This isn't the first time Katy Perry has done sketchy stuff either. This reminded me of the time she tricked a kid into kissing her on American Idol because he hadn't had his first kiss yet.
Oh yeahhh I remember this too.
This isn't the first time Katy Perry has done sketchy stuff either. This reminded me of the time she tricked a kid into kissing her on American Idol because he hadn't had his first kiss yet.
You know, if a man came up to a woman and grabbed her breasts or vagina I'd fully support her slapping or even decking the sketchy motherfucker but as men, we obviously can't do that which means a verbal response or ignoring it altogether.
That's really fucked up by the way.
Oh for sure.
But we were always socialized to see it as an amazing thing. Like you were a stud and an alpha.
When it's grubby and demeaning.
True, but they aren't mutually exclusive (I know you weren't suggesting they were, just saying).It's also called bullying, since that's what grade school children would do, and also, immature adults.
I'm sorry that happened to youHad something similar happen to me in high school gym class. Two random girls sitting on my lap and grabbing my ass and shit. Reported it to the teachers, but they obviously didn't take me seriously, because the rest of that semester they kept doing it with no consequences.
I'm a victim too. Don't assume that just because I nit picked a word that I'm judging him. That word just gives me a weird feeling, but i'll Just shut the fuck up about it in the future.Great to see, that when men get sexually harassed that every little shit matters and what could be used against him, is used, like a form of words. Men are not exactly trusted in this departement. Thanks to this, as a victim, I shut the fuck about my incident for 15 years. Which was longer than I was being alive till that incident, which happened at 12.
This forum is not a monolith, but I see people often boasting about "toxic masculinity" but when something like this happend, they act like issue they were so passionately talking about. Basically "you are man, deal with it".
And to be honest this is pretty much the nicest place on the internet, so that is quite sad.
And yes there is a lot of feels and not enough thought went into this post, but...
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In my honest opinion this assault (well at least in my head) should be punished.
This isn't the first time Katy Perry has done sketchy stuff either. This reminded me of the time she tricked a kid into kissing her on American Idol because he hadn't had his first kiss yet.
Why did you make an issue out of his use of femalesI'm definitely not saying that. Don't misquote me or assume you know what i meant
I mean, if you are victim, you really should know better. No hard feelings, but...I'm a victim too. Don't assume that just because I nit picked a word that I'm judging him. That word just gives me a weird feeling, but i'll Just shut the fuck up about it in the future.
Also, people getting hung up about the use of "female"? Stop your bullshit.
I've said it twice now, and a thread was linked that explains my beliefs behind the word. I get it, it's not important to this situation
This forum is not a safe space for male abuse/assault/harassment victims, frankly.Great to see, that when men get sexually harassed that every little shit matters and what could be used against him, is used, like a form of words. Men are not exactly trusted in this departement. Thanks to this, as a victim, I shut the fuck about my incident for 15 years. Which was longer than I was being alive till that incident, which happened at 12.
This forum is not a monolith, but I see people often boasting about "toxic masculinity" but when something like this happend, they act like issue they were so passionately talking about. Basically "you are man, deal with it".
And to be honest this is pretty much the nicest place on the internet, so that is quite sad.
And yes there is a lot of feels and not enough thought went into this post, but...
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In my honest opinion this assault (well at least in my head) should be punished.
Trust me, there's no if about it.I mean, if you are victim, you really should know better. No hard feelings, but...
What a response, is this one of those things were because she is more popular the person who came forward is just going to get called a liar and harrassed by her famous friends? Cause that seems fucked up
It's just a time and place thing man, that's why you are getting heat. I get the apprehension around saying 'females' but it's not the time rn.I'm a victim too. Don't assume that just because I nit picked a word that I'm judging him. That word just gives me a weird feeling, but i'll Just shut the fuck up about it in the future.
What a response, is this one of those things were because she is more popular the person who came forward is just going to get called a liar and harrassed by her famous friends? Cause that seems fucked up
I understand that, and I've apologizedIt's just a time and place thing man, that's why you are getting heat. I get the apprehension around saying 'females' but it's not the time rn.
Also I should've put 'allegedly' in the title if Mods wanna fix that.
He makes out the alleged incident was traumatic and yet he sells dick pics and nudes on his onlyfans account. If it did happen, would someone so comfortable exposing themselves to compete strangers really feel all that traumatised having their ultimate crush doing it instead?
Fucked up if true. It's not acceptable, whoever you are.
his use of the words "men" vs" female" tho...
I don't need safe space, I would just be glad, that in some case it would be nice if all genders would be judged with the same metrics.This forum is not a safe space for male abuse/assault/harassment victims, frankly.
Do we need to address this over and over? Read the thread plsIs the word female offensive now? I hope not as it's practical when formulating sentences.
He makes out the alleged incident was traumatic and yet he sells dick pics and nudes on his onlyfans account. If it did happen, would someone so comfortable exposing themselves to compete strangers really feel all that traumatised having their ultimate crush doing it instead?
This logic is why sex workers have a hard time being taking seriously when they are sexually harassed or assaulted.He makes out the alleged incident was traumatic and yet he sells dick pics and nudes on his onlyfans account. If it did happen, would someone so comfortable exposing themselves to compete strangers really feel all that traumatised having their ultimate crush doing it instead?
Whilst I can sort of imagine KP doing this after a few drinks (I imagine she's a horrible drunk), the guy isn't exactly credible either.
Honestly I dont see a double standard here. This is just wrong.Perry thought she had the 'privilege' of being a woman.
Imagine if a man does that to a woman?
Yes, me too. He used man and female. Whatever, it doesn't matterim sorry you hear female used derogagory but I dont use it that way. seems like you just want to not like a word.
when I say male than i say female. if i say man than i say woman.
He makes out the alleged incident was traumatic and yet he sells dick pics and nudes on his onlyfans account. If it did happen, would someone so comfortable exposing themselves to compete strangers really feel all that traumatised having their ultimate crush doing it instead?
I just say this now because our culture is set on proving men of power are perverse.
But females with power are just as disgusting.
lol, what the hell. Are you seriously arguing it's okay to expose people in publicWhilst I can sort of imagine KP doing this after a few drinks (I imagine she's a horrible drunk), the guy isn't exactly credible either.
He's been infatuated with her ever since filming the Teenage Dream MV, to concerning levels (writing songs for her, planning an imaginary life together). His post where he makes the claims reads as a pity piece, he mention his gf was cheating on him which has no relevance whatsoever and says he was hurt by KP telling others that having to kiss him during filming was gross even though he was an actor and she a married woman.
He makes out the alleged incident was traumatic and yet he sells dick pics and nudes on his onlyfans account. If it did happen, would someone so comfortable exposing themselves to compete strangers really feel all that traumatised having their ultimate crush doing it instead?
To me this is either delusions from an obsessive man or cheap use of the metoo movement for some publicity.
Having said that, of course it's wrong if he was exposed against his will but context is massively important too.
Whilst I can sort of imagine KP doing this after a few drinks (I imagine she's a horrible drunk), the guy isn't exactly credible either.
He's been infatuated with her ever since filming the Teenage Dream MV, to concerning levels (writing songs for her, planning an imaginary life together). His post where he makes the claims reads as a pity piece, he mention his gf was cheating on him which has no relevance whatsoever and says he was hurt by KP telling others that having to kiss him during filming was gross even though he was an actor and she a married woman.
He makes out the alleged incident was traumatic and yet he sells dick pics and nudes on his onlyfans account. If it did happen, would someone so comfortable exposing themselves to compete strangers really feel all that traumatised having their ultimate crush doing it instead?
To me this is either delusions from an obsessive man or cheap use of the metoo movement for some publicity.
Having said that, of course it's wrong if he was exposed against his will but context is massively important too.
I cannot believe someone seriously pulled the he's no angel card this fast.
Two entirely different situations. He didn't consent to having his pants pulled downWhilst I can sort of imagine KP doing this after a few drinks (I imagine she's a horrible drunk), the guy isn't exactly credible either.
He's been infatuated with her ever since filming the Teenage Dream MV, to concerning levels (writing songs for her, planning an imaginary life together). His post where he makes the claims reads as a pity piece, he mention his gf was cheating on him which has no relevance whatsoever and says he was hurt by KP telling others that having to kiss him during filming was gross even though he was an actor and she a married woman.
He makes out the alleged incident was traumatic and yet he sells dick pics and nudes on his onlyfans account. If it did happen, would someone so comfortable exposing themselves to compete strangers really feel all that traumatised having their ultimate crush doing it instead?
To me this is either delusions from an obsessive man or cheap use of the metoo movement for some publicity.
Having said that, of course it's wrong if he was exposed against his will but context is massively important too.
He makes out the alleged incident was traumatic and yet he sells dick pics and nudes on his onlyfans account. If it did happen, would someone so comfortable exposing themselves to compete strangers really feel all that traumatised having their ultimate crush doing it instead?
Fuck right off with this.He makes out the alleged incident was traumatic and yet he sells dick pics and nudes on his onlyfans account. If it did happen, would someone so comfortable exposing themselves to compete strangers really feel all that traumatised having their ultimate crush doing it instead?
I am a lilSome fucked up shit in this thread. Some of you should be ashamed.
Not everyone who uses female is an alt-right. It's still used by lots of people.
Also, disgusting to start caring about word choices instead of focusing on the actual problem at hand.
Welcome to the alt-right bruh.