This, I've had some success with women on online venues and I'm not a particularly outstanding looking guy, average I'd say. I just tried to make my write-up a break from the norm and the kicker is, every time it's been her that's initially messaged me.
If you use the mindset that it's the women that do the choosing things get less frustrating. I used to message first but I either got no reply could not get the schedule to arrange a chat or the conversations were like pulling teeth. I took the fishing approach, it worked a lot better.
Basically what Foxx said, just try and keep your mind off of your ex. Meet new people, try new stuff, or just go out with friends and just do things you love. Whatever helps, and with luck you'll find yourself thinking about your ex less and enjoying life more.
Solve that by blocking the number. That will help you speed up the process.
I think 2-3 dates to see if you like them is good. I'm assuming the last girl you dated, you dated for longer so maybe it's not best to compare so early on. I think strong feelings and connections form over time. That said if you really felt no interest at all then don't go out with them again.
Yes this is a bit too much. It's only been one date! If this like after your 4th date then no it's not weird, but your 1st?!
They are possibly, but not absolutely, negatives.
It potentially can be. Being too attached can cause problems if the other wants more space. Especially when one wants to move the pace faster than the other is comfortable with. People have boundaries. It's something that can develop into even worse problems down the road. I think it's definitely not something to completely write her off for right now but it's something to be cautious about.
That sounds like a really nice date. I can see why she's excited to see you again but even still she is coming on a bit too strong. Not enough to cancel a second date but i'd Be mindful of her. I guess I was trying to see if her behavior seemed overly attached.
Haha no kidding, it's my first time dating more than one girl at once too. I've been dating the first one for almost 2 months and the second for a month.
If they aren't physically attracted to you in the first place, I doubt they're going to be 'wooed' by your intellect.
Good.
Yeah that's how it went for me. Though I actually have been on more dates with the second girl as the first one has a super busy schedule and usually cancels on me. It is expensive but both girls I'm dating are really forward about splitting so it's not as bad as it could be. I kind of was apprehensive about it at first too, I mainly did it because I thought I should. I actually quite like it, like if I was only dating the first girl, I would be frustrated only seeing her 4 times in 2 months but now I can be casual about it.
If this is a one night stand, that's acceptable but not when this girl is getting closer and closer to you. She wants you to stay with her and sex/intimacy is just probably one of the things that she must do hoping that you'll stay and change your mind.
