I have never been in a pronoun announcement circle - clearly I need to up my woke game
Same.
Is this like something you do while you say your name and something about yourself?
"I'm TheMango55, I love cooking, and I go by he/him"
I have never been in a pronoun announcement circle - clearly I need to up my woke game
But at least German has a neuter gender, French doesn't have it at all. German has gender-neutral pronouns: es is singular and sie is plural. As I am not aware of the social implications, I don't know if that is actually considered a viable option though or if it's considered dehumanizing.
I'd almost rather have Blaire White in that role, as awful as most of her politics are.
what the fuck is this bullshit
"as bad as her politics are"
fucking lol
Also Contrapoints is now they/themwhat the fuck is this bullshit
"as bad as her politics are"
fucking lol
If people misgender you because you don't pass that's on you to fix somehow, and if you can't, then its probably time to consider other avenues for managing your dysphoria.
Also Contrapoints is now they/them
Also the real trans ambassador
So perfect
Are we really giving someone who says a trans woman "gives off agp vibes" the time of day?
Are we really giving someone who says a trans woman "gives off agp vibes" the time of day?
So because she passes, she can't bring up issues unique to people who pass? People are describing it as a mild inconvenience, but it's still othering. These women's attempt to be inclusive is doing the opposite and highlighting her as other. Even if it's a problem people would "love to have," it's still a problem and one worth mentioning.
There are trans drag queens. Miss Peppermint, Jiggly Caliente, Gia Gunn... and those are just the one's who have been on Drag Race. Wynn has referred to her own on screen looks as drag.Maybe because I'm straight cis dude but the fuck does drag queen aesthetic mean for a trans woman
Also Contrapoints is now they/them
Also the real trans ambassador
So perfect
Honestly, this seems like a Catch-22. Either one draws attention to the trans person and their trans-ness or one doesn't and runs the risk of misgendering.
Language isn't at a stage to accommodate gender neutral pronouns without some amount of clumsiness, and that isn't going to change overnight.
I didn't mean that it's difficult or inconvenient to use gender neutral pronouns more often, just that mistakes will happen and well-meaning people will correct themselves during this period when language itself is transitioning (pun not intended).To be honest, though, it kinda can change overnight. Some initial clumsiness is to be expected, I guess, but it doesn't take much work to get used to saying "they" more often.
Yeah. Clearly I'm saying you should shut up and agree. No room between "yass queen" and "she's bad and she should feel bad."I'm sorry i didn't know criticism wasn't allowed anymore. Just got to agree no matter what!
Anyway this was a bad take and she should feel bad about it.
Same.
Is this like something you do while you say your name and something about yourself?
"I'm TheMango55, I love cooking, and I go by he/him"
I'm not sure if OP is aware or why the thread wasn't updated, but Natalie had to close her twitter over the shit she got over this.
I'm not sure if OP is aware or why the thread wasn't updated, but Natalie had to close her twitter over the shit she got over this.
I knew the second I saw her post it that it was going to cause a fucking shitstorm, but not that bad. That's awful.I'm not sure if OP is aware or why the thread wasn't updated, but Natalie had to close her twitter over the shit she got over this.
:(I'm not sure if OP is aware or why the thread wasn't updated, but Natalie had to close her twitter over the shit she got over this.
i feel the same, but it wouldn't be surprising given all the ~criticism~ being lobbed at her from should-be allies. no room for being constructive here or promoting other voices to help represent such a broad, diverse group; nah just tear this lady down instead.I hope she doesn't quit making videos. She is an incredibly important voice.
There's three pages with numerous posts discussing it here. If you want to discuss the topic engage with those posts. The whining meta-commentary does nothing to help foster the discussion you're claiming to seek.i feel the same, but it wouldn't be surprising given all the ~criticism~ being lobbed at her from should-be allies. no room for being constructive here or promoting other voices to help represent such a broad, diverse group; nah just tear this lady down instead.
in any fast moving social moment yesterday's revolutionaries are tomorrow's reactionariesAs someone who isn't trans but is more interested in learning about the nuances in trans discourse, can someone give me an explanation as to why this caught so much heat? I understand she's a big voice in the LGBT YouTube community but based on the tweets I saw, it seemed all she was saying is that what the community at large has considered trans identity has changed significantly in the past decade and that it's sometimes difficult and strange for older generations of trans people to see how younger generations of trans express their gender identity. The tweets didn't come off as aggressive or dismissive, and she seemed like she was copiously aware of how she couldn't speak for non-binary people because she's not one and didn't come-of-age in a time where non-binary folks had a voice. She's not being suppressive, she's just outmoded. As an outsider looking in, I don't see how that's a controversial position to take. Like, of course there's inter-generational strife when it comes to how people perform their identities, that's how cultures work. The way I perform masculinity is different from my dad's which was different from his dad's and so on. It doesn't mean one of our versions of masculinity is oppressing the other. All the rhetoric I've seen on online makes it seem like she's like Graham Lineham which seems reductive, immature, and actively harmful.
the discussion here can be good and on twitter can be dozens of people telling her to kill herself.I'm not sure why people talk as though a discussion about an issue here is the same as people collectively harassing her directly on Twitter.
There's three pages with numerous posts discussing it here. If you want to discuss the topic engage with those posts. The whining meta-commentary does nothing to help foster the discussion you're claiming to seek.
As someone who isn't trans but is more interested in learning about the nuances in trans discourse, can someone give me an explanation as to why this caught so much heat? I understand she's a big voice in the LGBT YouTube community but based on the tweets I saw, it seemed all she was saying is that what the community at large has considered trans identity has changed significantly in the past decade and that it's sometimes difficult and strange for older generations of trans people to see how younger generations of trans express their gender identity.
The tweets didn't come off as aggressive or dismissive, and she seemed like she was copiously aware of how she couldn't speak for non-binary people because she's not one and didn't come-of-age in a time where non-binary folks had a voice. She's not being suppressive, she's just outmoded. As an outsider looking in, I don't see how that's a controversial position to take. Like, of course there's inter-generational strife when it comes to how people perform their identities, that's how cultures work. The way I perform masculinity is different from my dad's which was different from his dad's and so on. It doesn't mean one of our versions of masculinity is oppressing the other.
Considering all the highlighted points I find it hard to believe you're actually interested in learning over just having a pretence to tell people taking issue why their points have so far been reductive, immature and actively harmful.All the rhetoric I've seen on online makes it seem like she's like Graham Lineham which seems reductive, immature, and actively harmful.