Tinder is the fucking worst invention of mankind

[DonaldKimball]

I met an amazing woman, we had so much in common but she only wanted quick sex. Granted, it said so on her bio but I hoped something would come out of it. We slept together once and now she completely ghosts me. I guess I didn't perform well lmao. I can only imagine her sitting on her phone crossing me off and choosing the next guy to bang.

Do people treat that app like a giant candy store? I deleted that shit asap and am done with all this fake, instagram, swipe and get laid bullshit.

 

[gunlovefiction]

Yeah tinder can't be healthy

 

[ProstatePuncher]

You don't need to get mad at the liberation of sex just because people don't want anything afterwards.

Just use other dating avenues. Tinder should always be considered as a "pump and dump" avenue, because it never advertised itself as otherwise.

 

[FUME5]

Uh

 

[FloatOn]

at least you got laid though right?

 

[____]

Umm... you got what was advertised

 

[Zhukov]

Granted, it said so on her bio...

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Dude.

I mean, I'm sorry you're disappointed, but you were informed of what you were getting into.

 

[Kor of Memory]

I met an amazing woman, we had so much in common but she only wanted quick sex. Granted, it said so on her bio but I hoped something would come out of it. We slept together once and now she completely ghosts me. I guess I didn't perform well lmao. I can only imagine her sitting on her phone crossing me off and choosing the next guy to bang.

Do people treat that app like a giant candy store? I deleted that shit asap and am done with all this fake, instagram, swipe and get laid bullshit.

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Dude, come on.

 

[CortexVortex]

Try OkCupid instead

 

[Khanimus]

Granted, it said so on her bio but I hoped something would come out of it

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lol

 

[CrazyAndy]

Tinder is great but it might not be for you.

 

[cupcakeunicorn]

she only wanted quick sex. Granted, it said so on her bio but I hoped something would come out of it

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This is your problem. She was honest and upfront with what she wanted. Were you?

 

[mazi]

i'm on her side on this one, she said she just wanted sex on her profile, it's not her problem you assumed it'll turn into something more.

 

[shnurgleton]

Do people treat that app like a giant candy store?

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Yes. Tinder is for hookups dude not sure what you expected especially so given what the profile said

There are other apps out there you know. Many are geared for people actually seeking relationships

 

[John Kowalski]

But she said it?

 

[Deleted member 5359]

why won’t woman b my property

 

[Doctor_Thomas]

Isn't Bumble the new app for actual dating?

 

[Sanjuro]

I recommend using this app called Tinder. It will help you get better at sex.

 

[tolkir]

First time I see someone complaining because the bio says the truth.

 

[HamSandwich]

Congrats on the sex?

 

[Jarrod38]

That's why I use Farmers Only and date Miss Chili Cook Off

 

[NO!R]

we had so much in common

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only wanted quick sex.

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Yeah, dude... You'll find people are very agreeable when they're looking to get in your pants.

 

[entremet]

Yes. Tinder is for hookups dude not sure what you expected especially so given what the profile said

There are other apps out there you know. Many are geared for people actually seeking relationships

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I've known a few who have met serious folks on there.

 

[Gifmaker]

Met girlfriend through it, the app is fine. You're doing it wrong OP if you are mad for getting into something you knew beforehand what you were getting into.

 

[mazi]

I can only imagine her sitting on her phone crossing me off and choosing the next guy to bang.

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also this is quite insulting and you shouldn't judge her if she wants to do that. none of your business, really.

 

[Woolley]

Tinder is fine, your approaching it in an unhealthy way. Your being told up front that your getting something but you still assume your getting something completely different.

 

[shnurgleton]

I've known a few who have met serious folks on there.

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Yeah it's not unheard of but it seems like the exception, not the rule. OP is better off on a multitude of other services

 

[Khanimus]

 

[Ikuu]

Honestly, what is wrong with some of you?

 

[Piccalilli Shinpads]

OP caught feels; awww.

 

[Kthulhu]

You got what she said you were gonna get. Maybe you should've asked her if you had a chance.

 

[Terminus]

You wouldn’t have even known she existed without it, but you’re mad at it because she decided she doesn’t want to get to know you better?

 

[Elynn]

She (or anyone else) doesn't owe you anything. She was apparently very clear in her intentions, your fault for expecting anything else and coming here to bitch about it.

 

[Daysean]

lmao catching feels

 

[P-MAC]

Dawg, you shouldn't be offended by this at all.

Firstly, it's an app where you swipe whether you want to talk to somebody or not based entirely on aesthetics.

That's always going to be a good place to get laid and never going to be a good place to find a relationship.

I'm sure people have and do, but one night stands are pretty much the point.

Also just because she ghosted you doesn't mean you performed badly, it just means she wanted something casual and wasn't looking for a connection. Which she made clear beforehand, meaning you had no right to expect otherwise.

Imagine if this happened the other way around gender wise, most guys would have no qualms saying "this bitch is crazy catching feels over a one night stand" no matter how much they had in common - judging a woman for dong the same thing is ehhhh.

 

[MercuryLS]

Try OkCupid instead

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Cosign, met my wife on there.

 

[IsaOfTheWorlds]

Well, I mean... it's your fault, though? She said on her bio she only wanted sex; your expectations were your own fault. You had no reason to believe you could something serious happen when she clearly didn't want something serious, and you're complaining despite the answer being spelled out before you asked: "not interested".

You're being kind of a fucking NICE GUY right now, bub.

 

[Galkinator]

Stealth brag thread

 

[Rassilon]

Congrats on the...

non-sex?

 

[Nightbird]

I met an amazing woman, we had so much in common but she only wanted quick sex. Granted, it said so on her bio but I hoped something would come out of it. We slept together once and now she completely ghosts me. I guess I didn't perform well lmao. I can only imagine her sitting on her phone crossing me off and choosing the next guy to bang.

Do people treat that app like a giant candy store? I deleted that shit asap and am done with all this fake, instagram, swipe and get laid bullshit.

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OP, based on your username I think you're from Germany right?

Tinder, Lovoo and Badoo are seen as hook-up apps.

It's not impossible to find a partner there, but you'll be more successful treating it as "candy store" or apllication for a quick one-time job.

Okcupid is much better for finding actual dates. Sure it was waaay less user than the three I mentioned above, but you'll be more successful at finding actual dates. For now tough.

 

[Deleted member 15428]

If you're not meant to be together, be happy it ended quickly

 

[FF Seraphim]

Some people just want sex. Its not their fault you wanted more when they clearly stated what they wanted.

 

[Assenzio]

I mean she fucking told you and still you are surprised? How is this tinder's fault?

 

[SuperiorTrashTalk]

I met an amazing woman, we had so much in common but she only wanted quick sex. Granted, it said so on her bio but I hoped something would come out of it. We slept together once and now she completely ghosts me. I guess I didn't perform well lmao. I can only imagine her sitting on her phone crossing me off and choosing the next guy to bang.

Do people treat that app like a giant candy store? I deleted that shit asap and am done with all this fake, instagram, swipe and get laid bullshit.

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Wait, so this woman told you she only wanted to hookup and so you hooked up but you’re mad that she didn’t want more? That sounds like a you problem.

Yeah Tinder can be shit sometimes. It can be shit a lot of times. But this is a really bad example of that. I thought this was gonna be about the crappy secret ranking system or the paid features that don’t really help you but are designed to tempt you to pay into them.

 

[Real]

I met an amazing woman, we had so much in common but she only wanted quick sex.

Granted, it said so on her bio but I hoped something would come out of it.

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[Scarlet Spider]

OP wanted some hand holding. Comfort him, Era.

 

[Imp the Dimp]

Best app ever.

 

[DonaldKimball]

You got what she said you were gonna get. Maybe you should've asked her if you had a chance.

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Well I did, she said we could hang out and proceeded to block me an hour later. I wasn't even through my front door before it happened lmao. Yeah, I get that she was upfront and I wasn't but I kinda liked her. A lot. It thought there was a teeny tiny chance for something more.

 

[DIE BART DIE]

I met my girlfriend on there and we've been together 4 years.

The fact is, this girl was pretty transparent about what she wanted and you ignored it.

 

[IsaOfTheWorlds]

It thought there was a teeny tiny chance for something more.

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That's still your fault and your problem, and not a negative reflection of her or the platform. This thread is just somehow radiating incel energy despite the fact you got laid.