As a designer, if someone called my design trash I'd assume they had a limited vocabulary, but I wouldn't be particularly insulted. The most insulting/hurtful critiques are usually verbose and informed.If you design something people call it trash, you don't think it's insulting?
Well I felt excluded from the talk from the thread title, so....
OP first post was asking for them to be treated like real people literally.
Why did you feel excluded? Plenty of other males have entered this discussion without issue. Also what would the point of a thread with this title be if it was ONLY directed at women? It's clearly meant to explain a woman's position to those who may not understand it clearly (i.e.- men).