Step 1: DONT.
Example: "Wow gurl! You so skinny! You need to put on some weight!"
This is NOT ok.
Even if you think you are giving someone a compliment:
Example: "Pfft, I bet you could eat anything you wanted and not put on any weight. You dont have to worry abo-"
DONT.
This is NOT ok.
I don't need you to constantly remind me how skinny I am. I live this life. I'm aware. I don't comment about your weight nor do I want to. I don't go around talking about how someone is 100 pounds heavier than me because that could be hurtful. So why don't we follow that same logic with people who are lighter? We hurt too. I cannot tell you how many times people just casually say OUT LOUD "WOW, YOU'RE SKINNY!" Like, really fucking loud.
There are tons of reasons why someone could be as thin as they are. It could be a serious health issue, mental illness, or they just don't care... Whatever it is? DONT. Don't comment on it.
Thank you,
A thin person.
Edit: because I am seeing a lot of this go around in this thread, I wanted to make it very clear that this is also not ok:
"Your issue is not as bad as this issue." DONT.
This is not an Olympic event to see who hurts more. The purpose was to raise awareness and promote discussion on something I felt wasn't really talked about before. Please remain on topic.
Per Slayven:
Giving statistics on what overweight individuals face and how it is worse is not really the point of discussion here in THIS thread. Create another thread. Thank you for reading. And remember: DONT.
Example: "Wow gurl! You so skinny! You need to put on some weight!"
This is NOT ok.
Even if you think you are giving someone a compliment:
Example: "Pfft, I bet you could eat anything you wanted and not put on any weight. You dont have to worry abo-"
DONT.
This is NOT ok.
I don't need you to constantly remind me how skinny I am. I live this life. I'm aware. I don't comment about your weight nor do I want to. I don't go around talking about how someone is 100 pounds heavier than me because that could be hurtful. So why don't we follow that same logic with people who are lighter? We hurt too. I cannot tell you how many times people just casually say OUT LOUD "WOW, YOU'RE SKINNY!" Like, really fucking loud.
There are tons of reasons why someone could be as thin as they are. It could be a serious health issue, mental illness, or they just don't care... Whatever it is? DONT. Don't comment on it.
Thank you,
A thin person.
Edit: because I am seeing a lot of this go around in this thread, I wanted to make it very clear that this is also not ok:
"Your issue is not as bad as this issue." DONT.
This is not an Olympic event to see who hurts more. The purpose was to raise awareness and promote discussion on something I felt wasn't really talked about before. Please remain on topic.
Per Slayven:
If you feel the need to highlight other issues, please make another thread instead of going off on a tangent.
We have ample space for many discussions as along as they are civil
Giving statistics on what overweight individuals face and how it is worse is not really the point of discussion here in THIS thread. Create another thread. Thank you for reading. And remember: DONT.
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