Don't think all you said(besides power) is subjective to a personal opinion?
I think Xbox one elite gamepad is the best gamepad ever. But the regular one? Not a chance against ds4.
Best infrastructure doesn't make sense for me. Both Live and PSN had problems this gen.
I think considering only consoles for sure Xbox one x is the most powerfull and make sense is more expensive and came later.
Why do you prefer the DS4? I think the DS4 is a super shoddy controller with REALLY bad triggers. I've had to replace 3 DS4's now, and my fourth DS4 is failing, which is making Tetris Effect nearly impossible to play (right on d-pad registers as up-input a LOT now). I love the Xbox One controller; it fits my hand perfectly, has asymmetrical sticks, better stick tension, better stick height, I can replace the batteries instead of needing to use a cable, the bluetooth functionality is great, I can use it on my PC or Xbox without drivers, the triggers are SO much better than the DS, the bumpers are way easier to press... I don't know how anyone could prefer the DS4.
Like, sure, the DS4 is better than the DS3, but the DS3 is probably the worst controller on a Big 3 console ever made.
It can't be the best console if it doesn't play the best games. XB1X has the best console hardware though, I'll give it that.
Someone like me, who plays hundreds of hours in Forza games and doesn't care at all for big AAA action/adventure fare not made by Ubisoft, might think the Xbox has better exclusives? If you asked me to compile a list of top Sony exclusives... it'd be three digimon games (two of which are better on the Vita), until dawn, tetris effect, wipeout, and godzilla. Meanwhile my Xbox can play The Darkness, one of the most influential games in my
entire life. The Darkness is my everything. I love that game so much. If I cared for Spidey/Uncharted/TLOU/SOTC/God of War, the PS4 would be an easy win, but... I don't really LIKE that kind of game? I play very few of them. Alan Wake, Mad Max, Infamous, Prototype, Tomb Raider/ROTR, and Assassin's Creed games are the only third person action adventure games that I really love.
This is subjective, is what I'm saying.
Neither console has a LOT of games that appeal to me right now. The Xbox just has a lot more backcompat games I love. So for me, the Xbox is a dramatically superior device because like... I can play EDF2017. Now, that said? I think EDF5 is a PS4 exclusive, so like... once I get a copy, the PS4 might instantly shoot up to first place. EDF has the power to do that. I'm also REALLY excited for Ace Combat VR even though it's super limited.