This just reminds me of a mate of mine that was trying to get me to read a bunch of books written by people who I, to be frank, thought were total idiots. He'd read and really enjoyed them, and with the kind of person I am he swore that if I gave them a shot, I'd really dig them. I hadn't tried reading any, so it's not like my opinion was based on anything, right?
What got him to understand why I wouldn't was actually really simple: why the hell would I spend my time doing something I don't think I'd enjoy when I could instead be doing something out of the endless pile of things I think I would enjoy but haven't gotten around to yet?
There's so much media in the world, and there's so many game series I haven't even touched yet that I'm sure I'd love if I just found the time. But between my job and managing my mental health, my free time has become very particular. If I'm not using it well, I get stressed out, and I know that's dumb, but knowing that doesn't stop me being stressed. I want to do things I enjoy, and neither VR nor my mates favourite self-help books are particularly appealing to me. I just can't see any reason why I would try them instead of finally playing a Resident Evil game, or trying to put together a proper D&D campaign, or getting back into reading Marvel comics, or learning some more Chopin pieces on the piano.
There's not enough time, nor mental endurance, for anyone to try everything. We have to pick and choose what we do, and getting all judgy like this just comes across as needlessly shitty. We already live in a world where companies are trying to monopolise our free time, we shouldn't be doing it to each other too.