...never called anyone desperate or losers, but yes, being "thirsty" (I know that word triggers you, even though it's accurate to describe dating issues) does cause impatience and a habit to ignore reality in order to believe your fantasies...that's IRL and in apps. And, I don't understand what any of that has to do with "talking to human beings"...CLEARLY we are talking about dating...I'm referring to being able to say hi to someone you have more than platonic feelings for and are attracted to. But sure...when I said that people who are over-dependent on these apps tend to be poor at saying hi to that same person IRL...I meant that they can't handle a job interview or that they have no social skills...THAT'S TOTALLY WHAT I MEANT!
You've decided that they all must be greatly flawed and the cause of all their problems.
Also not true, you would only believe this if you are taking this personally...everything I have said is in the context of dating. Being in need of attention or being impatient with the dating process doesn't make you "greatly flawed". Like what is this even? You can be bad at dating but be a terrific person otherwise...
Your insistence that anyone who's complained about dating apps are not trying to meet people in real life is flawed.
Wrong again...I said that people that hate these apps, and continue to use them, must struggle IRL in dating. Not that they are flawed as a person...that's ridiculous, but again, at this point is obvious that anything negative I say about people who continue to use dating apps despite continually, you will take person offense to.
And again...never said that anyone that complains at all must be silenced or that they are a bad person.
You know that people are completely capable of doing both, right? You are also aware that despite the cons there may be a number of reasons one might decided to use a dating app that aren't desperation and horniness? It doesn't seem like you've considered any of this and just decided you'd spew this viewpoint of dating being a meritocracy where if you aren't successful it means you have no worth. Get out of here with that shit.
Exactly. How utterly immature to dismiss any criticism of dating apps and culture as a bunch of whiny, thirsty people.
Never said anything about anyone not having worth or value in society. Never said that anyone with even the smallest amount of criticism of these apps are "whiny"...in fact, I never used any word saying that anyone was "whiny". But, it is obvious that you are triggered by the word "thirsty"...which, in my opinion, IS A BIG REASON why people struggle in dating. And as I said, rushing to "like" someone with little to no reason to do so, despite the evidence others, is the other reason. Sorry you don't like that opinion. But don't tell me "OMG these apps are horrible and all of these horrible things happen all the time"...then why are you using it...oh a bunch of ridiculous excuses. This isn't some socio-political issue...with dating, you have to go out and do it.
That's my opinion...none of that says that no one can refute me in any way. I tend to not use products that are overly negative and that have a overwhelming negative impact on my life. So yeah...these aren't people that are just saying "I had this bad experience and it was like this but then here is why I like using the app"...no one in that article is saying that. This is "OMG this is the worst thing you can put on your phone"...stop acting like someone made some off-hand comment and I said "BUT DATING AND DATING APPS ARE PERFECT AND ANYONE THAT COMPLAINS ABOUT ANYTHING IS PERFECTLY IMPERFECT!" Like why would you take it that personally....