I'm 22, and I know I'm probably waaay too young to be dating for marriage, but at this point I'm also too tired to date for fun. I just finished turning down/breaking up with a guy who I enjoyed my first date with, because he was getting pretty pushy about sex and wanted to do it with me on our second date. I turned him down because I'm a virgin and honestly wanted my first time to be special, and I wasn't feeling him like that yet. Granted, I should've seen it coming (he was 29), but it still sucks. I try dating guys my own age but alot of them are even more obsessed with sex and just don't match up well with me. I don't know why.
This keeps happening to me, and I've been dating off and on for 4 years. Still never been in a real relationship, nobody's clicking the way I need them to. So I've decided to just stop dating in general until I'm 25 or more likely 27, when I'm hoping people will be more serious and especially less sex obsessed. Until then I'm just going to go back to focusing on my friends and my personal hopes and dreams. Not sure if this is a good idea. Made this thread to try and keep myself hopeful, and to ask people who were married on ERA what their secret was.
So where did y'all meet your spouses? At what age? Did you meet them online, or in person? Is there something I'm doing wrong?
(I know there's a dating era but I thought this warranted it's own thread.)
This keeps happening to me, and I've been dating off and on for 4 years. Still never been in a real relationship, nobody's clicking the way I need them to. So I've decided to just stop dating in general until I'm 25 or more likely 27, when I'm hoping people will be more serious and especially less sex obsessed. Until then I'm just going to go back to focusing on my friends and my personal hopes and dreams. Not sure if this is a good idea. Made this thread to try and keep myself hopeful, and to ask people who were married on ERA what their secret was.
So where did y'all meet your spouses? At what age? Did you meet them online, or in person? Is there something I'm doing wrong?
(I know there's a dating era but I thought this warranted it's own thread.)