I feel like so much of that thread (if that's what you're referring to with this) once again just devolved into "well just play the game and you'll see the characters and story are great," which I feel like not only misses the whole point (you shouldn't HAVE to be made to "look past" that stuff to experience a great game), but also makes me feel awful and ashamed (because I just CAN'T just look past it to enjoy the game, which then I feel like is my own fault). :(
Yep, I was pretty much told off that I didn't play the whole game so I just didn't know how good the game was. I tried to point out that Pyra's personality doesn't really "match" the outfit she's wearing but said poster, a woman actually, said I just didn't know about the character development that makes her more confident by the end of the game.
Me:
Also, I swear I think I saw someone rationalize it as "You see the Blades look the way they do because they're not actually human but, see, the villain sees them as objects meant to be used and abused on a whim but Rex, the HERO, sees them as equal people because he's just so pure."
Like, it wants to be a game for the male gaze that's playing it but ALSO tries to rationalize it in-universe (aka "she breathes through her skin")
I might've shared this story in the first OT or something, but I'll post it again:
Growing up, my sister, who never really got into games would LOVE watching me play games like FFVI and other RPGs. She could enjoy the story and characters and not have to fumble with controllers trying to play it herself. She lives with me now and that's still a thing. When I was playing XC2, we were definitely eye rolling and mocking Pyra's outfit, but then I got to the infamous "Blushy Crushy" and my sister watching the two different options was just getting increasingly annoyed there wasn't a way to say "No" until you're forced to go through the whole thing until she finally said FUCK OFF and stormed out of the room.
Oh but, I'm not suppose to take that scene seriously. Ughh. It's infuriating. I see other people, women included, who can look past it and can really enjoy it, and I just can't see how.
It's like all that AND Elma and XCX getting skipped that makes them the worst additions to Smash for me.