I'm not sure if I worded the title correctly, but basically, I'm trying to ask if the various dating websites and apps should take extra steps to prevent STDs and rapes or at least to help in case something happens.
Backstory:
Last week, I met up with this girl I met off CoffeeMeetsBagel. We hit it off and saw Infinity War and went to her apartment afterwards. I noticed that it sounded like she was sobbing throughout multiple parts of the movie (not sad parts) and when we got to her place, this continued. As we walked in, she motioned to her cushions she had on the floor, arranged as a makeshift couch. She then told me she removed the real couch after she was raped last month. The dude who raped her was a Nigerian guy she met off CoffeeMeetsBagel who forced himself into her home and raped her. When she went to the police, they told her there wasn't anything they could do because the nigerian guy had provided her with false information.
In a case like this, shouldn't CMB or whatever cooperate with the police to locate the creator of the profile? Surely they have access to that person's email/phone/linked social media websites? It might not help if the person went through the extra steps to create fake links and a Google Voice number or something, but that's bettter than nothing, right?
As for the STD/Is, shouldn't these things (Tinder at the very least) offer a map of the nearest testing centers, and maybe even a guide to the various STDs within the app? I've heard Grindr lets you diclose whether or not you're HIV positive, which sounds amazing. That's a phenomenal first step in making sure people are more safe on these platforms. Why don't other services offer this?
Backstory:
Last week, I met up with this girl I met off CoffeeMeetsBagel. We hit it off and saw Infinity War and went to her apartment afterwards. I noticed that it sounded like she was sobbing throughout multiple parts of the movie (not sad parts) and when we got to her place, this continued. As we walked in, she motioned to her cushions she had on the floor, arranged as a makeshift couch. She then told me she removed the real couch after she was raped last month. The dude who raped her was a Nigerian guy she met off CoffeeMeetsBagel who forced himself into her home and raped her. When she went to the police, they told her there wasn't anything they could do because the nigerian guy had provided her with false information.
In a case like this, shouldn't CMB or whatever cooperate with the police to locate the creator of the profile? Surely they have access to that person's email/phone/linked social media websites? It might not help if the person went through the extra steps to create fake links and a Google Voice number or something, but that's bettter than nothing, right?
As for the STD/Is, shouldn't these things (Tinder at the very least) offer a map of the nearest testing centers, and maybe even a guide to the various STDs within the app? I've heard Grindr lets you diclose whether or not you're HIV positive, which sounds amazing. That's a phenomenal first step in making sure people are more safe on these platforms. Why don't other services offer this?