I was shocked when you said you have 4 kids but you usually ride after they sleep so that's OK. I wonder what your partner thinks about this? Do they sleep early as well?
I rarely use Uber here in Brazil and generally during daytime I get pissed that drivers are so slow. I assume there are a bunch of people that think driving close to the speed limit is "too fast" (they probably never drove a car...) so drivers tend to drive waaay slower so that they get better ratings. Whenever I am paired with a driver that has the "safe driving" "skilled driver" (don't remember the exact wording) in the profile I am immediately pissed and know the ride will take 20-30% longer than the usual. At the same time I don't know how to politely say "why are you driving like a grandma?" so I just stay quiet and enjoy the extra 2-5 minutes of ride lol
Another reason I can think of is that drivers might think they are saving gas by driving slower (which in general isn't true). I assume you guys get paid better for mileage than for time spent so it doesn't make sense to be slower.
This happens more often where I live (600k inhabitants), when I am in a huge city Like São Paulo (20M+) they will drive at the usual traffic speed.
I have never tipped here, definitely find it weird that this is almost a necessity for the driver (or the waiter) to make a decent wage in the USA.
Random questions: have you been involved in a car accident while ubering? If so, does Uber offer anything for you? How often (if ever) you get traffic fines?
Yes, 90% of the time, my kids are sleeping. My wife goes to sleep at a regular time, but understands that I love driving. I might as well be playing golf, racquetball, and taking part in some other hobby, it just so happens that my hobby makes me money lol
I have heard from many riders over the year that may encounter many slow drivers, specifically on the interstate highway. I am not sure if people Drive slowly to try and engender positive feelings about their driving skills, or they think they'll make more money by doing so, but I don't think either is true. I drive at or above the speed limit on every Drive. I have a perfect rating at almost all times, with the only negative marks having come from people looking for a free ride.
I think if you said, "you can drive faster if you'd liek, I don't mind at all" it would be a clear indicator to the driver that he doesn't need to go slow to "impress" you,but maybe I'm wrong.
Tipping is 100% customary for restaurant service in the states due to the exploitation of the workforce. It is not necessarily "necessary" for gig work, but try getting a Doordash or Grubhub order accepted by a driver if you don't throw a tip on, it won't happen until or unless the companies take a loss on the delivery fee and pay more to the driver themselves, and that rarely happens.
On Uber and Lyft the drivers can't tell which riders will tip before accepting the ride. But, because about 50 to 60% of my riders do tip, I think it's a little annoying when difficult or desperate riders don't throw a few bucks of tip money on there to show their appreciation for me being out on a snowy night, or on a holiday, or Saturday night instead of going out partying myself. As I said before, though, I'll never rate anyone low because they don't tip. If Uber and Lyft did allow pre-tipping or showed the total ride estimate value before accepting the offer, I guarantee that riders would willingly pay more to get picked up and acceptance of rides would INCREASE (or the bad riders who scheduled shit rides would get weeded out of the system), and drivers would come back to driving, but there is a driver shortage all over for many reasons.
Never been in an accident in an Uber, I have witness several though. I keep my eyes peeled at all times, and especially through intersections, but even I have been incredibly lucky to have avoided what would have been bad wrecks. Admittedly, some of those would have even been my fault, although the majority were due to other drivers going through red lights, swerving into lanes, sliding on ice, etc.