Yep. Should've left the other girl alone long time ago and he wouldn't even be in this position.
My friend has been cheating on his girlfriend, something amusing just happened.
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Yep. Should've left the other girl alone long time ago and he wouldn't even be in this position.
OP told his friend to break up with the girl. Some of you are so fucking weird.
Your friend just needs to accept the L and own up, clearly the GF knows and is holding all the cards. Why is he dragging this on? From skimming the thread they live together? Yeah complicates things but at this point he's already lost, he knows it, the GF sure as shit knows it and now side girl knows it.
While that's happening you should sneak into his house and put your picture where the woman's picture was.
I guess some people have standards in the people they associate with.
I doubt these people with standards have any really close friends because no one is ever gonna tell them anything.
For real, these people seem like they'd even kick you down at your lowest for some moral sanctity.
Either the GF knows, or the side chick put the picture there herself. Either way, get life insurance.
I have been wondering since the OP's last few major updates whether I'd be more willing to have a long-term relationship with someone who I probably thought I had an exclusive relationship with but turned out had a long-term partner they were cheating on with me, or someone who was open about their relationship status and was saying it was the result of an abusive patch that they needed to get out of. Probably the latter, even if I'd be suspicious that what they were saying about their partner was a pretense to make the cheating more palatable.
Ultimately I think the conclusion I'm led to is that single life wasn't that bad, and Igor is a bomb-ass record.
Damn son, his GF is playing all kinds of mental games. And clearly its working. Dude just needs to man up and rip off the band aid. He is acting like a child.
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So what you're saying is that there's no line a friend can cross, jaywalking, cheating, drunk driving, voting for Trump, spousal abuse, everything is ok? Otherwise how is jaywalking equivalent to cheating where there's actually someone (in most cases, this one seems like an off one) being hurt in the process?
I mean, the answer to this is obvious, but I still have to ask, who hurt you?
Gotta love the cheating defense force. Apparently not cheating on a partner makes you a saint. Lot's of vibes of toxic masculinity/bros before hoes up in here.
If you honestly believe that still being friend after a person cheated is connected to toxic masculinity then you are sorely mistaken.
I know of no women or men that has stopped being friends with a person that have cheated.
Maybe you missed it but sanctimoniously judging strangers behavior online anonymously while maintaining a facade of perfect morale behavior yourself is the new normal.
Plus it feels great. You should try it.
Who is defending cheating here? Not a single person here has said that cheating is a good thing to do. It's like you came in here intentionally wanting to misconstrue what people are saying.
GF is an actual savage. Amazing.
Will he admit his transgressions is the only remaining question.
Edit: oh okay sounds like it's over soon.
Will he admit his transgressions is the only remaining question.
Edit: oh okay sounds like it's over soon.
Manipulation on both ends.
They both are on a sinking ship. Just hope neither of them resort to anything that results in anyone getting harmed
Agreed.
Forums are breeding grounds for this. Piggybacking and seeing how hard they can go with their posts.
lol, at acting like cheating is strictly a male thing. Or that woman are not just as likely to side with their friends rather than an acquaintance in situations.
I would never defend cheating; I'll defend cheaters from being labeled as blanket evil, or people not worthy of friendship though. Some are evil, some aren't worthy of friendship.. it's a bad thing to do, but it's subjective and something a friend should be giving advice about or at least talk to the person before you assume they are outright evil.
And I don't see anyone defending cheating either; I don't believe in the death penalty.. that is not a defense for murder.
I for one think David Lettermen, Jim Henson, and Robin Williams are unwatchable and its evil to support such vile cheaters.
"Defense force" is the go to insult for people don't agree that every instance of doing something wrong/hurtful is worth completely excommunicating someone.
not immediately ditching a life-long friend for being a poor romantic partner to someone else = you support his behavior.
Don't forget MLK - he was acomplete and utter peice of cheating trash, totally unworthy of any sort of human companionship
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Remember that thread about the guy who had a date with his older downstairs neighbor? Why was that locked? I wanna know how that played out.