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KHarvey16

Banned
Oct 27, 2017
9,193
This tweet is a public statement. Look, I'm not mad at Wil and I get where he's coming from but he goofed on this one. Either wait until you're ready to say something valuable or don't say anything at all. And don't refer to this piece of shit in public as Your "best friend."

You're being completely unreasonable.
 

M.Bluth

Member
Oct 25, 2017
4,263
This tweet is a public statement. Look, I'm not mad at Wil and I get where he's coming from but he goofed on this one. Either wait until you're ready to say something valuable or don't say anything at all. And don't refer to this piece of shit in public as Your "best friend."
To be fair, and who knows if it turns out whether he deserves it or not, if he took too long to comment, people would start theorizing and maybe bring out the pitchforks.
 

Kevers

The Fallen
Oct 29, 2017
14,579
Syracuse, NY
As I posted earlier, I wondered about Hardwick's standing with NBC since he was getting some air time over there and well...

https://www.nbc.com/the-wall/credits/host/chris-hardwick

His profile is still up on the website and he had another gig in the works with Mark Burnett
https://www.hollywoodreporter.com/live-feed/chris-hardwick-nbc-partner-series-awesome-show-990984

Mark Burnett also won't release the Apprentice tapes of Trump apparently being racist as fuck, so I doubt he'll give a fuck about Hardwick.
 

Volimar

volunteer forum janitor
Member
Oct 25, 2017
38,608
There's been some noise that Wil himself has some shit, and there's no way he didn't know what he was really like.


He's been pretty outspoken about his problems with depression and anxiety. I'm not going to say for certain that he didn't know but I've never been a fan of guilt by association and I'm not going to assume shit just because.
 

Volimar

volunteer forum janitor
Member
Oct 25, 2017
38,608
Let's stop being adversarial with each other. Chris is the asshole here, not us, not Chobot, not Wheaton.

Also:

 

Emerson

Member
Oct 25, 2017
521
USA
Oh boo fuckin hoo. It's fine to feel that way in private but don't come out with tepid fucking statements like this and bemoan how this is affecting You. Your "best friend" ruined this woman's fucking life for 3 years and is an absolute monster. I have sympathy for Wil that this is hard for him, but if you're going to say anything publically you should say something that supports survivors.

Internet society is at a point currently where a prominent figure who remains silent can and likely will be lambasted just as viciously as the actual abuser. So I don't really think staying silent is an option for him, even though it absolutely should be.
 

Stouffers

Banned
Oct 25, 2017
3,924
User Banned (1 Week): Thread Derail, history of similar behavior and accumulated infractions
I once bought Chobot a coffee, she didn't offer to pay for it and right when I handed it to her promptly spilled it all over the floor.
 

Mechanized

Member
Oct 27, 2017
3,442
Wow. He is a total piece of shit. Hope his new girl isn't subjected to the same trash. Being controlling or setting boundaries is one thing, but he was a total shitbag. Really inexcusable behavior. This girl seems like a real sweetheart, I hope she finds a good person.
 

PlanetSmasher

The Abominable Showman
Member
Oct 25, 2017
115,916
Let's not start internet detective-ing about Wil Wheaton, folks. Seriously. Not the time for this shit.
 

Deleted member 19844

User requested account closure
Banned
Oct 28, 2017
3,500
United States
Oh boo fuckin hoo. It's fine to feel that way in private but don't come out with tepid fucking statements like this and bemoan how this is affecting You. Your "best friend" ruined this woman's fucking life for 3 years and is an absolute monster. I have sympathy for Wil that this is hard for him, but if you're going to say anything publically you should say something that supports survivors.
You say you have sympathy for Wil but everything about this comment says you don't.
 

Gwenpoolshark

Member
Jan 5, 2018
4,109
The Pool
To be fair, and who knows if it turns out whether he deserves it or not, if he took too long to comment, people would start theorizing and maybe bring out the pitchforks.

This is the only reasonable explanation for a tweet like this, but it still doesn't make Wil's response any less blundered. It doesn't matter how close of friends they were or how hard this is for him. If you can't promptly and conclusively condemn abuse, then you've got a problem. It's a disappointing and crappy response. I understand it's hard and I expect he'll follow it up with something more substantive, but as it stands it's pretty weak.
 

Volimar

volunteer forum janitor
Member
Oct 25, 2017
38,608
Wow. He is a total piece of shit. Hope his new girl isn't subjected to the same trash. Being controlling or setting boundaries is one thing, but he was a total shitbag. Really inexcusable behavior. This girl seems like a real sweetheart, I hope she finds a good person.


It's Patty Hearst's daughter Lydia.
 

PlanetSmasher

The Abominable Showman
Member
Oct 25, 2017
115,916
This is the only reasonable explanation for a tweet like this, but it still doesn't make Wil's response any less blundered. It doesn't matter how close of friends they were or how hard this is for him. If you can't promptly and conclusively condemn abuse, then you've got a problem. It's a disappointing and crappy response. I understand it's hard and I expect he'll follow it up with something more substantive, but as it stands it's pretty weak.

I get what you're saying, but I think the only reason he said what he said at all was because people were probably screaming at him about it and he felt like he needed to say something so people knew he wasn't just ignoring the topic.
 

KHarvey16

Banned
Oct 27, 2017
9,193
This is the only reasonable explanation for a tweet like this, but it still doesn't make Wil's response any less blundered. It doesn't matter how close of friends they were or how hard this is for him. If you can't promptly and conclusively condemn abuse, then you've got a problem. It's a disappointing and crappy response. I understand it's hard and I expect he'll follow it up with something more substantive, but as it stands it's pretty weak.

What are you doing? What about "best friends since childhood" don't you get? You really need to relax.
 

Gwenpoolshark

Member
Jan 5, 2018
4,109
The Pool
I get what you're saying, but I think the only reason he said what he said at all was because people were probably screaming at him about it and he felt like he needed to say something so people knew he wasn't just ignoring the topic.

Agreed. Sorry for the derail. This thread should be about supporting Chloe and (to a lesser extent) excoriating Hardwick for being an abuser. Nonetheless I think it's fair to take some issue with Wil's response. Leave it at that.
 

Lothars

Banned
Oct 25, 2017
9,765
Agreed. Sorry for the derail. This thread should be about supporting Chloe and (to a lesser extent) excoriating Hardwick for being an abuser. Nonetheless I think it's fair to take some issue with Wil's response. Leave it at that.
I don't and I think you are being unreasonable. Hardwick deserves all the shit he gets for this and Chloe needs the support but Wil's response is fine and doesn't deserve issues taken with it.
 

ReconYoda

Lupe’s Angel
Banned
Oct 27, 2017
164
This is the only reasonable explanation for a tweet like this, but it still doesn't make Wil's response any less blundered. It doesn't matter how close of friends they were or how hard this is for him. If you can't promptly and conclusively condemn abuse, then you've got a problem. It's a disappointing and crappy response. I understand it's hard and I expect he'll follow it up with something more substantive, but as it stands it's pretty weak.

If my best friend of several decades was accused of shit I'd wait to make statement too.
 

Hex

Banned
Oct 25, 2017
3,415
The fact that he is even responding to this gives me mixed feelings.

On one hand, Chris was his best friend. On the other, it feels like this is going to be "I'm sad and believe Chloe but this is not the Chris I grew up with".
In my life, one of the strongest traits to have as a friend is the ability , strength and willingness to call your friends out on their shit more than anyone else.
Everyone needs to be put in check sometime in their life, I hope and expect my friends to do this and they have when needed.
 

M.Bluth

Member
Oct 25, 2017
4,263
This is the only reasonable explanation for a tweet like this, but it still doesn't make Wil's response any less blundered. It doesn't matter how close of friends they were or how hard this is for him. If you can't promptly and conclusively condemn abuse, then you've got a problem. It's a disappointing and crappy response. I understand it's hard and I expect he'll follow it up with something more substantive, but as it stands it's pretty weak.
Ehh... I don't know about you, but if one of my friends, some of which I've been close friends with for nearly 20 years now, turned out to have done something similar, I'd be too shook to come up with a different response on the same day.
 

ReconYoda

Lupe’s Angel
Banned
Oct 27, 2017
164
In my life, one of the strongest traits to have as a friend is the ability , strength and willingness to call your friends out on their shit more than anyone else.
Everyone needs to be put in check sometime in their life, I hope and expect my friends to do this and they have when needed.
True. But I'd do it in private.
 

Buckle

Member
Oct 27, 2017
41,166
I'm just glad women are finally speaking about scumbags like Hardwick and many more. I hope he's fired from wherever he's working on.


She's the daughter of John Dykstra, the Oscar winning VFX supervisor of Spider-Man 2.
Phew. Thats a relief.

Wouldn't wish growing up a child of Lenny Dykstra on anyone. That guy was fucking nuts.
 

Inugami

Member
Oct 25, 2017
14,995
That's saddening. I actually enjoyed him on 'at' midnight... but hey, an asshole is an asshole so throw him on the pyre and watch him burn.
 

Beartruck

Banned
Oct 25, 2017
4,939
Hardwick's personality always reeked of being manufactured and inauthentic so this isn't too surprising.
 

ZeoVGM

Banned
Oct 25, 2017
76,219
Providence, RI

FFNB

Associate Game Designer
Verified
Oct 25, 2017
6,142
Los Angeles, CA
A friend of mine had some unpleasant experiences with Chris Hardwick, so I'm not surprised he's like this with women. My friend is a guy, by the way, and this was more on the business end than the personal end.

I'm glad these assholes are getting called out for their deplorable behavior. He sounds like a complete douchebag.
 

Lord Brady

Banned
Oct 26, 2017
8,392
I dont know either of these people, but I think I saw Chloe once during the launch of the Xbox One at E3. I might be misremembering it, but I seem to recall her interviewing Major Nelson about Titanfall. He was wearing a stupid hat. I remember thinking she seemed "realer" than the people MS had hired for the show, which if I remember right was Kevin Pereirra and Jessica Chobot.
 

sredgrin

Attempted to circumvent ban with alt account
Banned
Oct 27, 2017
12,276
I wonder if this is why he moved away from the Nerdist stuff. It felt weird he decided to essentially dump his huge (for a podcast network) brand and re-name his show. Wonder if his being a creep was a known factor among the higher ups and they wanted to distance themselves before it all imploded.
 

rude

Member
Oct 25, 2017
12,812
The first time I told him I loved him after 6 months of hoping he'd say it first, his response was (and I quote), "I think I love you too, f****t."

I...
 

Skelepuzzle

Member
Apr 17, 2018
6,119
If you're fucking someone who is motionless I'm going to go ahead and call that pretty rapey. I don't understand how you could make what was an allegedly accurate comment about your rapeyness and get away with calling it a joke. It doesn't matter at all at that point.
 
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HP_Wuvcraft

Member
Oct 26, 2017
4,267
South of San Francisco

-Pyromaniac-

Member
Oct 25, 2017
7,381
Has the dude still not said anything? must be hitting up his publicist and attorney's or something HARD. Not that anything he says will make up for it but it's pretty shocking imo. Need to see him squirm about it.