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Because the rest is character assassination bullshit. Why do we need to hear about how Wade broke up Britney Spears and Justin Timberlake's relationship? She wants an audience so she can sling these victims through the mud. We don't need her to confirm shit, there are other people already corroborating this stuff.

If you see it like that, fine. I don't, but thanks for giving your insight
 

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If you see it like that, fine.

No, don't go all "this is just a difference of opinion" bullshit on me. Don't try this shit. What else could you call these kinds of claims beyond character assassination? You youself keep banging this really "character matters to me!" bullshit. If you can't even be honest enough with everyone in this topic to admit that you want to hear her talk, because character assassination actually works with you, when you've already said it in other ways through your other posts, then don't post at all. You're disingenuous as all hell.
 

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No, don't go all "this is just a difference of opinion" bullshit on me. Don't try this shit. What else could you call these kinds of claims beyond character assassination? You youself keep banging this really "character matters to me!" bullshit. If you can't even be honest enough with everyone in this topic to admit that you want to hear her talk, because character assassination actually works with you, when you've already said it in other ways through your other posts, then don't post at all. You're disingenuous as all hell.

Why would I willingly argue with someone whose completely volatile? I've engaged with other posters in this thread and in the one that was locked, and if I feel that I can have a discussion of all of the information we have I will do so. I don't see any point arguing with you. You've made up your mind about the case and the docs, so what exactly would there be to gain?
 
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She talked about how in the Doc, Wade made Neverland seem like it was a quiet place with only the kid and maybe his mom there. She talks about there being a bunch of kids at the same time in these situations. She essentially said there were almost always a lot of kids there at once



When it comes to the sex stuff it's his word. Most other people who have come out have said everything is more or less the same up to the sex stuff (which is what I've always disputed with the doc).

As I said before, you're taking Wade's word at face value and I'm not. I've watched the doc, got a bunch of other insight from the family, read a bunch into it. I'm well versed and my position is informed. I'm not trying to convince you that Wade is a liar or whatever. I don't care what you believe, but I just think it's weird to totally dismiss a point of view about a character who could have insight into someone's life. She knows Wade better than any of us do. If you want to dismiss her because you believe she wouldn't have any information into what Wade and MJ's personal time together was like, that's fine, but I don't think a couple who was dating for 7 years, someone and who Wade tried to reconnect with after MJ died (while he was married), would have no insight into each other. Like I'm not boosting her as a truth bomb for Wade, because I don't think it is. But character matters to me, and she helped inform some parts about Wade that wasn't known before
Any person with the last name Jackson be it Taj or Brandi calling these accusers liars is trying to save face. There's a myriad possible reasons why Michael could have set up Brandi with wade from covering for the abuse to providing an alternative after he "dumped" the little boy but his relationship with her was clearly outside of the scope of the documentary. I think it's hilarious you manage to somehow construct this narrative where character matters when Michael has repeatedly, consistently, and with almost shameless openness show himself to be a disgusting character.
 

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Why would I willingly argue with someone whose completely volatile? I've engaged with other posters in this thread and in the one that was locked, and if I feel that I can have a discussion of all of the information we have I will do so. I don't see any point arguing with you. You've made up your mind about the case and the docs, so what exactly would there be to gain?

You're not having a discussion, you're "just asking questions." Don't try and turn this into me refusing to consider the point, you can't even defend your own rationale. Again -- If it's just my own stubborn vantage point that is making me see Brandi as wanting to do nothing more than drag Wade's name through the mud, tell me how you see it? You see it as speaking his character, what the fuck is she speaking of? What insight is his affairs in his 20's providing you about his molestation when he was 7?

You're not being honest in your posts. You're arguing in bad faith.

All Brandi wants to do, is "He's no angel." I'm tired of this shit.
 

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Any person with the last name Jackson be it Taj or Brandi calling these accusers liars is trying to save face. There's a myriad possible reasons why Michael could have set up Brandi with wade from covering for the abuse to providing an alternative after he "dumped" the little boy but his relationship with her was clearly outside of the scope of the documentary. I think it's hilarious you manage to somehow construct this narrative where character matters when Michael has repeatedly, consistently, and with almost shameless openness show himself to be a disgusting character.

You shouldn't assume what my thoughts are about MJ himself. As far as your other point, sure if you want to discount them that's fine. I just want as much information about all of this as possible
You're not having a discussion, you're "just asking questions." Don't try and turn this into me refusing to consider the point, you can't even defend your own rationale. Again -- If it's just my own stubborn vantage point that is making me see Brandi as wanting to do nothing more than drag Wade's name through the mud, tell me how you see it? You see it as speaking his character, what the fuck is she speaking of? What insight is his affairs in his 20's providing you about his molestation when he was 7?

You're not being honest in your posts. You're arguing in bad faith.

I'm not "just asking questions". I've see the Doc, I believe MJ emotionally and psychologically abused these children. In this conversation between you and I, you are the issue. The doc asks us to believe the claims made by Wade and Jimmy. Why should I believe someone who calls themselves a "Master Manipulator"? If she's right, and he cheated on her with Brittney Spears to be relevant, and tried to ease his way back into her personal life when MJ died, that tells me that the person is capable of saying whatever he wants or doing whatever he wants to be relevant. Maybe that's not the case in reality, but when I don't find his words reliable, this is good insight and I can readjust expectations.

Believe me or not. Accuse me of arguing in bad faith or whatever, but I've been open and honest about my feelings about all of this all through the last thread, yet you're the only person with the problem with me. Chill dude
 

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He could've slept around with britney, Christina, Jlo, whomever. That doesnt change the fact that Michael molested him when he was a boy.
 

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He could've slept around with britney, Christina, Jlo, whomever. That doesnt change the fact that Michael molested him when he was a boy.

Whether this fact is a fact seems to be the crux of the issue, no? It's very difficult to avoid engaging with the overall credibility of an accuser when adjudicating whether to believe an allegation.
 

xxracerxx

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People always focus on Wade and not on Safechuck when trying to call into question the accusations.
 

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Wade is just more prolific. If you want to believe the Jackson's or by proxy, Ziegler, Safechuck: would not have been able to testify in 2005 because the judge had banned his testimony before the trial had started, Michael never called him to testify according to his lawyer, and apparently one of his family (could be cousin) called BS on his accusations (via twitter I think). You're going to have more for Wade just because he's been out in the open more, and seen with the Jackson family more.
 

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IMO he and Maculay were just too high profile for him to molest. I don't doubt Maculay is telling the truth when he says that he wasnt assasulted, and to my recollection he hasnt said that the other victims are lying or something like that.

Yeah. My point isn't that they're lying -- quite to the contrary, I agree that trying to use them as sources of evidence that the claims against MJ are trumped-up is deeply mistaken and does nothing to address the fact that there's a lot Jackson did sort of criminal penetration that should make it clear he's a predatory abusive figure. It also misses the point of anything that they have said about the matter, especially since at least Feldman has come out in support of the documentary.
 
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So I had to stop looking in on this thread because it was pretty gross seeing some of the twisting people were doing to defend MJ.

But I'm curious as to what the MJ defenders thought about him sending a film crew to video Safechuck... just cuz. What's the rationale there?
 

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Whether this fact is a fact seems to be the crux of the issue, no? It's very difficult to avoid engaging with the overall credibility of an accuser when adjudicating whether to believe an allegation.
Well, the thing that really rubs me the wrong way with this line of thinking is that being abused as a child can kinda obviously lead to someone not being a well-adjusted and behaving adult. At one point Safechuck's(?) wife talks about his self-destructive behavior that seemed to be leading to the end of their marriage, which isn't that surprising considering. Wade's behavior could just as easily be a result of his own inability to cope with the abuse. Or he could just as well be an asshole who happened to also be abused. I don't think anyone can come to a satisfactory conclusion if they try to nitpick his life like that.
 

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There's a reason why MJ settled in 93. Jordan Chandler correctly described Michael's penis. The defense got wind of it and didn't want to take the risk on a criminal trial so they settled. Jordan also unfortunately did not want to testify.

Documentary on the 93 Case: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hyMKdS29Lbw

One of the Lead Investigators of the 93 case.

http://www.sbscpublicaccess.org/docs/ctdocs/052505pltmotchandler.pdf Pg 4-5
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WSLywe5k12I

Members of Jackson's defense at a 2010 panel discussing why Jackson settled.

https://www.mjfacts.com/300lb-gorilla/


"…in our [Jackson's defense lawyers] perspective, you have to remember that there was a companion criminal investigation case going on by both the District Attorney's office in Los Angeles and Santa Barbara. There had been an occasion where Michael Jackson was examined, and his genitalia was recorded, which was part of an investigation. And that was part of the 300 pound gorilla in the mediation room. We wanted to do all that we could to avoid the possibility that there would be a criminal filing against Michael Jackson, and the reality was we were hopeful that if we were able to "silence" the accuser, that would obviate the need for any concern about the criminal side, so from our perspective there was a great deal of trust, not only with Johnnie and Larry because they had a twenty year prior friendship, there was a tremendous trust with Johnnie and the three judges being recommended. And we were facing the purple gorilla in the room of "If we don't get this case settled before March, there is a criminal investigation looming, and no one wanted to consider the implications of that as it affected Michael Jackson"…
 
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Nairume

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It can't be repeated enough that Zeigler is still an insanely suspect person to try and use as a defense for Michael here given his other big thing is being a fucking apologist for fucking Sandusky of all people.
 

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The only evidence that these people want is a fucktape. And even then, i think they'd still say "hmmm, i'm not convinced"
 

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They could have footage of it with Jackson looming at the camera saying "I am Michael Jackson and I am doing all of this" with his mom, dad, his victim's parents, five lawyers, and a notary public all witnessing and signing documentation saying its MJ doing those things, and his fans still would find excuses.
 

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They could have footage of it with Jackson looming at the camera saying "I am Michael Jackson and I am doing all of this" with his mom, dad, his victim's parents, five lawyers, and a notary public all witnessing and signing documentation saying its MJ doing those things, and his fans still would find excuses.

"Deepfake"
 
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I feel such empathy for James Safechuck, especially after viewing the Oprah special. I really hope things get better for him. Wade as well, but James I felt is still in such a pained place. How anyone can see these men talk and think they're lying is beyond me.
 

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Well, the thing that really rubs me the wrong way with this line of thinking is that being abused as a child can kinda obviously lead to someone not being a well-adjusted and behaving adult. At one point Safechuck's(?) wife talks about his self-destructive behavior that seemed to be leading to the end of their marriage, which isn't that surprising considering. Wade's behavior could just as easily be a result of his own inability to cope with the abuse. Or he could just as well be an asshole who happened to also be abused. I don't think anyone can come to a satisfactory conclusion if they try to nitpick his life like that.

Yeah, but this is sort of begging the question, no? How is one ever to cast legitimate doubt on the credibility of allegations if discrediting behavior on accusers' parts can instantly be dismissed as a byproduct of abuse?
 

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I remember when most/practically all people knew the guy was guilty and, at best, treated him as a nasty little joke especially after the second trial. That said, I've always felt that there was a large contingent of people, maybe even a silent majority, that wanted to still like the guy or at the very least be able to listen to Thriller guilt free, so when he finally kicked the bucket people just sort of got in line with the MJ Defense Force. Always rabid, his loony fans jumped at the chance to weaponize that the old attitude about never speaking ill of the dead as well as the man's own troubled childhood.
 

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Yeah, but this is sort of begging the question, no? How is one ever to cast legitimate doubt on the credibility of allegations if discrediting behavior on accusers' parts can instantly be dismissed as a byproduct of abuse?
It helps that there are multiple accusers that seem to corroborate each other which has been enough for most celebrities. I don't know of anything any of them have done to deserve a high level of skepticism (I'm not familiar with people's complaints about Wade). To me it's just more of a sticky subject when it comes to child abuse specifically because of just how much that can affect a person and how they act into adulthood
 

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People always focus on Wade and not on Safechuck when trying to call into question the accusations.
This is one of the more repulsive aspects of the defense. I can only imagine how shit it must feel to have your childhood abuse hand-waved because you weren't ready to come to terms with it when every else wanted you to.

For someone to sweep everything you went through aside because someone else didn't come out sooner is just disgusting and shows clearly how little these people consider or care about abuse victims.

Overlooking the trauma and internal conflct of a man purely to attack another, all in service of protecting the legacy of a dead child abuser.
 

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Wait, why was the entire first thread wiped clean?
No idea, as I said when this was first announced having the entire historical discussion to hand would have been useful, instead of being dumped with a thread that's DoA because the discussion moved to subsiduary threads due to the main one being locked.

Now those threads have more of the discussion than this one, the main one. Bizarre handling all round.

Here are the mod posts:
Official Staff Communication
The other threads were locked because they weren't being used to discuss the documentary or Michael Jackson so much as they were being used to take shots at members across threads or try to rile up trouble for the staff. We are looking at rebooting the main thread. We have been working tirelessly under high stress to moderate these topics and have actioned many posters who violated our policies.

If this thread proves unmanageable it'll go the same way as the others, and that serves no one in the end. Get back on topic.

The documentary thread has been rebooted. Please take note of the guidelines in the OP.

https://www.resetera.com/threads/le...rrently-94-on-rotten-tomatoes-read-op.105393/
 
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Wait, why was the entire first thread wiped clean?
It is still available here. It wasn't wiped, but it got away from the documentary itself and into a meta commentary for this site and people saying that gaming side is moderated more softly and differently than off topic, with users sniping at one another in that bread and the DMC5 gaming thread. The staff post in the op explains this.

You can read that thread to get impressions of the documentary as it was unfolding.

https://www.resetera.com/threads/le...y-94-on-rotten-tomatoes.102529/#post-18399514
 

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with users sniping at one another in that bread and the DMC5 gaming thread
The only reason this began was because they locked the DMC5 thread for a period of time so the conversation continued in the main one. The DMC5 thread was locked because a poorly-reasoned post (these aren't MJ's dances, they're someone who stole MJ's dances was the nonsense reason), the reports calling that out were dismissed and it stayed locked before reopening for those very reasons a short while later.

So the only reason the conversation was so split at the time was because of the poor handling of locking/unlocking topics. Which can now be extended to most threads on this topic looking at what we're left with.
 
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Kyuuji

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Al Jean expanded on why they pulled the Michael Jackson Simpson's episode, saying that his discomfort came from him feeling as though the Simpson's episode could have been used as part of Michael's grooming process.

What saddens me is, if you watch that documentary—which I did, and several of us here did—and you watch that episode, honestly, it looks like the episode was used by Michael Jackson for something other than what we'd intended it.

"It wasn't just a comedy to him, it was something that was used as a tool. And I strongly believe that."
Source
 

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Gosh, the amount of crazy MJ fans I've run into who don't understand how grooming or trauma processing works is just...mind boggling.

"They lied in court!"
Yeah, because they hadn't yet processed the trauma and were groomed to do so

"They defended him so many times before!"
Yeah, because they hadn't yet processed the trauma and were groomed to do so

"They're suing for money!"
As if their right, as they were raped by a monster and want to set the record straight

"fAcTs dOnT LiE pEoPlE dO"
Oh, like the people behind a multi-million dollar estate trying to salvage their reputation from being built on the back of a pedophile?

Disgusting. Some people just love songs so much they're giving a pass to a serial child rapist.
 
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Addi

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Watched this yesterday and I can't believe anyone can still defend Michael Jackson. You can nitpick timelines and statements and shit, but everything the victims and family say make complete sense psychologically. Rewatching some of the footage from back then was really disgusting, like it was so fucking obvious, but that we somehow were all in on it and let him do what he wanted. It was a less cynical pre-9/11, pre-social media time where stars were gods. It's like many of us needed some years to get out of that spell and see what really was going on. Truly chilling. Fuck Michael Jackson.

Also, reading some comments about separating the art from the artist etc. Fuck that shit. I can't do it.
Making artistry and stardom so fucking important is what led to this in the first place.
 

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I wonder why no defenders (submitting defense dissertations in previous threads) returned to defend the fact that MJ owned technically legal child porn made by convicted sexual abusers, for sexual abusers, or the fact that he owned a photo of a boy in a pulled down bikini.

All I hear are crickets now.
 

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Discovered that one of my colleagues is a staunch MJ defender this morning, he controls the playlist that is playing in our office and a few MJ tracks came on this morning a few people complained and he kicked off saying they were all naive and being taken in by the media and those "two boys"

I've since had the playlist control taken away from him and MJ banned from the office.
 

borghe

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He could've slept around with britney, Christina, Jlo, whomever. That doesnt change the fact that Michael molested him when he was a boy.
The word "fact" is a bit disingenuous. It is a claim. The reality is, none of these will likely ever be "fact". It's even been stated in this thread and the other that in many cases of sexual assault and cases of discrimination, circumstantial and not-necessarily-corborated evidence is many times all we will ever have.

So... He could've slept around with whomever.. but that doesn't inherently disprove or discredit his claim. Yes, I agree. But in no way is much of what we have out of all of this fact. They're allegations (compelling) that we will probably never have a smoking gun on.
 

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Louis Vuitton removing the Michael Jackson inspired pieces from their new collection:

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https://www.theguardian.com/fashion...-pieces-removed-from-louis-vuitton-collection
 

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I caught up on the documentary today. I don't really know how you can watch them telling those stories and believe they are lying but it seems pretty obvious to say a man who spent much of his adult life befriending young boys and regularly slept in the same bed as them is anything but innocent. I have always presumed his guilt but there was one thing I never realised and that's how manipulative he was, something this documentary really showed. Truly horrific.

One thing that really pissed me off about the mother of Safechuck is at one point she was recounting one of the situations where Jackson had taken advantage of them and she even let out a little chuckle. I couldn't believe it. Both families were clearly neglectful in protecting their children but Robson's mother came across far more regretful and ashamed for what happened.
 

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I wonder why no defenders (submitting defense dissertations in previous threads) returned to defend the fact that MJ owned technically legal child porn made by convicted sexual abusers, for sexual abusers, or the fact that he owned a photo of a boy in a pulled down bikini.

All I hear are crickets now.

Posts like these are ignored by the defenders. As are posts that talk about why his bedroom would have an alarm system when he is sleeping alone with kids. etc etc.
 

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Just finished part one. I had to look away from the tv for most of it cos it was so disturbing. It's weird cos if was pretty clear when Jacko was alive this stuff was going on. I remember when earth song Came out I was 11 and folks were talking about "that paedo that sucked off his monkeys new song" it was accepted that he was a paedophile.

It still makes for probably the most uncomfortable viewing I have watched. It made me think about my own kids and how I'd react if their idle started giving them attention like this....I realised I would def not be acting like those parents did but just considering it made my skin crawl.
 

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It still makes for probably the most uncomfortable viewing I have watched. It made me think about my own kids and how I'd react if their idle started giving them attention like this....I realised I would def not be acting like those parents did but just considering it made my skin crawl.
That was exactly the came conclusion that Wade and James came too as well. That's why they came forward.

Though i hear that the real reason was for money. 😏
 

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My goodness what an insightful look into the sick world of a pedophile. It really shows the two faces of someone who genuinely loved children but simultaneously fell for his sexual urge and abused them like hell.
It really shocked me how sneakily he continuously drove the parents away from their children. From further away hotel rooms with perfidious excuses (no nearest suite available) to driving home about the parents being bad for the kids.
I recommend it especially for parents to see this documentary.
 

Shy

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My goodness what an insightful look into the sick world of a pedophile. It really shows the two faces of someone who genuinely loved children but simultaneously fell for his sexual urge and abused them like hell.
It really shocked me how sneakily he continuously drove the parents away from their children. From further away hotel rooms with excuses (no nearest suite available)
Yeah. I want to watch part 1 again, so i can get angry at the parents. But i don't think i can listen to those poor men's stories again.

Also, if you haven't watched the Oprah special. Please do.
 

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Gosh, the amount of crazy MJ fans I've run into who don't understand how grooming or trauma processing works is just...mind boggling.

"They lied in court!"
Yeah, because they hadn't yet processed the trauma and were groomed to do so

"They defended him so many times before!"
Yeah, because they hadn't yet processed the trauma and were groomed to do so

"They're suing for money!"
As if their right, as they were raped by a monster and want to set the record straight

"fAcTs dOnT LiE pEoPlE dO"
Oh, like the people behind a multi-million dollar estate trying to salvage their reputation from being built on the back of a pedophile?

Disgusting. Some people just love songs so much they're giving a pass to a serial child rapist.
So dismiss everything that doesn't match the narrative? Thanks for clearing that up.