Full of cis people telling trans folx we're wrong, of course. We're not.
Full of cis people telling trans folx we're wrong, of course. We're not.
Natalie Wynn is no bigot. I don't agree with any perceived endorsement of bigots from her corner, but I also don't have time for reactionary canceling.So disingenuous. You already know this is not the first time she's said bigoted things about nonbinary folx, and inviting a person who doesn't believe enby folx exist is the worst enbyphobic thing she's done to date.
You can keep telling yourself you know more than my community than actual members of it, but you don't.
Natalie Wynn is no bigot. I don't agree with any perceived endorsement of bigots from her corner, but I also don't have time for reactionary canceling.
I brought her up as someone I personally admire for her ability to bridge a gap that most people at this polarized moment in US politics don't even attempt to cross. You're supplying a textbook example of the approach that raises people's hackles, ruins dialogue, burns bridges between allies, and entrenches opponents across the ideological divide.
Great. Bye.
Similiar thoughts, but it's important to remember that members here as aggressive as they can be, have very few places they can go and that the gaming community as a whole is one that early on was radicalized. They've also been aware of this stuff for almost 5 years now and it's easy for them to jump to the conclusion that everyone has shared their expierence combating the worst of the web.Good lord I kept thinking about the topic he brings up at 39:07 throughout the entire "How Gabe escaped" section.
I absolutely feel that way about GAF/ResetERA. Its frustrates me that I feel this community once was a place you could bring someone on the edge (looking to escape) to converse. But in the past few years its instead become the last place you would want to bring that person because its become far more harsh, unwilling to discuss or usher someone into an idea, instead opting to just gang up and pile onto someone who isn't 100% in lock step with everyone else. That sort of thing could push away people looking to convert easily.
But the video also flat out points out that lefty places just may not be a decent place at all to bring people like that, because of those reasons. Really wish we could have gotten some examples of good places to bring those folks in the video. Its hard to know where they are if you aren't personally familiar with them.
Really great video.
Yes but era bad and you are no better than nazis cuz you don't welcome former(?) bigots who can't stop themself from derailing thread.You know I really wonder if we watched the same video. He directly said that a space like Era can't be a holding space to de-radicalize people.
Communities don't radicalize people by having moderation. Not having moderation, not having a strong community identity where bigotry has no space to grow. These are the things that lead to communities becoming breading grounds for radicalization.
Who are you talking to?Yes but era bad and you are no better than nazis cuz you don't welcome former(?) bigots who can't stop themself from derailing thread.
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I've always wondered. There's so many of these sites that radicalize people and in comparison very little that offer a genuine helpful place for seemingly vulnerable people (dude just wants to talk about his weird hobby, or their weird social hangup, etc etc). Is there a problem on our end of this kind of stuff? I know there are helpful forums out there but are they doing something wrong to push these people away or something?
Strange, because you decided to initially dismiss the issue on her hosting Buck Angel by jumping in with:Natalie Wynn is no bigot. I don't agree with any perceived endorsement of bigots from her corner, but I also don't have time for reactionary canceling.
I brought her up as someone I personally admire for her ability to bridge a gap that most people at this polarized moment in US politics don't even attempt to cross. You're supplying a textbook example of the approach that raises people's hackles, ruins dialogue, burns bridges between allies, and entrenches opponents across the ideological divide.
It's possible to criticize problematic actions without dismissing a brilliant resource like the ContraPoints channel.
No one was cancelling anyone. The issue had just been flagged and was starting to be discussed. Yet you still felt the need to hand-wave it as looking for things to be upset about.I've always found that that best way to understand the true message of a ContraPoints video is to skip to the credits and find something to dislike about one of the guest stars.
Similiar thoughts, but it's important to remember that members here as aggressive as they can be, have very few places they can go and that the gaming community as a whole is one that early on was radicalized. They've also been aware of this stuff for almost 5 years now and it's easy for them to jump to the conclusion that everyone has shared their expierence combating the worst of the web.
Video was great, but I do hate how it frames this as a left vs alr right thing, when reality its a let, centrist, and right thing vs the alt right. I don't consider myself a leftist, and if anything center left. But you don't need to be left to stand up against this level of toxicity and call out racism, bigotry and scapegoating of minorities or movements. Those are logical and normal things everyone should do regardless of their difference of policy.
That said, everything else in the video was really greatly laid out as how these tactics work to radicalize people.
Your disingenuous shit ain't enough for one thread? There are pages and pages in the other thread making it PLAINLY OBVIOUS that critiques of Natalie do not signal an intent to "cancel" her. Because of that, all this position you've staked is doing is to deny NB people the opportunity to rightfully critique her.Her actions being putting the wrong foot forward in an ongoing dialogue? The left really does eat our own, wow. Guess she should shut up and disappear forever.
I think you are always going to find people who are more socially isolated to be more apt to fall victim to this stuff, and people who are better adjusted will not fall for it as they have life expierence and exposure beyond the 4 walls of their room to draw expierence from, and share part of their life with.I've always wondered. There's so many of these sites that radicalize people and in comparison very little that offer a genuine helpful place for seemingly vulnerable people (dude just wants to talk about his weird hobby, or their weird social hangup, etc etc). Is there a problem on our end of this kind of stuff? I know there are helpful forums out there but are they doing something wrong to push these people away or something?
Oooooh, you should definitely watch his videos on the origins of conservatism and the "always a bigger fish" one too. It should clear up why he has very little faith in liberalism/conservatism when it comes to fascism.
That's cause people sympathetic to or are white supremacists happen to be in the authorities like the police and FBI.Having worked counter terrorism, it's insane to me that white supremacists follow the same playbook as radical jihadists or separatists but don't get a fraction of the pushback, socially and legally.
You know I really wonder if we watched the same video. He directly said that a space like Era can't be a holding space to de-radicalize people.
Communities don't radicalize people by having moderation. Not having moderation, not having a strong community identity where bigotry has no space to grow. These are the things that lead to communities becoming breading grounds for radicalization.
This is honestly a conundrum, because you can't effectively distinguish an early stage Gabe from an alt-right asshole trying to colonize your community. The latter will always try to look innocuous enough, asking questions and raising concerns, and if you entertain them, you'll just be trolled to death in a discussion where they get to repeat and lay out all their talking points again and again. This is magnified if there are several bad faith actors in the same thread, reinforcing each other, and ultimately forming their consensus.You can have a place that emboldens Gabes, you can have a place that tries to de-radicalize Gabes or you have a place that is safe for minorities. Pick one.
There are several nonwhite, nonmale, nonstraight, noncis members on this board. It is not our duty to ruin our mental well being to coddle an almost Nazi from being a full on Nazi.
I would get into a discussion in response to this but I don't think I'm allowed to criticize the mod team openly. Is this the case or is it not?Pretty damn good video.
I'll echo what people here have said about this being a safe place for marginalized groups rather than a place for people who may have radicalized beliefs to gain a second chance. I'll admit that for the longest time, I've always been the devil's advocate, at least in the sense that "hey maybe this guy is just ignorant or what-have-you, so let's go with a shorter ban and maybe they'll understand why it was bad." I've unfortunately been proven wrong more times than I'd care to admit.
As someone who was conservative/republican up through about halfway through college (this was about 15 years ago...yes I'm showing my age) I don't think I'd ever end up as far down the rabbit hole as Gabe, but I would definitely share some of the beliefs - thankfully I met some people that clued me into being a moron. There's no point in having such hatred for people who've done nothing wrong, especially if the "wrong" they are accused of doing is *existing*.
We have a fair amount of members that show up and say certain things that are horrible, but may be presented in ways that are not overtly awful. It's difficult to determine intent over the Internet, so if you see us ever going "lightly" on something, please just know that it's a judgment call with hope behind it and nothing sinister. We all understand the concepts of concern trolling and gaslighting, but again - sometimes it's hard to tell until there are repeat examples.
I do still tend to hope for the best in people, but in this day and age it's really difficult to expect the best outcome.
I mean you have my discord name so feel free to yell at me there if you want to yell at meI would get into a discussion in response to this but I don't think I'm allowed to criticize the mod team openly. Is this the case or is it not?
[indistinct yelling]I mean you have my discord name so feel free to yell at me there if you want to yell at me
To put it differently, the line is very thin between deradicalizing an impressionable mind that genuinely doesn't know better and platforming the alt-right.
I think he's making the distinction between online and Extremely OnlineThe video was very good, but I would just correct the belief that Nazis went online around 2013, they were online decades before that.
I think he's making the distinction between online and Extremely Online
You know I really wonder if we watched the same video. He directly said that a space like Era can't be a holding space to de-radicalize people.
Communities don't radicalize people by having moderation. Not having moderation, not having a strong community identity where bigotry has no space to grow. These are the things that lead to communities becoming breading grounds for radicalization.
Pretty damn good video.
I'll echo what people here have said about this being a safe place for marginalized groups rather than a place for people who may have radicalized beliefs to gain a second chance. I'll admit that for the longest time, I've always been the devil's advocate, at least in the sense that "hey maybe this guy is just ignorant or what-have-you, so let's go with a shorter ban and maybe they'll understand why it was bad." I've unfortunately been proven wrong more times than I'd care to admit.
As someone who was conservative/republican up through about halfway through college (this was about 15 years ago...yes I'm showing my age) I don't think I'd ever end up as far down the rabbit hole as Gabe, but I would definitely share some of the beliefs - thankfully I met some people that clued me into being a moron. There's no point in having such hatred for people who've done nothing wrong, especially if the "wrong" they are accused of doing is *existing*.
We have a fair amount of members that show up and say certain things that are horrible, but may be presented in ways that are not overtly awful. It's difficult to determine intent over the Internet, so if you see us ever going "lightly" on something, please just know that it's a judgment call with hope behind it and nothing sinister. We all understand the concepts of concern trolling and gaslighting, but again - sometimes it's hard to tell until there are repeat examples.
I do still tend to hope for the best in people, but in this day and age it's really difficult to expect the best outcome.
I'm glad that you were able to understand the issues there, but it can be difficult for those who feel like they have to give that explanation on a daily basis to people that just don't get it - frankly I don't blame them but I'm glad you were able to understand :)There have been a few times where I've been accused of arguing in bad faith, when I was actually, ACTUALLY, just asking questions. I'm Dutch, so I grew up with Black Pete (with blackface), with the initial idea that Black Pete wasn't racist because -insert ignorant and outdated views here-.
Not being banned, and people actually taking the time to have a conversation with me changed my mind on Black Pete.
However, I have no idea how many people actually argue in bad faith, how many people ask questions to actually learn things, and how you're supposed to make that distinction as an admin.
Also, I'm glad (some) people were a bit patient with me, explained and changed my mind. Aside from the people saying; "you support blackface, you're racist and you want me, and people like me dead. FOH." Which is, and was, not the case.
There are good points on both sides of this argument. I think ERA has to constantly be vigilant not allowing bad faith actors to infiltrate and transform the community, in order to keep it a safe space for open and tolerant people. On the other hand, there have been threads I've read where (at least to me) mere misunderstandings got posters piled upon. It is sometimes difficult to know whether someone is posting in bad faith, so I get that there's the urge to not give the benefit of the doubt, and bad faith posters can try to use the benefit of the doubt as a shield. But I think there is a kind of bad faith posting on the other side as well, and that is shredding someone to morally feel superior. And that doesn't only affect the person being shredded, but possibly a lot of lurkers. That comes with the fact that ERA is a public forum.This is spot on and there are some points that have changed some of my mindsets on things, but everything I pretty much agreed with. Although I would add that I still believe shouting at a Gabe and telling them they're a bigot and subhuman trash probably will push them further into the onion rather than out of it and a more constructive method of communication to challenge mindsets is preferable.
This is spot on and there are some points that have changed some of my mindsets on things, but everything I pretty much agreed with. Although I would add that I still believe shouting at a Gabe and telling them they're a bigot and subhuman trash probably will push them further into the onion rather than out of it and a more constructive method of communication to challenge mindsets is preferable.
I'm glad that you were able to understand the issues there, but it can be difficult for those who feel like they have to give that explanation on a daily basis to people that just don't get it - frankly I don't blame them but I'm glad you were able to understand :)
Alright but here's the thing: Fuck Gabe.
Gabe is responsible for his actions. He's responsible for the communities he hangs around, because he can always choose to leave at any time. People telling Gabe what kind of person he's allowing himself to be, particularly people vulnerable to the kind of rhetoric Gabe's parroting or enabling, aren't to blame for Gabe choosing to push himself further into the onion when they tell him to go fuck himself. If Gabe's actions hurt other people and incite pushback, he should be able to reevaluate them himself.
How much responsibility do people have to challenge Gabe's mindset when the mindset in question rejects basic fucking empathy? Do we need to put the Gabes through preschool again?
Yup, which is quite terrible because despite the right being bigots and shit, they will generally welcome anyone who shows an inkling of interest and put on a nice face for them to put them in their fold. The left does not do this, it arguably does the opposite. And no, I'm not talking about converting card carrying klan members, I'm talking about the 10s of millions that didnt vote in 2016, the swing states, the rust belt. If someone merely says the wrong thing in ignorance they can be dogpiled, hated on, called a lost cause by the left. And if you were on the fence, with one side welcoming you and one side one step away from pulling the proverbial knives out, it's easy to see why the right is much better at converting than the left.
This was a fascinating, scary video. It boggles my mind how easy our psyches can be hacked into self-destruction, but it is so difficult to drag them into the other direction.
What a fantastic time to be a parent of young children :/
This is a huge issue that's just going to keep compounding over the coming years, too. There aren't enough leftist spaces on the internet because basically no one is willing to put in the work to de-radicalize these people. And you can't really blame anyone for not wanting to put in the footwork either, because it's such a toxic environment. But if nothing changes the end result is going to be an internet filled with right wing spaces, and a few leftist spaces constantly shouting IT'S NOT MY RESPONSIBILITY as the internet burns around them.
I think if you're a progressive parent you don't have much to worry about. Instill them with good values and discuss the issues of the day in an age-appropriate way. The reason people like "Gabe" exist is because they are white and male and grow up in a politically centrist white household where politics isn't discussed, creating a politically apathetic teenager/twentysomething who learns his political values from Nazis on the internet instead of his family.
I think there are some valid criticisms of how members on ERA deal with ignorant or misguided views at times, but there is a certain distrust out there now as ERA has become a target of the dividers mentioned in the OP's video. It may sound a bit paranoid, but ERA is a public left-of-center forum and at any given time there are more members joining with the explicit purpose of causing chaos and trying to divide and peel off members from the community into these radicalized off-shoots.This is a huge issue that's just going to keep compounding over the coming years, too. There aren't enough leftist spaces on the internet because basically no one is willing to put in the work to de-radicalize these people. And you can't really blame anyone for not wanting to put in the footwork either, because it's such a toxic environment. But if nothing changes the end result is going to be an internet filled with right wing spaces, and a few leftist spaces constantly shouting IT'S NOT MY RESPONSIBILITY as the internet burns around them.
Again, it isn't left's responsibility. Even the video that sparked this discussion says as much.This is a huge issue that's just going to keep compounding over the coming years, too. There aren't enough leftist spaces on the internet because basically no one is willing to put in the work to de-radicalize these people. And you can't really blame anyone for not wanting to put in the footwork either, because it's such a toxic environment. But if nothing changes the end result is going to be an internet filled with right wing spaces, and a few leftist spaces constantly shouting IT'S NOT MY RESPONSIBILITY as the internet burns around them.
Yeah. We have so many people outright ridiculing the idea that Era isn't responsible for making Gabe into a better person that I wonder if those themselves aren't infiltrators.Also unsurprisingly this thread has been derailed into metacommentary on the purpose of ResetERA.
The argument in this video is not that online communities like ERA should become deradicalization centers for bigots. As the video explains, due to the extremely deceptive and bad-faith nature of the alt-right, it is impossible to tell if a new member of your community is actually looking to learn or simply an infiltrator looking to further destabilize and radicalize your members.
Instead, the better conduit for deradicalization is people who know "Gabe" in real life, who have a better understanding of his personality and motivations and can see his true heart better than people who know him only as text on a computer screen.