So ERA let me get right to it. I'm in a good spot in life and I'm aware of it, but I'm still very much depressed and having a hard time coping right now. I figured I'd just share what my last year has been. I lost my last job and girlfriend right before summer. So losing the job at the time, I lost my friends who were mostly coworkers at the time. My best childhood friend stopped hanging out with me because what I assume was I recently before the breakup, I had removed her from my flight benefits and added my ex. (that didn't last long)
Well fast forward now, I got a better job in August, I'm saving up money and I'm still slowly getting through school....but I'm still not hanging out with too many people to take my mind off things. I mostly cut off contact with my ex, it was mutual, it faded away....and now she's moving back to NYC in a few weeks.
I just haven't had a big social circle lately to share anything with. The breakup still hurts, not cause I miss her specifically, I just miss having a best friend. I've made a somewhat new group of people lately who seem to be super accepting of me, but I've always been a loner and it feels weird being in a new circle.
So things are technically going well for me, but my depression just can't leave me alone. I'm 26 and still bite my nails to this day and have been since I could remember (at least 8 or 9 yrs old) I have a hard time dating, and meeting people. I don't wanna push these people away but I don't wanna let my anxiety and quick to judginess to hold myself back from getting close to others.
I don't know how to make my mind stop. I need medical help but I haven't made an appointment to the docs lately. I just feel so fucking weird how things are "good" in my life and here I am a fuckign sad sack of a mess who can't sleep. I'm gonna be tired for work tomorrow and I am longing for some catharsis or something with someone or a group of people special to me and its tough to go on mentally.
Edit: The bad habits are drugs and alcohol. I'm also having hard time sleeping because I'm trying to ween myself off Marijuana. I consume too much THC, and its tough to sleep with out it now. I already made less drinking a goal and that's not as much of a problem as the getting high is.
Well fast forward now, I got a better job in August, I'm saving up money and I'm still slowly getting through school....but I'm still not hanging out with too many people to take my mind off things. I mostly cut off contact with my ex, it was mutual, it faded away....and now she's moving back to NYC in a few weeks.
I just haven't had a big social circle lately to share anything with. The breakup still hurts, not cause I miss her specifically, I just miss having a best friend. I've made a somewhat new group of people lately who seem to be super accepting of me, but I've always been a loner and it feels weird being in a new circle.
So things are technically going well for me, but my depression just can't leave me alone. I'm 26 and still bite my nails to this day and have been since I could remember (at least 8 or 9 yrs old) I have a hard time dating, and meeting people. I don't wanna push these people away but I don't wanna let my anxiety and quick to judginess to hold myself back from getting close to others.
I don't know how to make my mind stop. I need medical help but I haven't made an appointment to the docs lately. I just feel so fucking weird how things are "good" in my life and here I am a fuckign sad sack of a mess who can't sleep. I'm gonna be tired for work tomorrow and I am longing for some catharsis or something with someone or a group of people special to me and its tough to go on mentally.
Edit: The bad habits are drugs and alcohol. I'm also having hard time sleeping because I'm trying to ween myself off Marijuana. I consume too much THC, and its tough to sleep with out it now. I already made less drinking a goal and that's not as much of a problem as the getting high is.