Hmmm. I turned 40 this year and just left my wife about 1.5 years ago. I raise my 3 children mostly by myself with help from my mother. My ex wife basically sees her children 3 nights a month at this point. To say sex is as important to me as it once was would be a lie. It's not a stealth brag when I say I'm in great shape and could be having plenty of sex if I desired it. Gym 6 days a week, eat healthy, got visible abs ect.... I've never been one to partake in meaningless sex with girls I don't extremely care for. I need that connection because sex is more than physical to me. So I found my drive decrease to near nonexistent levels and just figured it would bounce back eventually. Nothing for over a year and I was perfectly content. Then I met a girl and the moment I started falling for her it felt like a dusty switch was turned on and now much of my thougts throughout the day involve being intimate with her. I've considered maybe I'm demi sexual and I might be? I've talked to friends about my nonexistent sex drive until I met her and many told me I need to go "get layed" to get out of the funk but that just doesn't sound appealing at all. Some believe because my new girlfriend is 11.5 years younger than me is the reason my drive came back but that is ridiculous. It's the connection I have with the person that made it return. Seems not many people I know can relate to how I feel.
