so a discussion came up in the dating thread about making "cold approaches" on women going about their day
in non-PUA terms, what this means is striking up conversations with random women you happen to see on public transport, at the shop, in the town square, in the library or whatever, with the intention of getting a date, or at least a phone number. rather than reserve this to people who have given signals they're interested, the idea is to it enough times that just by sheer numbers, eventually you'll hit up people that are interested
on the one hand, some men say they have had success this way. on the other hand, a lot of women feel unsafe when they can't go about their daily lives without being approached by strangers who they don't know whether they'll be normal or a psychopathic stalker, and it actually limits what they can do in their spare time, as some avoid just going out to not have to deal with this stuff
the response in the dating thread was quite one-sided. but so was also the gender breakdown of the people who responded
for this reason, i'm making a new thread to see what ERA at large think about it, with its more balanced gender ratio than that thread in particular
in non-PUA terms, what this means is striking up conversations with random women you happen to see on public transport, at the shop, in the town square, in the library or whatever, with the intention of getting a date, or at least a phone number. rather than reserve this to people who have given signals they're interested, the idea is to it enough times that just by sheer numbers, eventually you'll hit up people that are interested
on the one hand, some men say they have had success this way. on the other hand, a lot of women feel unsafe when they can't go about their daily lives without being approached by strangers who they don't know whether they'll be normal or a psychopathic stalker, and it actually limits what they can do in their spare time, as some avoid just going out to not have to deal with this stuff
the response in the dating thread was quite one-sided. but so was also the gender breakdown of the people who responded
for this reason, i'm making a new thread to see what ERA at large think about it, with its more balanced gender ratio than that thread in particular