Even though I love kids, I find myself baffled at the shit women go through for kids. 9 months of difficult pregnancy which post-birth has a very real chance of leaving your body all messed up (including severe problems with urinating and defecating), and now you have a vomit and poop machine that's also great at accidentally killing itself in innumerable ways (babies can actually just choke on their spit and die) which will destroy your sleep schedule and possibly strain your relationship with your spouse, not to mention put a huge financial strain on you and has a very real chance of obliterating your present career AND your future ambitions.
Like, I find kids cute when they are someone else's, but if I was a woman and someone suggested the above to me, I'd run so far in the other direction.
Obviously, a lot of this suffering can be managed much better if you have a supportive spouse, but not the physical horror (Seriously, read about
episiotomy, where the wall between the anus and the vagina is cut to allow the baby to pass through in difficult cases).
I have no idea if women make this choice in ignorance of its consequences of if our desire to reproduce really is that strong. Either way, there should be mandatory education about all of this stuff.