I'm so sick of seeing sanctimonious bullshit like this. This forum is (or should be) comprised of adults who get to set their own boundaries. Maybe you feel like it's worth forgiving or putting up with anything but that's your energy. Don't hold yourself up like you're the only example before some half-assed passive aggressive CYA statement at the end.That's fine. If you feel you need to punish them, punish them. Only you know your family and your situation well enough to make that determination. I've been in countless similar situations and eventually learnt that all these pyrrhic victories were not really worth it and resulted in me punishing myself at least as much as the person who wronged me. I'm glad I realised this before it was too late, but everyone's situations are different.
OP, it's hard now and gonna get harder even if this subsides largely because kids get older and you have to keep them safe. but tbh almost everything has been tough with a young kid during this (ours was born at the start of March in 2020.) I wish you luck and good health.