Fellow resetters. How did your experiences pan out? Did they have happy ending? Did someone end up catching feelings?
I'm asking because of a personal situation I'm in.
I've ever only had 2 FWB. One was an EX after our break up in her early 30s. We remained friends. We were horny. We had sex a few times then we gradually decreased the frequency and eventually stopped doing it because it felt weird to me at that point. So that lasted about a year I think. We're best of friends and we're both dating other people. It worked out perfectly!
The other is a 23 year old that I met on tinder on a vacation. She called loving relationships bullshit and just wanted sex. I was more than happy to oblige and before I left, she told me that she'll gladly bang me anytime we're in the same country as long as I don't tell her I'm engaged* (AKA: don't ask, don't tell) This has been going on for 15 months and the sex is wonderful but...
Half of me I can't help but think maybe she's deluding herself because she's young and will end up catching feelings for me and the other half of me thinks I'm being laughably arrogant and that I should take her at her word and respect her choices as an adult. That's the half I have been listening to. I'm here to seek confirmation that it's correct.
* I'm not engaged nor have a girlfriend so there is no infidelity going on here. Just clarifying.
I'm asking because of a personal situation I'm in.
I've ever only had 2 FWB. One was an EX after our break up in her early 30s. We remained friends. We were horny. We had sex a few times then we gradually decreased the frequency and eventually stopped doing it because it felt weird to me at that point. So that lasted about a year I think. We're best of friends and we're both dating other people. It worked out perfectly!
The other is a 23 year old that I met on tinder on a vacation. She called loving relationships bullshit and just wanted sex. I was more than happy to oblige and before I left, she told me that she'll gladly bang me anytime we're in the same country as long as I don't tell her I'm engaged* (AKA: don't ask, don't tell) This has been going on for 15 months and the sex is wonderful but...
Half of me I can't help but think maybe she's deluding herself because she's young and will end up catching feelings for me and the other half of me thinks I'm being laughably arrogant and that I should take her at her word and respect her choices as an adult. That's the half I have been listening to. I'm here to seek confirmation that it's correct.
* I'm not engaged nor have a girlfriend so there is no infidelity going on here. Just clarifying.