I like how in such cases, people assume the bride is 100% crazy, while the husband is 0% involved or responsible. Somehow.
Guys. A wedding involves two people, not just the bride.
If this isn't fake, both of them are batshit. There is a 0% chance that a husband involved in something like this isn't already fine with this.
Depending on the couple I've seen a lot of grooms do almost nothing for a wedding except maybe pay for it while the bride leads and designs everything.