The more I think about it, the more I feel sympathetic and a part of the incel movement. Not violent or hateful. Just frustrated and refusing the dating world. The idea of men just refusing that world appeals to me. I'm an incel and we All aren't terrible people.
We just see through the lies and useless advice of the normal people with good luck and realize we'd rather cut the crap and get to the point. We don't have any sucsess in the dating world and want other options to solve our pain.
I don't think most of us are looking to hurt anyone. Just stop being in pain and miserable in this human condition. Of which we feel we have no control I .
What they offer you is a cult- They don't got no solutions, because their solutions is to cast the blame on others. At best it's a colossal waste of your time that will drag you down, at worst, you're part of a hateful movement.
The world doesn't care about you not being able to get laid. The world doesn't care about you, me or anyone else. You're not owed anything. There are millions of people who can not get fucked for many different reasons. There are millions of people with birth defects, genital effects, diseases that keep them from having romantic partners. There are millions of people who are immobile and who will never have sexual satisfaction. There are many many millions of people who are chronically and massively obese or addicted to substance abuse to the point where their body is fucked.
I'm telling you this, because you're inability to get success in the dating world is not unqiue. You *think* the world is out to get you. And you try to convince yourself that standing back and complaining and externalizing your blame is a solution or a way. Fuck that.
Let's say you're unfuckable. I don't think you are, but let us just for good measure assume that you will never ever have success with women. Why not just accept it, and still get a kick ass life anyway? The sooner you accept your reality, the sooner you can move on. The incel movement is full of people who don't want to face reality. People stand back and talk about their problems as a way to not begin doing anything about them.
And you know- no matter how awkward, socially inept, immature, unattractive and off putting you may be, if you just focus on the things you have control over, maybe, maybe in a number of years you will actually emerge into a person women want to be with.
If you think that many of us haven't had dryspells where we were down and nobody wanted to fuck us for long periods of time, you're wrong. You're telling yourself all these absolute truths as an excuse to not do something about your life- moving on.
Life is not about sex or relationships, although it is a part of it. If I were you, I'd get the best out of it. Be a cool person, do cool shit. Try and look at what other people who cannot have sex do. Have you ever talked to someone who is asexual? or a paralyzed? or someone who has a condition where they have to shit in a plastic bag for the rest of their life?
What you've been through, and the rejections you've had fucking sucks. You don't even have to begin telling me, because I can only imagine the torment, self hatred and rejections you must have had. But I am telling you right now- These incels don't got the solution. They are not a group who will do anything good for you, other than validating fake beliefs you want to believe to protect yourself from putting in the work to do better. What you are, screams so loud I can't hear what you are saying. And while I don't know, it's obvious to me that you're going through some irrational self loathing and externalizing of blame that risks putting you down a path that ain't worth it.
You could be a really cool person, if you want to be. A cool person is someone who doesn't hate the world, doesn't bitch and moan about the things they cannot control, someone who always uses the possibilities and options available to them, and someone who gets the best out of it.
Have a great and interesting life. Cut off this baggage and dead weight that is
holdng you back.
You will get to see in time that the things you matter and holding you back from happiness, is not what matters. Not the way you think it does. You need to stop difing your worth on the things you don't have, and start looking at your potentials. And let that define you. Some of the coolest people that ever lived where ugly MOFOs who couldn't get sucked by a dyson no matter how hard they tried turning it on.
