We're gonna need to know what the legal age of consent in Middle Earth is to accurately judge this one.What if one is an 87-year-old Dúnedain getting together with a 2,700-year-old elf?
More seriously, I keep seeing people bringing up what 19 year olds should and should not be able to do as though that has any bearing at all in the conversation. The problem isn't the 19 wanting to be in a relationship with an 28 year old, they are 19 of course they are going to make poor decisions. The problem is the grown-ass, nearly-30-years-old adults who should know better not stepping away from this kind of thing. The fact that people keep trying to place the responsibility on the person just barely out of high school is a HUGE red flag.