But you also have other women of different colour speaking like that both in the UK and USA. Thats my whole fucking point. If non black people speak like that as well, how can people she is definitely a black character using only that as evidence.
How often are those women of different color who speak like that portrayed in movies?
How often are women who speak like that portrayed as black women in movies?
That's the thing about stereotypes. Where I grew up, people are gonna see a black man having an argument with his off-screen sassy wife who's using AAVE and they're going to assume she's a black woman, and apply whatever image they have for that stereotype to her. And since there isn't enough representation of black women in our media, it's going to reinforce those stereotypes because there's nothing else to balance it out.
It doesn't matter if she's hypothetically not black. Doesn't matter if it's intentional. Doesn't matter if the scene is funny. What I just described is still going to happen.
And people are gonna feel certain ways about that.
Also, people are responding to you the way they are because they are trying to express how this affects them based on their lived experiences, and you seem to be doing everything in your power to dismiss what they're saying, and then complaining about their tone.
Example:
What the fuck? I'm the only one trying to actually have a disussion about if we are 100% sure the character is black. There's no proof.
You're right, you're the only one having this discussion. Everyone else is having a different discussion, and you keep jumping into it to make it about this character's hypothetical skin color.