One thing I think most of us have noticed going about our lives is the prevalence of "white fragility". Even those of us on the left, or even people who would consider themselves not racist in the least fall victim to it at points.
https://www.newyorker.com/books/pag...vents-white-americans-from-confronting-racism
White fragility can manifest in several ways, none of them good and all of them a large stumbling block to moving forward with ending or even lessening racism and the racial divide, such as how many white people have a propensity for getting defensive when white people as a group are criticized, or how many white people have the urge for diversity only when they are missing out.
It's hard to have any discussion about racial issues when one side is constantly on the defensive and are unable to see things from the perspective of another person who does not share the color of their skin.
My question to you, Era, is this: How do we combat the defensiveness? Do you share the belief it is a prevalent issue? Have you found yourself internalizing criticism against white people as a whole when it happens?
Edit: Here is a great video posted by Spinluck
And there are also 2 wonderful videos posted below by DigitalOp
In more than twenty years of running diversity-training and cultural-competency workshops for American companies, the academic and educator Robin DiAngelo has noticed that white people are sensationally, histrionically bad at discussing racism. Like waves on sand, their reactions form predictable patterns: they will insist that they "were taught to treat everyone the same," that they are "color-blind," that they "don't care if you are pink, purple, or polka-dotted." They will point to friends and family members of color, a history of civil-rights activism, or a more "salient" issue, such as class or gender. They will shout and bluster. They will cry. In 2011, DiAngelo coined the term "white fragility" to describe the disbelieving defensiveness that white people exhibit when their ideas about race and racism are challenged—and particularly when they feel implicated in white supremacy. Why, she wondered, did her feedback prompt such resistance, as if the mention of racism were more offensive than the fact or practice of it?
https://www.newyorker.com/books/pag...vents-white-americans-from-confronting-racism
White fragility can manifest in several ways, none of them good and all of them a large stumbling block to moving forward with ending or even lessening racism and the racial divide, such as how many white people have a propensity for getting defensive when white people as a group are criticized, or how many white people have the urge for diversity only when they are missing out.
It's hard to have any discussion about racial issues when one side is constantly on the defensive and are unable to see things from the perspective of another person who does not share the color of their skin.
My question to you, Era, is this: How do we combat the defensiveness? Do you share the belief it is a prevalent issue? Have you found yourself internalizing criticism against white people as a whole when it happens?
Edit: Here is a great video posted by Spinluck
And there are also 2 wonderful videos posted below by DigitalOp
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