Women speak out against sexual harassment during pilgrimage in Mecca

Oct 27, 2017
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It started with revelations by victims of sexual assault and harassment in Hollywood. Now Muslim women are speaking up about their experience of assault during the Umrah and Hajj pilgrimages to Mecca.

“I’ve experienced it [sexual harassment in Mecca] twice," Salma Omar, a 33-year-old teacher and mother of triplets from Cairo, told Middle East Eye. "The first time I was in my early twenties, and while doing Umrah, a guy started touching me from behind.”

Such revelations follow testimonies emerging from American celebrities, with some Muslim women using the #MosqueMeToo to talk about sexual assault while in Mecca.

“The second time was during the Hajj a few years later," Omar continued. "When I was doing the Tawaf around the Kaaba, a guy kept following me and rubbing up against me. At first, I thought it was a mistake especially given the context.

“It was so crowded, I couldn’t turn around to see who it was at first, but when eventually I did, I saw a guy staring right into my eyes and smiling. [The assault] must have continued for about five or 10 minutes as I kept trying to reach the rest of the group I was with.

“I felt terrified. This incident definitely scarred me for life.”

Many women who spoke to Middle East Eye said that their experiences had traumatised them and that the problem persists because there are few avenues to hold offenders to account.

“You would expect this to happen anywhere but in Mecca,” added Omar, who said she felt humiliated and baffled by the incident, leaving her unable to respond.

As the birthplace of Prophet Muhammad and the site of his first revelation of the Quran, Mecca is regarded as the holiest city in Islam and a pilgrimage to it, known as the Hajj, is obligatory for all able Muslims.
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This is pretty crazy. You spend a considerable amount of money (for many, life savings) and jump through a bunch of scheduling hoops to take a once in a lifetime pilgrimage (well, at least for Hajj, if not Umrah) and then pull shit like this? I mean, even if you're a terrible person, surely you can turn it off for a few days, right?

That's not even considering ruining the victims' own pilgrimages (and lives).
 
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Sure, if it was actually real.
I mean, they ended up spending drastic amounts of money and take time from work over 40 days (over 5 weeks) to make this once in a lifetime pilgrimage.

Surely they know according to the Qu'ran, it would void their pilgrimage because of the actions they committed, when they should remain abstinence from all materialistic and pleasurably desires?

Otherwise, why go to that extent when the pilgrimage is a huge burden on your financial and personal security?
 

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Wouldn't this void their pilgrimage and thus, they would be sent to the Hellfire?
If they would actually believe in their religious teachings, maybe. Probably a muslim or better, several muslims who believe in different strains of their belief should answer this.

However: As we have seen from human history, religion is often used as a tool to get power, stay in power and to do atrocious things. Just look at the massive amount of pedophilic rape by christian religious leaders during the last 50+ years. The witch hunts. The werewolf hunts. The crusades. Or, looking at a relatively new „religion“: The mafia that calls itself Scientology.

I think it’s always good to be wary of institutionalized religion and especially of people heavily invested in these systems.

That does not mean that they all are bad people, just for the record, before someone goes all in at #notallcatholics or #notallmuslims.
 

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Unfortunately I've experienced this too.

Someone started touching me from behind in a crowded elevator when I was 13 years old during my Umrah there.
 

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If they would actually believe in their religious teachings, maybe. Probably a muslim or better, several muslims who believe in different strains of their belief should answer this.

However: As we have seen from human history, religion is often used as a tool to get power, stay in power and to do atrocious things. Just look at the massive amount of pedophilic rape by christian religious leaders during the last 50+ years. The witch hunts. The werewolf hunts. The crusades. Or, looking at a relatively new „religion“: The mafia that calls itself Scientology.

I think it’s always good to be wary of institutionalized religion and especially of people heavily invested in these systems.

That does not mean that they all are bad people, just for the record, before someone goes all in at #notallcatholics or #notallmuslims.
Rad, bro. Tip fedora much? Every time anything remotely negative happens in a religion, opium of the masses! Tool of the rich! This is a human problem. If you have any groups together, there inevitably will be problems. We can do a checklist of all the crimes, programs and massacres done in the name of non-belief as well and it wont do any good. Its human nature to build groups.
 

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Rad, bro. Tip fedora much? Every time anything remotely negative happens in a religion, opium of the masses! Tool of the rich! This is a human problem. If you have any groups together, there inevitably will be problems. We can do a checklist of all the crimes, programs and massacres done in the name of non-belief as well and it wont do any good. Its human nature to build groups.
I usually disagree with you 99% of the time about religion but this time you're right (except for your usual both sides - " non-belief " is just as bad - argument). I don't think it has anything to do with religion. But yeah maybe (i know it won't) it will help some realize that the whole " Women should dress modestly " ideology won't shield them from sexual harrassment or worse. Even in the holiest of places men will find a way to target women even if they are covered from head to toe.
 

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I remember hearing about this back in the 2010, i think that some muslims would be surprise as it's difficult to imagine somebody who would use such a journey to indulge into sexual harrasement, but it must not be forgetten that religion, and Islam is not safe from that, is often lived as a social phenomena than a faith. A lot of people just go there because it's the thing you're suppose to do, like your first communion or your confirmation in the Catholic religion.
 

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Glad they are speaking out against it. It's not exclusive to religion at all, some people are generally just bad at being human.
 

KmA

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I was holding my mom's hand as we were circling the Kaaba and someone grabbed her inappropriately twice... It's like disgustingly common and it's so crowded sometimes you never can see who did it.
 

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Not been to Mecca myself yet but it’s the only location of praying in all of islam
where segregation doesn’t really exist when praying and then this happens where ironically men and women who come to cleanse their sins and yet we see men sinning