So I went out with a friend on Tuesday to support her and her friend's fundraiser.
My friend and I were chatting like usual, when after two drinks, she was starting to be a little more outspoken if you will.
So she says to me that I have features that resemble the Who characters from Seuss' books (a bit funny to be honest). This was after she didn't want to tell me after I tried getting it out of her because I was both curious and wondering how mean-spirited this was going to become.
I shrugged it off initially. But it stood with me until today. And yeah, it's fucked up. And I'm offended.
I've never taken a jab at her looks. Ever. So if after a fee drinks she telling me this, is this an indication that she's actually an asshole?
I hit her up earlier and told her I felt bad after thinking about it. I was letting it rock as to sort out my feelings diplomatically.
But man, is this a sign she's toxic and I should distance myself from her?
I've never gotten that before in my life. I'm a good looking dude and really, I don't fit that comparison at all, so I really thought that was weird.
Idk, I'm seriously considering distancing myself from her as a friend after that. It was unnecessary, mean, and to me a sign she's toxic and generally mean-spirited.
Or am I being soft?
What does Era think?
Edit: check the avatar for a pic. Don't know how to post photos here.
Also, lmao, I kinda get what she was saying now LOL.
My friend and I were chatting like usual, when after two drinks, she was starting to be a little more outspoken if you will.
So she says to me that I have features that resemble the Who characters from Seuss' books (a bit funny to be honest). This was after she didn't want to tell me after I tried getting it out of her because I was both curious and wondering how mean-spirited this was going to become.
I shrugged it off initially. But it stood with me until today. And yeah, it's fucked up. And I'm offended.
I've never taken a jab at her looks. Ever. So if after a fee drinks she telling me this, is this an indication that she's actually an asshole?
I hit her up earlier and told her I felt bad after thinking about it. I was letting it rock as to sort out my feelings diplomatically.
But man, is this a sign she's toxic and I should distance myself from her?
I've never gotten that before in my life. I'm a good looking dude and really, I don't fit that comparison at all, so I really thought that was weird.
Idk, I'm seriously considering distancing myself from her as a friend after that. It was unnecessary, mean, and to me a sign she's toxic and generally mean-spirited.
Or am I being soft?
What does Era think?
Edit: check the avatar for a pic. Don't know how to post photos here.
Also, lmao, I kinda get what she was saying now LOL.
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