That's why you spartan kick the parents into the sea to join their kid.The people trying to steal seats from kids would get into big fights with the parents. Chaos would reign.
Their kids can sit on their laps.The people trying to steal seats from kids would get into big fights with the parents. Chaos would reign.
Isn't there some myth (may or may not be true) that the reason for "women and children first" is that otherwise the men just shoved women and children out of the way and got on the lifeboats before them?
I think it was back in the day, chivalry. Children still
Had their lives ahead of them and women could continue to have children.
This idea of chivalry at sea has gained mythological status, but you're the first person to examine if it's true for many other maritime disasters. What did you find?
We went through a list of over 100 major maritime disasters spanning three centuries to see if we could find data on survival rates of men and women. We ended up with data on 18 shipwrecks, involving 15,000 passengers. In contrast to the Titanic, we found that the survival rate for men is basically double that for women. We only have data on children for a limited number of shipwrecks, but it is evident that they have really bad survival prospects: just 15 per cent.
What about the noble ideal that the captain and crew put the passengers first and go down with the ship?
What we can see clearly is that the crew were more likely to survive than passengers, with 61 per cent surviving, compared to around 37 per cent of male passengers. On average, the captain was more likely to survive than the passengers.
So this notion of chivalry at sea is a myth?
Yes. It really is every man for himself.
Why do you think we bought into the "women and children first" belief?
The Titanic has been so extensively studied and it confirmed the myth. There was little empirical evidence against it. Lucy Delap of Cambridge University argues that this myth was spread by the British elite to prevent women obtaining suffrage. They said, look at the Titanic, there is no reason to give women the vote because men, even when facing death, will put the interests of women first.
Is there though ? Let's be real.
Oh I get what you mean, I have intervened in similar situations. I think there is a parental instinct that kicks in. But I wonder if it's different if there is higher risk. Like the old man just jumped in to water, because maybe the risk isn't as great, compared to running inside a burning home, for a stranger's child
LMAO!!! I knew this was coming and I still hollered!
I think this is where I land. If I didn't have kids, I'd like to think I would let the kid go in place of me - but my life isn't about me alone anymore.
he could probably fit 12 kids in his place on the lifeboat, and he'd still be like "fuck em, kids can float anyway."
The core of the question is "under duress, would you choose your life over a random kid?" which is an unlikely scenario, but not too absurd. I think I'm more likely to be in that scenario than somehow outside a burning building where both my dog and a stranger were trapped under mysterious circumstances (probably after being struck by lightning and the victim of an islamist terror attack.)I mean the thought experiment is already pretty absurd and the point is to get to your core views on this kind of exact thing right? If I'm being asked to sacrifice myself for someone else, then in my view, I'd need to understand what that meant. I'd need to understand who the kid is to make a decision like that, because my desire to make that decision needs to be strong enough to overwhelm my base sense of self preservation right?
I mean, if you have to weigh how much you value your life over the kid's, I understand that. But there's a definite idea of "I save myself because I can rationally determine an objective difference in worth in human life" floating around here. You can see it in other topics, ranging from silly hypotheticals like these to topics about crime and justice. It's something I notice in places with larger populations of internet atheists.
Does you presume your gf would also rather she live than you (and 'most women would agree')?Women control the population. Ten men one women you get one kid in a year. Ten women one man you get ten kids. Women have and always will be more important to population until we get artificial wombs so they get saved first. Plus I'd much rather my gf live then me in a life or death situation and I think most guys would agree.
I'm an atheist and don't believe in an afterlife but voted for saving the kid above myself.The core of the question is "under duress, would you choose your life over a random kid?" which is an unlikely scenario, but not too absurd. I think I'm more likely to be in that scenario than somehow outside a burning building where both my dog and a stranger were trapped under mysterious circumstances (probably after being struck by lightning and the victim of an islamist terror attack.)
I mean, if you have to weigh how much you value your life over the kid's, I understand that. But there's a definite idea of "I save myself because I can rationally determine an objective difference in worth in human life" floating around here. You can see it in other topics, ranging from silly hypotheticals like these to topics about crime and justice. It's something I notice in places with larger populations of internet atheists.
I think this is where I land. If I didn't have kids, I'd like to think I would let the kid go in place of me - but my life isn't about me alone anymore.
depends on the situation really,(do I have kids, do they, are they a healthy person, etc)to The people who would save the kid, would you do the same for any random adult? If not, what's stopping you from throwing someone else out of the lifeboat and saving both yourself and the kid?