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Yeah, it's a rather annoying trend in gaming that the games which do have female protagonists seem to shy away from showing hetero relationships. Not even just female protagonists really, you don't see male protagonists perusing a relationship with another man either.

The reasoning of men being weirded out by the player character having relations with a man is probably correct, but never the less kind of pathetic. =/
gay people are the most annoying trend, yep, makes sense
if you have a problem with the topic at hand report it to the mods, or stop shitting on the thread
I don't have a problem with the topic, but I'm not gonna stop giving my input on it lmao
 

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Ah, good old queer erasure -_-; Don't be shitting on LiS, it's literally my (queer, obv.) girlfriend's favorite game.
Sorry, that's not what I mean at all! I absolutely love proper representation of queer people in all media, and that's one of the reasons I actually did take issue with how LiS handled it. I feel like the whole thing was specifically put there just as a "fan service" moment for male fans.
It is sad that in spite of what I perceive to be my issues with LiS in this regard, it still stands as one of the more positive representations of homosexuality in video games; it's something the whole medium could stand to be a lot better at. I actually feel Ellie was handled really well in this regard.
 

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I edited the post to specifically point out most men view lesbian romance as titillating. The evidence of this is in the continued popularity of lesbian porn year in and year out.
The kiss scene that you included as a buildup to the kiss from episode 1 is not in episode 1, it's in episode 5. The first kiss in Episode 3 comes out of nowhere. The scene you posted as an example of the kiss in Episode 3 is not the scene I am referencing, I am referencing the first kiss in Episode 3, where you are just talking to Chloe, and you get the chance to either "kiss her on a dare" or "chicken out".
Episode 5 is the culmination of the romance built up throughout five episodes. That kiss scene comes directly after the pool scene in Episode 3:


Which is followed by them sleeping in bed together, and Chloe's kiss is offered by her telling Max to "take chances." It's not subtle.
 

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There are literally hundreds or even thousands of games where a straight male protagonist either is or was in, or pursues a relationship although it has literally nothing to do with the story or the setting or the gameplay. From Uncharted to most Assassin's Creed to Gears of War to Mario to fucking Inversion to motherfucking Ride to Hell. It's the default trope and it pervades every genre and budget in gaming. But a straight woman protagonist? That's just pandering and Aloy has no time for that shit.

lulz

Thank you!

Some of the arguments in here are so disingenuous.

I felt like 2B wanting to kill God at the beginning of the game has something to do with the fact that
she was created to kill 9S repeatedly, and lamenting that her destiny is to continuously hurt the only person she cares about

It still doesn't really come across as a romantic type of love though, whereas 9S very clearly harbors romantic feelings for her, as we see while playing as him.

That's one example of the issue here; women leads very rarely are written to overtly pursue relationships with men in games, and you can bet it's largely because devs are uncomfortable making their mostly male playerbase kiss men in-game. It's bullshit.
 
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1. The waifu-bait argument is salient, I could see that being a huge reason.

2. I feel like if you had a STRONG FEMALE CHARACTER have a male love interest, people would complain about that, too.

3. Doesn't Aloy flirt with the sun king a little, or am I misremembering that?
 

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Episode 5 is the culmination of the romance built up throughout five episodes. That kiss scene comes directly after the pool scene in Episode 3:


Which is followed by them sleeping in bed together, and Chloe's kiss is offered by her telling Max to "take chances." It's not subtle.
That's my point, it is not the culmination. It just comes up out of nowhere in Episode 3. Where was it ever built up in Episodes 1 and 2?
 

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Sorry, that's not what I mean at all! I absolutely love proper representation of queer people in all media, and that's one of the reasons I actually did take issue with how LiS handled it. I feel like the whole thing was specifically put there just as a "fan service" moment for male fans.
It is sad that in spite of what I perceive to be my issues with LiS in this regard, it still stands as one of the more positive representations of homosexuality in video games; it's something the whole medium could stand to be a lot better at. I actually feel Ellie was handled really well in this regard.

Your feeling is wrong, as evidenced by the absolutely huge following LiS has amongst queer women.
 

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So...... she's asexual. JUST LIKE IT SAYS IN THE OP.
1. Just because a character doesn't seek sex or romance does not inherently make that character asexual. Being asexual and being presented as asexual are two different things. In the context of the story told by Horizon, it doesn't seem as if she's interested in romance at that particular time. That doesn't tell us anything about her sexuality (or lack thereof).
2. There's no problem with a character being asexual, it would just be nice if that were made clear. It'd be welcome, actually, as I can't think of any asexual game characters off the top of my head.
 

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Wishing gay woman were straight is fucking disgusting op.

What is this? You clearly did not read the OP.

On topic: I agree that we need more male love interests. Not at the expense of others like the poster I quoted apparently thinks you mean, but in ADDITION to female love interests.

I look forward to playing as a female pansexual in the new Assassin's Creed this year.
 
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1. The waifu-bait argument is salient, I could see that being a huge reason.

2. I feel like if you had a STRONG FEMALE CHARACTER have a male love interest, people would complain about that, too.

3. Doesn't Aloy flirt with the sun king a little, or am I misremembering that?

The Sun King flirts with her, Aloy calls him out on trying to use her to replace his dead SO.

Then he never does it again lol
 

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Shoehorn? If anything Max and Chloe are "hella" gay. And where does the game try to titillate? What's titillating about that scene from TLOU2? Also pretty sure Aloy isn't asexual, just that every person romantically interested in her is lame AF.


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Friends don't kiss each other like this.

I thought they were just good friends for the longest time. None of this romance stuff ever happened in my game. So I guess my Max was straight, just not into Warren.
 

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I think a lot of people will have a knee jerk reaction of "straight tear, boo hoo", so i think it needs to be emphasized how the problem stems from a very homophobic mentality in which the player, assumed to be a male, will be off put by the idea of his player avatar being into dudes, it's a very childish mentality of "we cant have the female protagonist fall for a guy because our players will think that's gay!" and really undermines the power of having lesbian protagonists, as the backdrop turns it into "you see, it's cool to have two girls, because that's, like, hot."
 

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In Disgaea 5 (did I spell that right?), Seraphina seems to have male interests in spades.
Seems to have a mind and tongue of a 14 year old though so I don't know..
But Seraphina isn't the protagonist, it is Killia. It is like saying Fiora has an interest in Shulk.

Back on topic, to be honest, I don't recall a game in which the female protagonist has a canon relationship with a male character.
 

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i agree with this, however i wouldn't just say it's a problem with the representation of straight women but also of gay men - in games without player-created characters, it's quite rare to find examples of a protagonist interested in only men, i find that they are typically bisexual at most (at least as far as i remember from the games that i have played)
 

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True about Chloe but she never expresses any desire while you play as her. It was ok when you were playing as Nathan in Uncharted 2 but once you're her in LL? No way.

Something similar happens in Haevy Rain. You get to play as this womanbut the moment she gets her love scene with a male playable character lo happen to be playing as the guy and not her.

Hold Up. She used to Bone down with nathan Drake, the loveable dork that he is. No dudes she met up with since they became friends seemed to be her fit. The Only dude she hangs with that we know is Cutter but He feels like The Older Brother or Uncle.

I Could see her being attracted to Nathans Older Brother because he has the same wild streak she liked in nathan.
 

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I really don't care
Like, queer people get so little representation as is that you're either being transparent as fuck OP or wildly poorly timed this thread
Like seriously, as a queer woman I love seeing so much representation so, sorry? We play games too.
I have very little sympathy for straight people of all groups complaining about representation lmao

I think this is kind of the rub here

Like I know OP isn't trying to be rude on purpose and I know this is a game topic but I can't not think about how mostly everything else, female protag or not, in media has a straight romance if we're talking about relationships.

I have a hard time garnering any sympathy here because of that and also because it's pretty fucking difficult to find games I like where I can be gay too

The struggle is hardly confined to only straight women like the OP is implying here
 

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I've played quite a few straight women in Bioware games, and the next AC will allow it too, which is good.

But I agree its unfortunate that games with set protagonist seem scared of the idea. Though half the problem is just a lack of set female protagonists.
 

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Exactly this. Add in otome games where all your options are straight (or, if there is a girl option she's "just a friend") and yuri games are made for dudes and us lesbian gamers are shit out of luck most of the time.
Really—straight or gay—our problem is that the vast majority of games are made by men, for men. For the most part I can't really blame male creators for wanting to create games that appeal to themselves, but we have a really bad chicken-egg problem with women not getting into gaming because games are so blatantly made for (straight) men, and games being made for men because not enough women are getting into gaming and growing up to be developers. I do think things are getting a bit better, but progress is so. damn. slow.
 

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Is it a strawman if your opponent is the one stuffing it?
You're the one stuffing it, and the best part is I even mentioned gay men in my post which are also under-represented. You conveniently ignored that though.

But I'm stopping in here, this is just shitting up the thread for no real reason. Plus it's absolutely pointless arguing with you, you missed the point by a country mile.
 

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I think a lot of people will have a knee jerk reaction of "straight tear, boo hoo", so i think it needs to be emphasized how the problem stems from a very homophobic mentality in which the player, assumed to be a male, will be off put by the idea of his player avatar being into dudes, it's a very childish mentality of "we cant have the female protagonist fall for a guy because our players will think that's gay!" and really undermines the power of having lesbian protagonists, as the backdrop turns it into "you see, it's cool to have two girls, because that's, like, hot."
That's the crux of the issue, and why publishers are seemingly averse to depicting straight female characters as playable protagonists.
 
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But I'm stopping in here, this is just shitting up the thread for no real reason. Plus it's absolutely pointless arguing with you, you missed the point by a country mile.
Nah.
I get y'all are trying to deflect and pretend this is about sticking up for gay dudes, but come on. Try a bit harder.
 

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I really don't like threads like these because they sort of imply that there's tons of games with lesbian main characters out there.

There's not.

You say this, but I can think of more games that star a lesbian lead then star a hetrosexual female lead. Aesexual leads dominate both of them though.
 

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Really—straight or gay—our problem is that the vast majority of games are made by men, for men. For the most part I can't really blame male creators for wanting to create games that appeal to themselves, but we have a really bad chicken-egg problem with women not getting into gaming because games are so blatantly made for (straight) men, and games being made for men because not enough women are getting into gaming and growing up to be developers. I do think things are getting a bit better, but progress is so. damn. slow.

There are increasing numbers of games being made for women I think, they're just on mobile because that's by and large where the audience is. The fact that phones aren't dedicated gaming devices helps side-step some of the chicken-egg problem.
 

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Yeah I can only think of of Beyond Two Souls and Telltale's TWD with straight female protagonists
 

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OP isnt asking to take away gay main characters to make them straight. He's saying that even those who aren't gay (at least that we know of) developers never let them express any romantic interest towards a male. This is strictly talking about main playable characters. Of course there are a lot of straight women surrounding them but just not the main playable one. i.e. Samus, Aloy and Lara for all intents and purposes are asexual.
 
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You say this, but I can think of more games that star a lesbian lead then star a hetrosexual female lead. Aesexual leads dominate both of them though.
not shown fucking dudes on screen =/= asexual
you have not seen an asexual female protagonist in a mainstream game, period.
pretending there is asexual representation in games to make straight people into victims is comical
 

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not shown fucking dudes on screen =/= asexual
you have not seen an asexual female protagonist in a mainstream game, period.
pretending there is asexual representation in games to make straight people into victims is comical
I think the problem as is being raised is, games have no issues making their heterosexual male protagonists or homosexual female protagonists sexually active, whereas this does not happen as much for heterosexual females or homosexual males, who generally don't star as leads that much in games to begin with.
 

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In Tomb Raider 2013 there was Alex who obviously had a crush on Lara. Through the game he keeps trying to impress her which of course ends up getting him killed.

Lara gives him a peck on the cheek before the poor sob dies and is never spoken of again

 

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Straight / not bi women and openly gay men are the rarest of all game characters.
 

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There are increasing numbers of games being made for women I think, they're just on mobile because that's by and large where the audience is. The fact that phones aren't dedicated gaming devices helps side-step some of the chicken-egg problem.
Yes, this is something that gives me hope. I'm actually a mobile app developer (not for games at the moment, but it's something I have ambition for), and think there's potential in the app space. I just wish the space weren't dominated by free to play/pay to win dynamics.
 

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Really—straight or gay—our problem is that the vast majority of games are made by men, for men. For the most part I can't really blame male creators for wanting to create games that appeal to themselves, but we have a really bad chicken-egg problem with women not getting into gaming because games are so blatantly made for (straight) men, and games being made for men because not enough women are getting into gaming and growing up to be developers. I do think things are getting a bit better, but progress is so. damn. slow.

Yeah things are slowly getting better (as we saw at this E3, shame I'm not really interested in those games though) but bit by bit. You can't really blame women for not wanting to dive into all this stuff either with how even a female protagonist is considered "controversial" these days.
 
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This is weird. The real problem is the lack of women creatives, all these games are primarily made by men and usually for men. The industry is simply not an inclusive or motivating enough workplace for more most women yet.

Like why make it seem like the issue is that under-represented people are getting representation? What's unacceptable is that white men are still the most common playable characters in games and white men are the most represented group of people in games. The more we move away from that, the more playable women we'll get, and the better representation will be for everyone.
 

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I felt like 2B wanting to kill God at the beginning of the game has something to do with the fact that
she was created to kill 9S repeatedly, and lamenting that her destiny is to continuously hurt the only person she cares about
2B isn't the bets argument.

Her feelings are a lot less clearly laid out than 9S. One oculd interpret her feelings for him, and a lot of other androids including 6O very broadly. it's clear that she deeply cares for all of them, but whether that care is romantic rather than familial. That's far harder to determine.
 
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I think the problem as is being raised is, games have no issues making their heterosexual male protagonists or homosexual female protagonists sexually active, whereas this does not happen as much for heterosexual females or homosexual males, who generally don't star as leads that much in games to begin with.
and make that argument.
don't pretend asexual people are represented in games
it's fucking cowardly
 

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Why does everyone want to romance some character in a video game? I honestly want to know why some people have this burning desire to romance a virtual character.

EDIT: Okay, upon a bit of reflection I need to clarify. If the story is written in a way for the character to fall in love then so be it. My question is about games like Mass Effect where the player can initiate the romance or not.
 
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This is weird. The real problem is the lack of women creatives, all these games are primarily made by men and usually for men. The industry is simply not an inclusive or motivating enough workplace for more most women yet.

Like why make it seem like the issue is that under-represented people are getting representation? What's unacceptable is that white men are still the most common playable characters in games and white men are the most represented group of people in games. The more we move away from that, the more playable women we'll get, and the better representation will be for everyone.
Yes, i think problems such as the one OP highlights, as well as the general problems with representation in video games, comes down to how the gaming industry is primarily dominated either by white males (in the west) or Japanese males (in Japan).
 

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I think the problem as is being raised is, games have no issues making their heterosexual male protagonists or homosexual female protagonists sexually active, whereas this does not happen as much for heterosexual females or homosexual males, who generally don't star as leads that much in games to begin with.
Honestly don't bother, they're just misinterpreting the point on purpose.