I didn't really know how to preface this one but felt it was worth sharing here.
I'm a student, in Denmark, doing computer science, and I want to say that, while I think many youths of my generation (I'm 26) are progressive in spirit, there are a lot of the sort of "YouTuber" types of people, you know, who are anti-progressive or they'll make rape-jokes or suicide memes unabashedly. I had a shift in my life last year when I quit my job-hunt because I had to upgrade to a higher degree in my field for the kinds of jobs I wanted, so I found another school and continued my studies. Obviously this was a new 'social arena' as it's called in Sociology.
My previous school had mostly friendly faces, a few bros but honestly a lot of neckbeards... oh and two girls. New place was a top-up degree so less populated but through group-work and exams before this summer, I realized a lot of "my guys" are pretty embarrassing. Like, I have my "internet-life" on here, Reddit and Discord where I go by the TOS and well-meaning ideas about other people, mindful of LGBT, race and trans people, something I had to sort of realize a few years ago, coming from a really white society, but something I've gotten accustomed to. We live in a really global age, and so I assume most people like me do spend some time talking to people from overseas in some shape or form. But the people I've gotten to know are not mindful.
As I said, our exams was full of suicide jokes, below-the-belt stuff and politically incorrect style of humor. I found myself laughing along because it's the kind of thing where if I had said "c'mon guys" I would've been singled out and made fun of or something. I think they're great people underneath but are stuck in what I call "middle school mentality". They're not unintelligent, they got great grades and lead responsible lives (like, we have jobs, we do stuff, etc. etc.) but their attitude feels ancient to me.
The point I reached was that I think it's fucking awkward that I go online and talk to people from other places and generally go along with the progressive spirit, of not punching down, not making jokes that would hit deep with someone's mental health issues that might be secret, and just you know, trying to be decent... and then in my daily outgoing life I'm surrounded by people that feel like they're tearing up that mentality.
I could of course quit, but I don't have a plan B and the school itself is okay, it's just my co-students that are kind of immature. It just frustrates me, and I wonder who else has this juxtaposition in their daily life of not being able to be as progressive as you want to be?
I'm a student, in Denmark, doing computer science, and I want to say that, while I think many youths of my generation (I'm 26) are progressive in spirit, there are a lot of the sort of "YouTuber" types of people, you know, who are anti-progressive or they'll make rape-jokes or suicide memes unabashedly. I had a shift in my life last year when I quit my job-hunt because I had to upgrade to a higher degree in my field for the kinds of jobs I wanted, so I found another school and continued my studies. Obviously this was a new 'social arena' as it's called in Sociology.
My previous school had mostly friendly faces, a few bros but honestly a lot of neckbeards... oh and two girls. New place was a top-up degree so less populated but through group-work and exams before this summer, I realized a lot of "my guys" are pretty embarrassing. Like, I have my "internet-life" on here, Reddit and Discord where I go by the TOS and well-meaning ideas about other people, mindful of LGBT, race and trans people, something I had to sort of realize a few years ago, coming from a really white society, but something I've gotten accustomed to. We live in a really global age, and so I assume most people like me do spend some time talking to people from overseas in some shape or form. But the people I've gotten to know are not mindful.
As I said, our exams was full of suicide jokes, below-the-belt stuff and politically incorrect style of humor. I found myself laughing along because it's the kind of thing where if I had said "c'mon guys" I would've been singled out and made fun of or something. I think they're great people underneath but are stuck in what I call "middle school mentality". They're not unintelligent, they got great grades and lead responsible lives (like, we have jobs, we do stuff, etc. etc.) but their attitude feels ancient to me.
The point I reached was that I think it's fucking awkward that I go online and talk to people from other places and generally go along with the progressive spirit, of not punching down, not making jokes that would hit deep with someone's mental health issues that might be secret, and just you know, trying to be decent... and then in my daily outgoing life I'm surrounded by people that feel like they're tearing up that mentality.
I could of course quit, but I don't have a plan B and the school itself is okay, it's just my co-students that are kind of immature. It just frustrates me, and I wonder who else has this juxtaposition in their daily life of not being able to be as progressive as you want to be?