But I'm guessing he still learned this information through his representation for Gearbox. The thumb drive went missing and they likely went to the lawyer and told him of the situation (including the porn) in case someone found it and misused it.
I may have come back around a bit on RDR2 thanks to the GOTY 'casts (I'm still only on day 4). I had my Dan moment with the game a lot earlier (I'm in chapter 3), but I came back to it last night and approached it on its own terms and just accepted that the things I'm disappointed about are the way they are, and I had an alright time. I'm definitely not going to exhaust myself trying to do everything, I'm mostly gonna follow story missions.