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Jeronimo

Member
Nov 16, 2017
2,377
I've never seriously collected things, but it usually feels good downsizing and decluttering. The only "collection" I currently have is some older PS3/PS4 discs, and now vastly prefer digital for the lack of clutter.

We recently bought a house and one of our goals was to not clutter it up with unnecessary furniture, decorations, etc.
 

Aztechnology

Community Resettler
Avenger
Oct 25, 2017
14,146
I pretty much sell almost everything when I'm done with it, if I ever want it again truly. I'll find it, and buy it again. Freedom of space, clutter, and more economic freedom as well.
 
Oct 30, 2017
3,324
I collect nothing, but after a house fire 10 years ago that wiped me out 100% minus a basket of laundry I learned to live with little. I tend to donate or throw things away if I haven't touched them in 6 months. I'll take the tax write offs every day.
 

Replicant

Attempted to circumvent a ban with an alt
Banned
Oct 25, 2017
9,380
MN
I wouldn't say embarrassing, but to me, having an emotional attachment to any non-living thing is weird.

It's all just stuff.

To use your game examples, I buy a game, play it, and then get rid of it.

What's the point of keeping it? To look at it? Why would you want to look at a plastic box? That's what I mean, when I say it's weird behavior.

Capitalistic cultures want you to consume endlessly and trap you with your worthless junk.

I believe that's why people form unhealthy attachments to their stuff, and I choose not to participate in it.

It's not just gaming/nerd stuff, either. I think "car people" are deranged. A car is a machine designed to transport you from Point A to Point B, as efficiently and safely as is reasonably possible. I feel no more attachment to my car than I do my toothbrush or refrigerator.

I have emotional attachments to things I had as a child. I collect retro games. And mostly games I played it rented or had experience with.
 

chezzymann

Banned
Oct 25, 2017
4,042
I have lego everywhere and its awesome. I would be super sad at future me if i ever decided to get rid of it.

I wouldn't say embarrassing, but to me, having an emotional attachment to any non-living thing is weird.

It's all just stuff.

To use your game examples, I buy a game, play it, and then get rid of it.

What's the point of keeping it? To look at it? Why would you want to look at a plastic box? That's what I mean, when I say it's weird behavior.

Capitalistic cultures want you to consume endlessly and trap you with your worthless junk.

I believe that's why people form unhealthy attachments to their stuff, and I choose not to participate in it.

It's not just gaming/nerd stuff, either. I think "car people" are deranged. A car is a machine designed to transport you from Point A to Point B, as efficiently and safely as is reasonably possible. I feel no more attachment to my car than I do my toothbrush or refrigerator.

I like to play with lego, they dont just sit on my shelf. I'm right here watching the expanse and fucking around with my lego Wall-E.
 

cvxfreak

DINO CRISIS SUX
Moderator
Oct 25, 2017
945
Tokyo
I used to be an avid collector of Resident Evil games, and had over 400 of them in my collection at its peak. Then in 2015, I just let go of a bulk of the collection except for a small number that had a particular significance (signed by creators, in particular).

Since then, I've succeeded in reducing all sorts of clutter in my life. It feels great, especially living in Tokyo, where apartments are tiny. I now purchase digital versions of games I know I want to keep and for items like clothing, I spend a bit more on new items that are higher quality and last longer.
 

Shaneus

Member
Oct 27, 2017
8,900
Subbing to this thread, and buying that ebook. So much shit to throw away, mostly tech stuff like cables, power adapters and old HDDs, I need to get inspired to just bin (or donate) shit.
 

Vern

Banned
Oct 26, 2017
5,097
Minimalism is the best.

Everything I own fits in two suitcases (except for my bicycle)... real freedom! Currently downsizing even more, just quit my job so I can get rid of my suits and formal shoes soon, and gonna move somewhere tropical so I can get rid of winter clothes.

My possessions are my clothes, assorted cameras and lenses, laptop, iPad, phone, bike and Switch. And one Samus Amiibo I got as a gift lol. That's it I think. Don't even have a car or a tv anymore.

Edit: also to the people with collections that are saying they'll never get rid of them... please get rid of them when you start to age, when you pass away your kids are gonna hate you for you forcing them to throw away a bunch of snes games and cds and legos and DVD's and amiibos...
 
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PKrockin

Member
Oct 25, 2017
5,260
Edit: also to the people with collections that are saying they'll never get rid of them... please get rid of them when you start to age, when you pass away your kids are gonna hate you for you forcing them to throw away a bunch of snes games and cds and legos and DVD's and amiibos...
I laughed out loud at the thought of people throwing away grandpa's Amiibo collections. Really underscores how stupid that craze was.
 

jon bones

Member
Oct 25, 2017
26,031
NYC
Collecting nothing was one of the most freeing things I learned to do.

It helps to live in NYC for so long, because you are forced to keep only what you really need & love.
 
Oct 26, 2017
3,434
Edit: also to the people with collections that are saying they'll never get rid of them... please get rid of them when you start to age, when you pass away your kids are gonna hate you for you forcing them to throw away a bunch of snes games and cds and legos and DVD's and amiibos...

Nah. I'mma keep them in case I come back from cryogenic freezing.
 

gutter_trash

Banned
Oct 26, 2017
17,124
Montreal
I'm stuck with all these crappy CDs from 20 years ago.

I used to buy tons of crap, now I want less of everything.

I want to live in a de-cluttered minimalist universe
 

PixelParty

User requested permanent ban
Banned
Oct 26, 2017
345
Subbing to this thread, and buying that ebook. So much shit to throw away, mostly tech stuff like cables, power adapters and old HDDs, I need to get inspired to just bin (or donate) shit.

Here's the cliff notes version, minus her new-age woo-woo-ing:

Go through your stuff by category. Get EVERY last item that fits in that category into one pile - don't leave things in other rooms. Really root through closets to get everything. The point is to look at your giant pile of t-shirts/books/video games/collectible figurines/photographs/shoes/golf clubs/etc. (whatever category you have decided on sorting).

Once you have your pile, hold each item individually in your hands. If it doesn't "spark joy", throw it the fuck out (or donate, but Marie says they don't have that concept in Japan).

Keep necessary items that don't necessarily "spark joy", like your toothbrush. Marie says for these items, think about what would happen if you got rid of it. The avoidance of those consequences should "spark joy" in you.

Get rid of your no-joy items as soon as possible. Don't put it off.

Rinse and repeat for every single category of stuff you own.

Once you have decided what to keep, place all similar items in the same spot. Don't put some items in one place, and more of the same items in another place. Keep your stuff tidy and organized. You can search YouTube for videos on the Kondo way to fold clothes and whatnot.

Take care of your stuff. Clean it regularly and repair when necessary.

Don't buy more stuff.

The end. I have just saved you $10.
 

Shaneus

Member
Oct 27, 2017
8,900
Here's the cliff notes version, minus her new-age woo-woo-ing:

Go through your stuff by category. Get EVERY last item that fits in that category into one pile - don't leave things in other rooms. Really root through closets to get everything. The point is to look at your giant pile of t-shirts/books/video games/collectible figurines/photographs/shoes/golf clubs/etc. (whatever category you have decided on sorting).

Once you have your pile, hold each item individually in your hands. If it doesn't "spark joy", throw it the fuck out (or donate, but Marie says they don't have that concept in Japan).

Keep necessary items that don't necessarily "spark joy", like your toothbrush. Marie says for these items, think about what would happen if you got rid of it. The avoidance of those consequences should "spark joy" in you.

Get rid of your no-joy items as soon as possible. Don't put it off.

Rinse and repeat for every single category of stuff you own.

Once you have decided what to keep, place all similar items in the same spot. Don't put some items in one place, and more of the same items in another place. Keep your stuff tidy and organized. You can search YouTube for videos on the Kondo way to fold clothes and whatnot.

Take care of your stuff. Clean it regularly and repair when necessary.

Don't buy more stuff.

The end. I have just saved you $10.
Hah, that's awesome! Cheers :)
 

Jaymageck

Member
Nov 18, 2017
1,946
Toronto
I collect 'experiences'. Playing a game is an experience. I play it, I +1 to the game experiences in my life.

Physical property is a means to an end. My devices allow me to perform many tasks. My chair provides me comfort while performing tasks. And so on.

Physical property as an end in itself is not what I personally live for.
 

Briareos

Member
Oct 28, 2017
3,042
Maine
I boxed up a bunch of shit and gave it away last weekend. It felt great. Just no point keeping it around. I still have a bunch of gaming magazines from the 90s. I flip flop on if I want to get rid of those because once in a blue moon I open one up and have a trip down memory lane. But I don't know if it's worth the space they take up.

I like to find youth groups centered around gaming and donate it to them. I had like 15 years worth of game development hoodies I was going to give away on ERA to raise money but it ended up being too much hassle so I just put them all in a bag and gave them to a friend for his daughter's game development bootcamp. I have a bunch of old gaming magazines I should give them (VG&CE! Next Generation!), thanks for the reminder.

I gave several hundred pre-gen8 games to our local library. I've got a bunch of other odd stuff I need to figure out what to do with, like a signed Destiny collector's edition, a launch team customised PS4 that I no longer use, etc.
 

OsakaDon

Member
Oct 29, 2017
965
Osaka, Japan
I have never been a crazy maniac collector but I do like to collect Alien monster figures. But I'm a very selective collector now. I will only get something if I really find it to be unique. But deep in my mind I wish I had a second house where I could buy and display all of my finds.
But I'm very rational and practical. I know that it's a waste of money and space.
 

Cipher Peon

One Winged Slayer
Member
Oct 25, 2017
7,829
Collecting nothing was one of the most freeing things I learned to do.

It helps to live in NYC for so long, because you are forced to keep only what you really need & love.
I've lived in NYC all of my life and I've never felt forced to keep what I really need and love...the latter which I assume is items of extreme importance and not materialistic love for stuff like my amiibo, figures, and game collection!
 

TI92

Alt account
Banned
Oct 25, 2017
5,598
Yep, a minimalist life is a lot nicer. I look forward to the day you no longer have to own clothing but somehow download them onto your skin.
 

Lebon30

Member
Oct 27, 2017
2,287
Canada
So I took all 400, put them in a box, rolled it to the trash chute, and threw them in by the handful. 15 years of collecting gone in moments.

NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

I would personally taken them off your shoulders. I'm serious :(
I only collect CDs and just do that instead of giving them to somebody who would have loved taking care of such colelction is extremely disheartening. :( :( :(
 

TI92

Alt account
Banned
Oct 25, 2017
5,598
NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

I would personally taken them off your shoulders. I'm serious :(
I only collect CDs and just do that instead of giving them to somebody who would have loved taking care of such colelction is extremely disheartening. :( :( :(

Can't encourage your own obsessions :p
 

Slappy White

Member
Oct 27, 2017
3,208
I sold a collection of about 400 dvds about 12 years ago and never really got into collectin anything since. I can't stand the clutter.
 

Valkerion

Member
Oct 29, 2017
7,246
I never got deep into collecting anything really. I tried with trading cards but they were too expensive. Growing up not well off makes it hard to get the collecting bug as a kid. However when I got my first job I kinda went nuts with the little disposable income I had. Started collecting pokemon cards and goods for no real reason other than I could now.

Seems like a common thing though.
 

Chasing

The Fallen
Oct 26, 2017
10,738
I've always thought about de-cluttering but when I actually get to sorting my stuff out I realise I'm always afraid to let things go. Even stuff that has no intrinsic value, like my PC games that already had the codes entered into steam/origin/etc.

Keep necessary items that don't necessarily "spark joy", like your toothbrush. Marie says for these items, think about what would happen if you got rid of it. The avoidance of those consequences should "spark joy" in you.

This really sound like a good way to change how I deal with it. A sort of hard rule to determine what goes and what stays. Will try and put it into practice when I move later in the year.
 

Marvie

Member
Oct 25, 2017
13,712
Sold off pretty much all of my physical games and movies. It was a pain in the ass moving them and it was so nice to have all the extra space.
 

Loxley

Prophet of Truth
Member
Oct 25, 2017
9,623
I've always thought about de-cluttering but when I actually get to sorting my stuff out I realise I'm always afraid to let things go. Even stuff that has no intrinsic value, like my PC games that already had the codes entered into steam/origin/etc.



This really sound like a good way to change how I deal with it. A sort of hard rule to determine what goes and what stays. Will try and put it into practice when I move later in the year.

One other classic approach to de-cluttering is the common minimalism "30-Day Box Challenge". It's pretty simple - box up everything you haven't used or done anything with in the last 1-6 months (books, movies, games, etc) and put it all away for 30 days. Anything you didn't need to use or take out of the box in those 30 days probably isn't that vital to your every-day life and thus you can probably part with. If 30 days is too soon, you can always extend it to six months or even a year. Chances are you will completely forget about most of the stuff you have in storage, which likely means it didn't mean all that much to you to begin with. The whole process helps you realize which stuff is actually important to you and makes you happy.

I did this two years ago and it was pretty freeing - especially with my books and movies. Once I'd gone back to everything I'd kept in storage, I was shocked at how much of the stuff I'd boxed up I didn't miss. It was a pretty stark realization of how much stuff I was just accumulating and not doing anything with.

I kept the stuff that I did miss, but got rid of the rest. It was a great feeling.
 

Nick Nehidnyk

Banned
Oct 29, 2017
1,806
I know this thread kinda died but I'm still not over it. Can we talk about the egregious claim in this thread that collecting music is "embarrassing?" The claim that embracing the art form that many scholars describe as the most fundamental indicator of humanity is "embarrassing" now? Active listeners are "embarrassing," everyone, take note!

That, combined with the absurd conflation of minimalism and environmentalism, makes this thread absolutely infuriating to me. Minimalism, as grossly characterized in this thread, is an offshoot of disposable culture; if you don't want something anymore, you get rid of it. Hundreds of CDs? Into the trash they go, I'm a "minimalist" in a first-world country, who gives a shit where they'll end up?

I'm not articulating my point too well. I don't know if I even have one. But it's one in the morning, I'm a budding insomniac, and the cocktail of proud wastefulness, close-mindedness, and sweeping judgment of other people, suspended in that ubiquitous ResetERA smugness, pisses me off irrationally.

tJ8smuY.jpg

EDIT: thread is not at all dead, my bad
 

bremon

Member
Oct 27, 2017
7,899
Edit: also to the people with collections that are saying they'll never get rid of them... please get rid of them when you start to age, when you pass away your kids are gonna hate you for you forcing them to throw away a bunch of snes games and cds and legos and DVD's and amiibos...
Or their grief will be debilitating and they'll hold onto a pile of trash for ages because it belonged to their parents. My point of reference; my mother, who only now, 15 years later, is recycling shit that my grandparents didn't really care about, like a box of Reader's Digests, because they belonged to her mom and dad. That's a burden I'm certain my grandma and grandpa wouldn't have placed on their kids if they had the foresight to see the consequences of holding onto a lifetime worth of stuff beyond the point of getting any utility out of it.

As for the people in this thread who enjoy their collections; fuck yeah. More power to you. The entire point is to get happiness out of the things you own. The point some of us are trying to make is that many of us came to a point of realization where we learned that what we actually found great joy in was only a fraction of the things we collected. If you get utility and joy from your collection; fantastic. I'm just saying I didn't get what I felt was a proportional amount of joy out of $5000+ worth of blu rays, etc.

Adopting a more minimalist lifestyle and replacing impulse purchases with a "grace period" of around 3 weeks where I purchase something if I still want it after that amount of time has saved me a decent amount of money. That money has gone into a TFSA and RRSP. That collection of investments has brought me far more joy than all the stuff I used to keep on shelves lol.

That, combined with the absurd conflation of minimalism and environmentalism, makes this thread absolutely infuriating to me. Minimalism, as grossly characterized in this thread, is an offshoot of disposable culture; if you don't want something anymore, you get rid of it. Hundreds of CDs? Into the trash they go, I'm a "minimalist" in a first-world country, who gives a shit where they'll end up?
I'm not advocating throwing things in the garbage, and I certainly wouldn't judge you for what you find happiness in. What I'm trying to advocate for in this thread is for people being more discerning with regards to the value their purchases add to their lives. I found joy in the idea that things I didn't use or enjoy anymore could be at worst, recycled and at best, sold or given to someone who would find far more happiness in those items than I did.

If you find immense joy in owning $5000 worth of vinyl records, for example, my hope for you would be that your love for that format lasts decades and that the value you get out of what you spent is far more than the dollar amount you spent.

I'll have to read my earlier posts again but I hope I wasn't among the posters coming off as smug and judgmental.
 
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Oct 27, 2017
12,238
I know this thread kinda died but I'm still not over it. Can we talk about the egregious claim in this thread that collecting music is "embarrassing?" The claim that embracing the art form that many scholars describe as the most fundamental indicator of humanity is "embarrassing" now? Active listeners are "embarrassing," everyone, take note!

That, combined with the absurd conflation of minimalism and environmentalism, makes this thread absolutely infuriating to me. Minimalism, as grossly characterized in this thread, is an offshoot of disposable culture; if you don't want something anymore, you get rid of it. Hundreds of CDs? Into the trash they go, I'm a "minimalist" in a first-world country, who gives a shit where they'll end up?

I'm not articulating my point too well. I don't know if I even have one. But it's one in the morning, I'm a budding insomniac, and the cocktail of proud wastefulness, close-mindedness, and sweeping judgment of other people, suspended in that ubiquitous ResetERA smugness, pisses me off irrationally.

tJ8smuY.jpg

If you enjoy collecting [insert whatever], hey, more power to you.

What OP did, effectively throwing away potentially thousands of dollars, well, that on them and indeed a waste. But we dont know where their mind is on. Maybe they felt so burdened by those items that they decided to throw it away.

I do agree to an extent with you, minimalism is not living like a caveman. It is living with what you need and truly appreciate what you have.
 

Nick Nehidnyk

Banned
Oct 29, 2017
1,806
If you enjoy collecting [insert whatever], hey, more power to you.

What OP did, effectively throwing away potentially thousands of dollars, well, that on them and indeed a waste. But we dont know where their mind is on. Maybe they felt so burdened by those items that they decided to throw it away.

I do agree to an extent with you, minimalism is not living like a caveman. It is living with what you need and truly appreciate what you have.
yeah, maybe my perception of "collecting" is different than other people's, too

I "collect" CDs. I own about 30.
 

99Luffy

Banned
Oct 27, 2017
1,344
Im keeping my blurays. I think theyll still look good upscaled when laser 4k projectors come down in price.
 
Oct 27, 2017
12,238
yeah, maybe my perception of "collecting" is different than other people's, too

I "collect" CDs. I own about 30.
Have you seen the AVGN videos where he shows his movie collection? There is a video of him, when he was younger, when he had about 15 VHS horror movie tapes. He says 'these are all the tapes that I will ever need'.

Now he owns a basement full of tapes, DVDs and Blurays.



And he still says that those 15 or so tapes are his 'crown jewel'.

I mean, shit, those are a lot of tapes. He seems to be pretty proud of his collection, and that is fine. But some of us just dont get that kick.
 

Nick Nehidnyk

Banned
Oct 29, 2017
1,806
Have you seen the AVGN videos where he shows his movie collection? There is a video of him, when he was younger, when he had about 15 VHS horror movie tapes. He says 'these are all the tapes that I will ever need'.

Now he owns a basement full of tapes, DVDs and Blurays.



And he still says that those 15 or so tapes are his 'crown jewel'.

I mean, shit, those are a lot of tapes. He seems to be pretty proud of his collection, and that is fine. But some of us just dont get that kick.

first off, damn, that'll be me, but with yacht rock

there's value in both living styles in the same way there is inherent value in open and closed floor plans

asserting the value of an alternative lifestyle is fine, especially given that runaway materialism is a problem for so many people, but there's been some smugness in this thread that really bothered me for some reason.

but I've been up too long anyway, this reflects more on my sleep cycle than the thread
 
Oct 25, 2017
955
I have an entire house full of stuff. It's not bad. I wish I had more time to use it . I've gotten rid of a lot over the past few years by selling stuff off, but I basically used the proceeds to buy more stuff. At this point I'm trying not to add more without removing stuff first. The stuff itself doesn't bother me I would be upset if some of it were stolen or destroyed, but most of it is things I've used and might use again sometime.
 

Kapryov

Member
Oct 27, 2017
10,147
Australia
I miss collecting music, there was something magical about scouring the internet for rare promotional CDs with slightly different edits or whatever. The CD format dying has gradually killed this.
That said, there was more fun in the quest than actually listening to the music I eventually obtained.

I still collect digital music, but it's not as exciting.
Need to get back into collecting something physical, it can be a real rush trying to dig up rare stuff.
 

Dark1x

Digital Foundry
Verified
Oct 26, 2017
3,530
There are points in the past where I've sold things in my collection and I've always come to regret it long term.

Now I'm glad I have a decent sized game collection as I not only enjoy using it but it's now part of my job! I also find the history behind this stuff so interesting - it's like a museum I can use.

I keep things really nicely organized, though, so it never feels cluttered. That's key for me, I think.
 

Shaneus

Member
Oct 27, 2017
8,900
Also, I need to do this with my Steam list. I wish there was a way to hide things so they never appear on any list (unless you go through a stupid number of steps to reveal them again).
 

Arthands

Banned
Oct 26, 2017
8,039
I'm curious, to everyone who says getting rid of collections has freed up space. If you got rid of your collections what are you going to do with that space?

If I got rid of all of my collections, I'd having a living room with a TV, game systems and couch with bare walls, no book shelves and nothing else in it.

Having more spaces around is rather eye pleasing, and you can always put a plant or hang a painting for decorative purpose.

Havent buy any games, dvd or music in physical format for years. Haven't buy a bluray before and dont intend to. I can just stream shows or music online. I still buy games during steam sales but have drastically cut down the amount of digital games i buy during those sales too. I am investing my free times in those hundred games worth of backlog instead.
 

RoninChaos

Member
Oct 26, 2017
8,338
I still love comics, books and movies when it comes to physical items. After that though, I don't do much else. Stopped with cds completely but only because I have a digital collection. For things like books I mainly do kindle books now but if I like the book I'll get a physical copy. And I still like Blu-ray and UHD quality way more than steaming.

I'd go all digital on console games if it was cheaper but I also don't trust ms, Sony or Nintendo not to fuck me over at some point and make it impossible to access my collection.
 

Grigorig

Member
Oct 30, 2017
696
Got rid of all my DVDs years ago. Only buy blurays if I love the movie and know I will rewatch. The games still kinda pile up but I throw out/give away any physicals that I end replacing on Steam/GoG or some remaster. Feels good!
 

entrydenied

The Fallen
Oct 26, 2017
7,572
Here's the cliff notes version, minus her new-age woo-woo-ing:

Go through your stuff by category. Get EVERY last item that fits in that category into one pile - don't leave things in other rooms. Really root through closets to get everything. The point is to look at your giant pile of t-shirts/books/video games/collectible figurines/photographs/shoes/golf clubs/etc. (whatever category you have decided on sorting).

Once you have your pile, hold each item individually in your hands. If it doesn't "spark joy", throw it the fuck out (or donate, but Marie says they don't have that concept in Japan).

Keep necessary items that don't necessarily "spark joy", like your toothbrush. Marie says for these items, think about what would happen if you got rid of it. The avoidance of those consequences should "spark joy" in you.

Get rid of your no-joy items as soon as possible. Don't put it off.

Rinse and repeat for every single category of stuff you own.

Once you have decided what to keep, place all similar items in the same spot. Don't put some items in one place, and more of the same items in another place. Keep your stuff tidy and organized. You can search YouTube for videos on the Kondo way to fold clothes and whatnot.

Take care of your stuff. Clean it regularly and repair when necessary.

Don't buy more stuff.

The end. I have just saved you $10.

Th "spark joy" method really doesn't work for me because 90% of the things I own spark joy in me. That's why I bought and kept them in the first place. I really need to start throwing things today though. I feel slightly inspired by the OP, even if it's just 10% of clutter. Even with digital collections I tend to go crazy when prices are low. Which explains my 700 games on Steam, that thankfully hasn't progressed that much for a while. I think I'm just an impulsive shopper sometimes.

Kondo's method is basically what my mum subscribes to in general. For her personal belongings, she seems to only own like 2 drawers of stuff that are not clothes or gifts. Clothes that she hasn't worn for 2 years usually gets given away. She always wondered why I don't throw away my dvds, games, books or cds once I'm done with me. When I was a child I would come back to find my things thrown away because she hasn't seen me play or use them for months :(

Like a bag of 15 transformers toys :( I don't have any childhood physical belongings.