Forget about anime. Older Manga's is where it's at. I like to read Berserk, Blame!, Akira, Vagabond, Fist of the North star and Monster. They're all fantastic and don't have any of the bullshit that we see nowadays.
Uhhh...about Berserk...
Rape is heavy in the manga. In one of the later chapters, a troll rapes a woman in front of the townspeople. There's also Schierke who is basically like 12 years old "accidentally" falling on an injured Guts naked after she attempts to bathe Casca.