At 5'8-9 it's such a mixed bag of feeling tall, average, and short.
But i have thing for taller women so my wife being 5'8 also gets us comments about how weird it is we are the same height.
Only time I've felt "short short" was when I went to neighbors funeral and his whole family was 6ft plus. Like the teens, Adult, men, women, all of em. Wife and I felt like dwarfs.