Never. Anyone with any sort of transferrable disease can stay away from me.
Except for Alzheimer's.
Except for Alzheimer's.
So if you have an outbreak when you're in labor they gotta do a c section? No shit?It's not necessarily just 'catching' it that can be problematic during a birth, it's having an outbreak of any variety, whether it's your first or third or what have you. But, it does necessitate a C section if that ends up being the case.
Yes, as the HSV can be pretty bad for a newborn infant. If there's no outbreak though, there's no issue, and there's medication that very easily makes it never outbreak.So if you have an outbreak when you're in labor they gotta do a c section? No shit?
It's not necessarily just 'catching' it that can be problematic during a birth, it's having an outbreak of any variety, whether it's your first or third or what have you. But, it does necessitate a C section if that ends up being the case.
Because of the herpes?Good point. My wife actually did have that happen, and had a c-section for our first because of an outbreak.
Either way, none of this is (IMO) good reason to ignore a promising relationship, much less treat someone poorly. It might turn me away from a casual hookup, but I also don't do casual.
All this being said, I won't pretend that it isn't nice to no longer have to worry about it, or talking about it with new partners, since my wife and I don't have a sexual relationship anymore.
Genital herpes is nothing when there's no breakout, ofc I would. Don't like 1 in 5 Americans have it? I can guarantee at least 1 poster in this thread who says no has it without knowing.
Poor woman.
Personally, I don't know. It's a cross that bridge when you get there type of thing. Never had to deal with it myself yet.
Which is funny because HIV is probably more manageable than herpes is. Someone's whos is undetectable straight up can't transmit the virus.
Yeah, I don't see a problem with it as long as they're taking steps to reduce your risk of contracting it. It's a shame how herpes can completely wreck someone's dating life (not to mention their self-esteem), especially when you consider how many people have herpes (genital or otherwise).Sure ... if you educate yourself, you know they can lower the viral load with medicine making it very difficult to infect their partner.
HIV treatment progressed a lot in 30-40 years.Which is funny because HIV is probably more manageable than herpes is. Someone's whos is undetectable straight up can't transmit the virus.
Some people are still worth it.Much like HPV, HSV can still be transferred even if you "bag up".
A significant number of people have oral or genital herpes. I think the answer depends on whether you are looking for a hookup or a relationship.
I wouldn't be surprised if less than half do actually...less chance of exposure. Not trying to be super snarky, but based on the threads I've seen, some of y'all don't get out much.It's so common more than half of you in this thread have herpes.
That's an awful story and I genuinely feel bad for her... But no, I wouldn't.
That's an awful story and I genuinely feel bad for her... But no, I wouldn't.
Genital herpes is nothing when there's no breakout, ofc I would. Don't like 1 in 5 Americans have it? I can guarantee at least 1 poster in this thread who says no has it without knowing.