How is context completely lost on so many people?
My judgment and shaming is being done towards to the people advocating for an abortion based on the very limited information we have, which basically just paints a less-than-ideal picture and not something where people would be in danger from a health or financial perspective.
The reaction would be very different if this were a thread in which the woman came in asking for advice and being very worried about bringing a child into the world given whatever circumstances she might be facing.
every. single. time. someone gets an abortion, it means they weren't ready to have a child. how do you know? because they got an abortion.
the OP's girlfriend isn't going to see this topic and gifs and suddenly decide to abort. people are responding to what they themselves would do in this situation. do we need the OP's tax returns or entire life story to give advice? of course not, but they literally listed a few of the worst case scenarios to have a child in, so yes, people are going to respond with "abort if you can" and the like.
topic: for the love of zeus don't marry her, at least right now. it's her decision n regards to the child but you have say about getting married.