Hey y'all. Haven't posted here in a cool minute but im kinda lost.
Long story short:(as best as I can). I met this woman, Cassidy, at the gym back in September, we'd casually talk here and there, I'd catch her staring at times, my home girl would watch our interactions and said she definitely fucks with me. So I shot my shot, and she says she's already talking to someone but was willing to continue to be gym friends which I was cool with. So up until December we'd causally talk and say hi if we crossed paths at the gym. One day she showed up with a guy, and that day she ignored me completely despite saying hi to her twice. Giving the impression that she used me as an option and wasn't genuine about being "friends". My home girl and best friend agreed as I have other gym women friends who still say hi if there partners are there. So I decided to pretend she didn't exist after that.
Fast forward to March, Cassidy began making attempts to catch eye contact and say hi. I was cold at first, and even made a jab at her when we first talked again after she approached me. Yes, I'm not one to let people slide without consequences. Yet she still persisted with the staring. She even said hi with her partner around once which made me believe she was trying to make amends to a degree (presumably). Haven't seen her with her partner since March and I'm still unsure if I should even approach her.However, I began to last week by first complimenting her haircut and again yesterday by talking to her after she fished for eye contact and we waved hi with a smile. No awkward vibes.
Thing is, I'm hesitant to ask about her partner as my home girls told me she'd say something if they fell off since I've already stated my interest back when I asked her out. One of my home girls introduced herself to Cassidy yesterday as she's trying to find out her intentions. Thing is I like being direct but we're in this game of chicken because the onus is on her. While my best friend thinks she's just trying to use me as an ego boost, but he's biased and in my corner so I see why he says that.
Curious what y'all think.
Long story short:(as best as I can). I met this woman, Cassidy, at the gym back in September, we'd casually talk here and there, I'd catch her staring at times, my home girl would watch our interactions and said she definitely fucks with me. So I shot my shot, and she says she's already talking to someone but was willing to continue to be gym friends which I was cool with. So up until December we'd causally talk and say hi if we crossed paths at the gym. One day she showed up with a guy, and that day she ignored me completely despite saying hi to her twice. Giving the impression that she used me as an option and wasn't genuine about being "friends". My home girl and best friend agreed as I have other gym women friends who still say hi if there partners are there. So I decided to pretend she didn't exist after that.
Fast forward to March, Cassidy began making attempts to catch eye contact and say hi. I was cold at first, and even made a jab at her when we first talked again after she approached me. Yes, I'm not one to let people slide without consequences. Yet she still persisted with the staring. She even said hi with her partner around once which made me believe she was trying to make amends to a degree (presumably). Haven't seen her with her partner since March and I'm still unsure if I should even approach her.However, I began to last week by first complimenting her haircut and again yesterday by talking to her after she fished for eye contact and we waved hi with a smile. No awkward vibes.
Thing is, I'm hesitant to ask about her partner as my home girls told me she'd say something if they fell off since I've already stated my interest back when I asked her out. One of my home girls introduced herself to Cassidy yesterday as she's trying to find out her intentions. Thing is I like being direct but we're in this game of chicken because the onus is on her. While my best friend thinks she's just trying to use me as an ego boost, but he's biased and in my corner so I see why he says that.
Curious what y'all think.