LOL what a cornball. She can get the fuck out. I just cum. It may be five minutes it may be 15 seconds... don't care. I'm not trying to he someone else in bed or put on some performance. I just let nature run it's course. Never had any complaints. You can always do other things and the second time around always goes long. It's just the way nature made us.
Yeah. When we first met and up to when I asked her out, I assumed she was older, and she assumed I was younger. Didn't discover our actual ages until talking during our date.
So how do they respond when you do it in 15sec or anything under 2min?
That's a very selfish way to approach sex. She dodged a bullet imo.
What a selfish attitude and combined with your history of unprotected sex it shows who you really are. Literally this post is "Fuck you I got my nut."
HAHAHA that'd have been a good idea if I had just denied being Chinese. Then again I'm pretty sure the dude had yellow fever and I can't really pass as a non-Asian..
Needless to say his comment made me even more angry than I already was about the firecrackers, so I acted even "less Chinese". I think he got a culture shock and that was that lol.
I've never had anyone walk out or get offended. I've only ever heard of this happening in movies. That is some bullshit if anyone does though (screw them) but it's their choice so go for it. No way am I ever apologizing for naturally letting my body do it's thing. I've came fast on several occasions especially the first time with someone I REALLY like and if it's the first orgasm I've had in a while. She usually just laughs... it is only weird and awkward if you make it awkward... the last long in bed macho bullshit is a creation of porn and media and ridiculous standards for what sex should be like. Calling it being a "fair lover" is really just laundering this problem through an entirely different issue. I'm not changing myself for anyone. Every woman I've been with after I took on this mindset has been cool with it since I am genuine about how I feel. You can kiss, cuddle and do other sex things until you're ready to do penetration again. Takes like 20 minutes of waiting. No way would I ever hold back a nut or apologize for cumming quick.
No it isn't.
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For pour future partners sake, I recommend kegals and masturbating more. Will make you last longer. It is selfish btw, but I always approach sex as an act of love. I guess if you just want to bust a nut you can do that.
stay mad boi. You're a grown married man (with a kid?) insulting people on the internet.
If having concern for the woman you could be spreading STDs to is "mad boi" well, I'm happy to be mad Boi. No insults just facts.
He said you can do other things though. He also said things could go better the second time around. I really think all he was trying to say was not to feel immense pressure to perform especially the first time. I don't know why you're turning it around into a bad thing but it sounds like you have a grudge on something he said before?
you say this like he said he just cums, rolls over and goes to bed. Even in the post you quoted he said he does other things until he's ready to go again.
It's a good skill I've been on the receiving end of, she's the one doing the work rather than me.
Huh never heard of Kegel exercises before. Will do that...
Nonsense. You both laugh it off, eat something, have a drink and try it a second time, lasting as long as you want.
Speaking of yellow fever, I'm Latino and an ex mistook me for being Filipino when she first met me. It was just a little awkward when she found out the truth. I mean by that point it didn't matter, but it felt a little strange you know?
Ok i have to tell you this. This is the worst feeling ever. I was talking to a girl at tinder and she said she dont want any relationship, just sex. Well perfect i thought and she looked real good and was a fitness instructor. We chatted a bit and she said i should come over to her apartment tomorrow. One more thing she said, can i see another pic of you? Sure I said and i sent a selfie.
What happens next? Well it appears she didnt like my pic. She said okay after receiving it and never replied to me again. What the fuck! I dont look like brad pitt but i dont consider myself ugly either. Talk about being snubbed :(
Well here is the pic
I would argue that it makes sense to have a hard preference for something that isn't changeable like height. If you were a tall girl and unattracted to short guys, you can never hope that their height changes....because it can't!
I agree this is rude. I do think it's perfectly fine if a girl asks politely how tall a guy is over social media if a date is being set up and height isn't mentioned anywhere on his profile. Mentioning it in person though is rude as hell especially if she didn't ask before and then went on a date with him. Just politely refuse a second date.
