I notice lately I find myself getting really pissed off around here, some of you take what should be humour too far in my opinion and you know what, it really gets me to sometimes. I honestly blame my upbringing, my family weaponised sarcasm to a large extent and I fucking hate it, my whole life sarcastic put downs from my family. That shit for me it cuts deep.
Often I find this place brings back those bad memories and that's on me to deal with that shit, not ERA. I react too strongly as I feel in my mind like I have to defend myself.
There are times around here I feel decidedly unwelcome, even if meant as a joke I sometimes find myself having to defend the veracity of what I post. Every time someone casually calls another person a liar, or makes some throwaway disingenuous comment it brings me back to a time I really don't want to relive.
There have been many times I have wrote out a request to close my account and leave here for good only to think it over and decide to stay. But right now I'm pretty close to jacking it in for good or at the very least taking a somewhat lengthy hiatus. While I enjoy posting here, sometimes it's really not good for me, I take shit way too personally and I get drawn into arguments way too much for my own good.
For now I'll be around, but might be quieter than usual. I don't know, I think I might be addicted to being here given how much I free time I spend browsing here and how often I post.
Let me reiterate, this is my problem to deal with, not ERA's.
Often I find this place brings back those bad memories and that's on me to deal with that shit, not ERA. I react too strongly as I feel in my mind like I have to defend myself.
There are times around here I feel decidedly unwelcome, even if meant as a joke I sometimes find myself having to defend the veracity of what I post. Every time someone casually calls another person a liar, or makes some throwaway disingenuous comment it brings me back to a time I really don't want to relive.
There have been many times I have wrote out a request to close my account and leave here for good only to think it over and decide to stay. But right now I'm pretty close to jacking it in for good or at the very least taking a somewhat lengthy hiatus. While I enjoy posting here, sometimes it's really not good for me, I take shit way too personally and I get drawn into arguments way too much for my own good.
For now I'll be around, but might be quieter than usual. I don't know, I think I might be addicted to being here given how much I free time I spend browsing here and how often I post.
Let me reiterate, this is my problem to deal with, not ERA's.
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