I'm not letting this comment chain go.
This is the comment chain between Hollywood Duo and '3y Kingdom
The original thread was locked and there is no point in going over the reasons it was locked. What matters is the discussion here about parenting so use your own imagination on what would warrant this chain. The scenario you should be thinking of is that you are a parent raising a child that increasingly shows behavior that is a danger to even your own family members.
[edit]When I say things have reached a point that even your own family is being threatened I'm talking about it has gotten to a point your child since a teenager has started verbally assaulting immediate members and has gotten into physical confrontation with friends, relatives and strangers at school.
You had previous signs of problems around when they hit puberty but even with all you could do to address those problems then it spiraled out into these immediate threats to the rest of the family.
The discussion I'm focusing on is whether or not parents should always be held responsible when things get this bad. If you do believe they are responsible what could you have done better than already attempting to use multiple therapists, increasing the levels of which you monitor your children with each new incident and having heart to heart conversations.[/edit]
Personally I've held the attitude that a parent is ultimately responsible for how a child comes out but today I've come to agree with RedMercury's assessment.
Personally while professional help is also needed I would take additional time off from work to drill down into my kid's reasoning for doing the things they do. I would question why they did every little thing that builds up to such a serious problem that I would have to be worried about the safety of everyone else in the family.
As much as I would like to believe you can plan ahead to be an amazing parent certain scenarios are too crazy to deal with because there isn't any sufficient ways to get prepared beforehand.
This is the comment chain between Hollywood Duo and '3y Kingdom
The original thread was locked and there is no point in going over the reasons it was locked. What matters is the discussion here about parenting so use your own imagination on what would warrant this chain. The scenario you should be thinking of is that you are a parent raising a child that increasingly shows behavior that is a danger to even your own family members.
[edit]When I say things have reached a point that even your own family is being threatened I'm talking about it has gotten to a point your child since a teenager has started verbally assaulting immediate members and has gotten into physical confrontation with friends, relatives and strangers at school.
You had previous signs of problems around when they hit puberty but even with all you could do to address those problems then it spiraled out into these immediate threats to the rest of the family.
The discussion I'm focusing on is whether or not parents should always be held responsible when things get this bad. If you do believe they are responsible what could you have done better than already attempting to use multiple therapists, increasing the levels of which you monitor your children with each new incident and having heart to heart conversations.[/edit]
Personally I've held the attitude that a parent is ultimately responsible for how a child comes out but today I've come to agree with RedMercury's assessment.
Personally while professional help is also needed I would take additional time off from work to drill down into my kid's reasoning for doing the things they do. I would question why they did every little thing that builds up to such a serious problem that I would have to be worried about the safety of everyone else in the family.
As much as I would like to believe you can plan ahead to be an amazing parent certain scenarios are too crazy to deal with because there isn't any sufficient ways to get prepared beforehand.
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