Yeah, I spent over a $1,000 in preorders (Oculus Quest 2 & Accessories, Xbox Series X and 3 years of GamePass Ultimate) meanwhile we are in the middle of a living room redo and still need to buy furniture. I feel kind of like a bum having my family sit on an uncomfortable futon while I'm over here buying gadget. My wife did see how excited I was over the quest and the new generation of systems and gave me her blessing but I do feel a bit irresponsible. On the other hand life is short, I do work hard and I economize in many other areas (i.e. I've driven the same tiny hatchback for 13 years, I never buy full price games, I do the grocery shopping and my goal every week is to feed a family of 4 on less than $100 a week, etc.).