We live in the UK.
We're from a non-white ethnicity that is white passing, which basically gives us the same privileges as white people, so for all intents and purposes we are white. People would guess us as being from a European Christian ethnic group based on our faces, even though we're from a Eurasian Muslim ethnic group.
We watched together the live footage of the protests in America.
I said: "The reason people are protesting is that they are fed up at the current status quo, these people want us to progress society to something that is greater".
They said: "Nothing will ever change, the inequality will always stay the same, so there's no point trying".
I said: "If people had that attitude in the past, then we'd still be living in Medieval conditions under a despotic King with no modern technology, culture and comforts. Our own ethnic origin country wouldn't exist if our founding fathers didn't think things could change and took direct action to make it happen".
They said: "Why are there so many opportunists in this protest? They are just there to steal stuff and break stuff. Why are they dancing and provoking the cops? They're just bored from the Pandemic Lockdown."
I said: "Why are you focusing on the vandalism? Why not focus on the core protest and the message, why be distracted by the collateral damage? And anyway, why not think about why the people doing the looting are doing that? Nobody ends up doing that in a healthy society, it's because society is unequal and they're dealt a bad hand, it's not people that have a comfortable and opportunity-filled life that are out there doing this stuff."
They said: "Why don't they just work hard and improve their lot. Why don't they just like a frugal life, we have to a certain extent, so why can't they? They need to want less material goods, save up, work hard".
So basically they're repeating the "Pull up the bootstraps" bollocks in different words.
It's difficult for me to get them to understand the problem. They think it's a problem solvable by Black people (and poor, marginalised people in general) just keeping their heads down, working hard and being good boys and girls. They don't get it. They don't get why that is wrong, why that will just end up with people living poor and struggling their whole lives through no fault of their own, why that will continue to lead to cops killing black people.
It's a fucking miracle that I have the progressive and idealistic views I do considering my parents have such Conservative, Right Wing views.
Weird thing is they aren't even Right Wing when it comes to their political affiliations, they vote anti-Brexit, they vote Labour, they support anti-Erdogan party, but their reaction to this protest is to take the side of the police, while also saying the police were wrong to kill the innocent black man. They just can't comprehend or have the lucidity to understand what I'm trying to say, to understand what Institutional Racism is, to understand why people are fed up, why protests are virtuous.
I basically ended up saying "Our lives are too comfortable, too materially fulfilled for you guys to comprehend any of this".
I've read so many threads on Era and Reddit in the past of people having arguments and political differences with their parents, and I always thought: "I feel sorry for these people, I get on with my parents so well". And I do I really do have a good relationship with them, we regularly joke and laugh, we are more like friends than I see most parent-son relationships being, but this is the first time I've had a heated political debate with them and it turns out we are polar opposites in views.
How can people like my parents have such cynical and narrow mindsets? "Things will never change, so what's the point". What the fuck? That's complicity with the toxic status quo by inaction. They don't understand that Humans can promote Progressive ideals, that those Progressive ideals can spread through Humanity like a Meme Disease and Human society can change for the better. All through taking Action, and not letting the State Monopoly of Violence coerce us to remain subjugated.
It's like they have a Stockholm Syndrome towards the concept of The State.
They have that typical Turkish disease of being resigned to fate and obedience to authority. You can't break fate and you must obey the authorities.
Just yesterday we sat around the TV in awe at a space rocket launch and then a few hours later watched in awe outside as the Space Station flew by in the sky. Today they talk about how "Things will never change". How the fuck are Humans in space then?
One thing I reflected upon and I'm scared about is potentially becoming like them when I'm their age. But I don't think I will. I don't think they ever had the ideals and views I have when they were my age, they're not readers, not rational thinkers and they are apolitical and apathetic. They are the typical "Silent Majority" that take in pride in "Just getting on with our lives".
I really hope the trope of "Left wingers become Right Wingers when they age" won't happen to me, I'd like to think it doesn't, but man. My parents freaked me the hell out today.
We're from a non-white ethnicity that is white passing, which basically gives us the same privileges as white people, so for all intents and purposes we are white. People would guess us as being from a European Christian ethnic group based on our faces, even though we're from a Eurasian Muslim ethnic group.
We watched together the live footage of the protests in America.
I said: "The reason people are protesting is that they are fed up at the current status quo, these people want us to progress society to something that is greater".
They said: "Nothing will ever change, the inequality will always stay the same, so there's no point trying".
I said: "If people had that attitude in the past, then we'd still be living in Medieval conditions under a despotic King with no modern technology, culture and comforts. Our own ethnic origin country wouldn't exist if our founding fathers didn't think things could change and took direct action to make it happen".
They said: "Why are there so many opportunists in this protest? They are just there to steal stuff and break stuff. Why are they dancing and provoking the cops? They're just bored from the Pandemic Lockdown."
I said: "Why are you focusing on the vandalism? Why not focus on the core protest and the message, why be distracted by the collateral damage? And anyway, why not think about why the people doing the looting are doing that? Nobody ends up doing that in a healthy society, it's because society is unequal and they're dealt a bad hand, it's not people that have a comfortable and opportunity-filled life that are out there doing this stuff."
They said: "Why don't they just work hard and improve their lot. Why don't they just like a frugal life, we have to a certain extent, so why can't they? They need to want less material goods, save up, work hard".
So basically they're repeating the "Pull up the bootstraps" bollocks in different words.
It's difficult for me to get them to understand the problem. They think it's a problem solvable by Black people (and poor, marginalised people in general) just keeping their heads down, working hard and being good boys and girls. They don't get it. They don't get why that is wrong, why that will just end up with people living poor and struggling their whole lives through no fault of their own, why that will continue to lead to cops killing black people.
It's a fucking miracle that I have the progressive and idealistic views I do considering my parents have such Conservative, Right Wing views.
Weird thing is they aren't even Right Wing when it comes to their political affiliations, they vote anti-Brexit, they vote Labour, they support anti-Erdogan party, but their reaction to this protest is to take the side of the police, while also saying the police were wrong to kill the innocent black man. They just can't comprehend or have the lucidity to understand what I'm trying to say, to understand what Institutional Racism is, to understand why people are fed up, why protests are virtuous.
I basically ended up saying "Our lives are too comfortable, too materially fulfilled for you guys to comprehend any of this".
I've read so many threads on Era and Reddit in the past of people having arguments and political differences with their parents, and I always thought: "I feel sorry for these people, I get on with my parents so well". And I do I really do have a good relationship with them, we regularly joke and laugh, we are more like friends than I see most parent-son relationships being, but this is the first time I've had a heated political debate with them and it turns out we are polar opposites in views.
How can people like my parents have such cynical and narrow mindsets? "Things will never change, so what's the point". What the fuck? That's complicity with the toxic status quo by inaction. They don't understand that Humans can promote Progressive ideals, that those Progressive ideals can spread through Humanity like a Meme Disease and Human society can change for the better. All through taking Action, and not letting the State Monopoly of Violence coerce us to remain subjugated.
It's like they have a Stockholm Syndrome towards the concept of The State.
They have that typical Turkish disease of being resigned to fate and obedience to authority. You can't break fate and you must obey the authorities.
Just yesterday we sat around the TV in awe at a space rocket launch and then a few hours later watched in awe outside as the Space Station flew by in the sky. Today they talk about how "Things will never change". How the fuck are Humans in space then?
One thing I reflected upon and I'm scared about is potentially becoming like them when I'm their age. But I don't think I will. I don't think they ever had the ideals and views I have when they were my age, they're not readers, not rational thinkers and they are apolitical and apathetic. They are the typical "Silent Majority" that take in pride in "Just getting on with our lives".
I really hope the trope of "Left wingers become Right Wingers when they age" won't happen to me, I'd like to think it doesn't, but man. My parents freaked me the hell out today.