These threads always turn into the subject of shota/loli. Always.
Like there's an axe to grind. I think I have a little bit of my own for this subject.
It's a miracle I'm not permabanned yet. I should probably check out for at least a few hours to play a video game or something, lest I tempt fate yet again.
Your persecution complex is not actually an argument. Nobody argued against banning you for your avatar.
However, that you cannot distinguish between porn of children and porn involving adults is deeply concerning.
It is possible to portray young characters without hypersexualizing them. It is possible to portray women without portraying them as children.
That you cannot even see the possibility of that is seriously the most concerning thing of all. I have watched anime for ages now, and played anime-style games for a similarly long amount of time. Oddly, in older anime, this was not a general problem. It was easy to tell what character was adult and what character wasn't. This means that it is
a conscious choice to portray female characters as hypersexualized children. It is not a natural law that forces all anime art to be that way. No artist has to do it. The style works just fine if you don't do it.
In fact, not doing so all the time would be generally better, because you'd have some variety for a change.