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Kinky Era |OT| Safe, Sane and Consensual
- Thread starter Cream
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- Gender? Male
- Sexual Orientation? Gay
- Age? Late 30s
- Are you a Top, Bottom, or Switch? Switch
- What are your fetishes and kinks of note? Dom/Sub, Pee, Rapeplay
- Porn or No? If so, what kinds? Of course. Mainly amateur.
- What's the best position? Doggy
- Favorite games? Racing
- Favorite music genres? Rock/Indie
- Favorite food? Pasta
- Would you give up sex for life or food for life? Food, without a doubt
Oh hell YES babies, this could be my jam!
- Gender? Cisgender Male (mostly lol)
- Sexual Orientation? Queeeeeeeeeer, darling!
- Age? 35, so like grandpa some of you :P
- Are you a Top, Bottom, or Switch? I prefer "vers" just because I like saying it, rolls off the tongue nicely.
- What are your fetishes and kinks of note? With women: striptease, lingerie (the really fancy, old-timey kind). With men and women: Rough (consensually so!) sex, hair pulling, some light bondage. Nothing too involved. I don't really have any male-only kinks/fetishes.
- Porn or No? If so, what kinds? Yeah, but I'm pretty much done with professional shit, too samey (and vaguely--or, in some cases, overtly--rapey).
- What's the best position? Any really, long as it doesn't make me throw my back out lol.
- Favorite games? RPG (pretty much any sort), third-person action, adventure/puzzle
- Favorite music genres? I listen to a LOT of different stuff but I tend to gravitate towards synthwave/retrowave (or whatever we're calling it these days), dance pop, and dark ambient (Lustmord is my god).
- Favorite food? I'm quite partial to Italian, particularly Neapolitan.
- Would you give up sex for life or food for life? One of those I can give up and survive and it sure as shit ain't food.
Seeing that very few people put pissing in their fetishes I thought I would ask: what do you guys think about?
I think it's more normal than most people think or like to admit, and I'm pretty sure many people, even more liberal people, would love to try it but are too embarrassed to. I realized that talking to friends: most of them would never mention it until I said I'm into it, and then they say they are curious about it.
I personally find it very very hot, and it's been a fetish since I was a teenager. Love watching a guy piss, and I've had a few pissing over me, and it was fucking great.
I think it's more normal than most people think or like to admit, and I'm pretty sure many people, even more liberal people, would love to try it but are too embarrassed to. I realized that talking to friends: most of them would never mention it until I said I'm into it, and then they say they are curious about it.
I personally find it very very hot, and it's been a fetish since I was a teenager. Love watching a guy piss, and I've had a few pissing over me, and it was fucking great.
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Hmm, well, frankly, it disgusts me. I'm not even fond of doing it myself lol. And while I can't fathom why anyone would be turned on by it, hey, different strokes, all that jazz!
I had a partner do it to me in college. He wasn't kinky the same way I am, but he liked that I liked rough sex. One time we were fucking in the bathroom and he just decided to pee on me.
I was not a fan. I just stop of looked at him and was like, oh, I see. It's warm and liquidy. After he was done, I literally turned away, got in the shower, and took a nice long shower. I think he was just curious. For the most part I'm pretty chill about sex, so even though he didn't ask me if he could, I didn't really care. I think I asked him if he enjoyed it, and he said no, so we never did it again.
Feces and urine are now on my list of hard limits though, because honestly I find it really, really unsanitary AND actually nauseating (in that shit smells like... shit). No one has pooped on me, but I've smelled enough disgusting farts to know that I will never, ever, ever be okay with it.
Oh, feces are a big no no for me too. I don't know why people put them in the same category kind of, but for me it's totally different. I could respect someone who is into it, but no way i could even get close to that.
Urine doesn't have to be unsanitary. If you drink enough water in preparation, it's pretty much just water, it doesn't even smell or has any color. And that's how most people do it, myself included. Also, I never swallow it, but some people do it. This way, it's not much different from exposure to other body fluids (like cum, saliva or even blood, when women are in their periods).
For me, it's all about the figure of a man pissing, it is just so unshakably masculine. Since I was a kid I was kind of aroused seeing my friends taking a piss, or people in movies. To get it over me was just a natural progression lol it's so submissive, feels fantastic, honestly.
- Gender? Fluid
- Sexual Orientation? Bi(curious?)
- Age? 31
- Are you a Top, Bottom, or Switch? Never actually been with anyone but a woman, so always been a top, but would like to try being a bottom.
- What are your fetishes and kinks of note? Roleplay. I would like to try it outside or crossdress getting taken by a guy.
- Porn or No? If so, what kinds? I watch mostly Pov and trans on male.
- Favorite games? Zelda, Persona 4, Danganronpa, Zero Escape
- Favorite music genres? A lot of things but been into J-Pop recently.
- Favorite food? Pizza, Cow, Mashed Potatoes, Mexican.
Not really into urine play, but sometimes when it is cold and the shower is taking too long to heat up and I have to pee, I'll do it to myself. That's about it.
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Pee, for me, is a huge turn on. I see it as a huge way of degrading someone and being in complete control. I enjoy being on both sides. My last boyfriend decided, while I was sucking him off, to just unload. He held my bead in place and smiled as I swallowed every last drop. He pulled me up after and just kissed me. It was fucking hot.
Ha. I later found out, after we'd broken up, that he was a scat lover. Had he tried that with me, I would've freaked out. While I'm a huge fan of pee and spit, poo is a hundred steps over the line where I'm concerned.
Hello Kinky Era!
- Gender? Male
- Sexual Orientation? Bisexual
- Age? Early twenties
- Are you a Top, Bottom, or Switch? Top
- What are your fetishes and kinks of note? Fighting, dominating, golden showers
- Porn or No? If so, what kinds? Naked Kombat
- What's the best position? From the back while i choke and punch the sides
- Favorite games? Action
- Favorite music genres? Metal, Punk, Hip-Hop
- Favorite food? Pizza!!!
- Would you give up sex for life or food for life? Hmmm good question!, dunno!
Kinkiest thing I've done was a cheeky handjob and blowjob in a car park where people were still about. I had an ex call me daddy once. I know that's a legitimate kink for some, but it really threw me out. Other than that, I quite enjoy being choked/choking during a fast, rough fuck.
ionno, I'm your pretty run-of-the-mill BDSM kinkster.
Husband and I do shibari and impact play, sometimes at the same time. We've videotaped ourselves and fucked to it after. He's finished on me and then fucked me some more. We've had sex in public, sex in cars, roadhead, something in all three holes (for me), assplay, etc. Once he fucked me on a balcony in Vegas on the Strip. I didn't like it because 1) I was like, you could throw me off the side and I'd die, and 2) it's in public and if someone sees us that's like us forcing our kink on them without their consent.
We have rules, about what I can wear/call him/walk/sit/orgasm/whatever.
I'm not even sure, all of it seems pretty normal to me. We're very sex positive.
Husband and I do shibari and impact play, sometimes at the same time. We've videotaped ourselves and fucked to it after. He's finished on me and then fucked me some more. We've had sex in public, sex in cars, roadhead, something in all three holes (for me), assplay, etc. Once he fucked me on a balcony in Vegas on the Strip. I didn't like it because 1) I was like, you could throw me off the side and I'd die, and 2) it's in public and if someone sees us that's like us forcing our kink on them without their consent.
We have rules, about what I can wear/call him/walk/sit/orgasm/whatever.
I'm not even sure, all of it seems pretty normal to me. We're very sex positive.
That sounds pretty nice tbh. All my bdsm experience has been online, involving orders and having to ask permission and all that stuff. It'd be nice to transition into an actual in-person relationship where I can do things for my partner's enjoyment and be physically handled.
My relationship started online :). Good luck, and I hope you find what you are looking for!
I guess it's my shoe fetish which is a big part of my preference to be dominated by women, when I was in college I was in a relationship with a couple and I was primarily a submissive for the female partner. I bought her shoes, maintained her collection, and would always clean and massage her feet after a night out. She would reward me in various ways, I love to be stepped on and be on the receiving end of some light cock-and-ball torture, especially if I'm gonna get tied up and have my junk smooshed by a woman in heels.
I'm also very much into group masturbation and sex, and I like to be watched. I host and attend group play parties with friends on a semi-regular basis.
Social media for kinksters. Sadly yeah, there have been some stories of predators using it to find people to abuse so you should always be extremely careful when engaging with people online with the intent to meet up. I personally don't recommend using it as a dating site, but it's a good way to start talking to people with similar interests and seeing what's going on in your local kink communities. If you do meet up with a group make sure they have a munch or public meeting space to engage in and talk to people before going to any parties or events or anything.
Kinky Era please help a poor sub out
As part of my punishment I'm required to cum 4 times in a row, I don't think I've done that before. Does anybody have any pointers to minimize/maximize my discomfort and make the most of it
Also any tips for insertions during this
I have until tomorrow night to prepare, I'm already drinking tons of water
Thanks
As part of my punishment I'm required to cum 4 times in a row, I don't think I've done that before. Does anybody have any pointers to minimize/maximize my discomfort and make the most of it
Also any tips for insertions during this
I have until tomorrow night to prepare, I'm already drinking tons of water
Thanks
How many times have you managed in a row before? Is 4 even possible for you lol? I think lube would probably help if you're worried about chaffing. Maybe start with a couple orgasms and then move on to insertions as a ramp up if you can
Hmm I think maybe 2-3 but I don't think it was right in a row, more like I was bored in bed and just waited a bit to go again lol. I think I had to wait 10 mins before it got "touchable" again
I'll likely be using lube at least
It would be interesting to insert after orgasm, never really knew how that would feel
I guess if I run into difficulty ill inform my master :<
Four times in a row, is that even possible? Any dude I've tried to tussle with over and over tends to need at least 5-10 minutes to chill and recover before going at it again. I imagine trying to tough it out with constant stimulation just after ejaculation is gonna be rough.
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Oh yeah I'm prolly waiting between each then, its almost impossible to touch right after (as I'm sure it is for most) and I doubt if be able to will myself to when my body is by design telling me "noooo stop" :p
thanks you and Driggonny
Well I did my four...
Stuff came up so I had to break the session in half but I was still pretty sore and tired by the halfway point, with barely anything coming out ;__;
Took me about 3 hours but without the break it would be closer to 2, and i did take 10-15 min recovery periods in between
I wanted to go for 5 due to the break but I just fell asleep at the end
Thanking my master for this opportunity, my master who laughed at my low-energy ow-stamina display
Oh and PSA don't get certain kinds of lotions too close to your peehole or you're gonna feel some stinging for a bit. But maybe that's exactly what you're looking for (or maybe you are :3)
[NOT RECOMMENDING OR ENCOURAGING LOTION UP URETHRA FOR RECREATIONAL MASOCHIST PURPOSES READ ALL WARNINGS AND CONSULT YOUR DOCTOR]
Stuff came up so I had to break the session in half but I was still pretty sore and tired by the halfway point, with barely anything coming out ;__;
Took me about 3 hours but without the break it would be closer to 2, and i did take 10-15 min recovery periods in between
I wanted to go for 5 due to the break but I just fell asleep at the end
Thanking my master for this opportunity, my master who laughed at my low-energy ow-stamina display
Oh and PSA don't get certain kinds of lotions too close to your peehole or you're gonna feel some stinging for a bit. But maybe that's exactly what you're looking for (or maybe you are :3)
[NOT RECOMMENDING OR ENCOURAGING LOTION UP URETHRA FOR RECREATIONAL MASOCHIST PURPOSES READ ALL WARNINGS AND CONSULT YOUR DOCTOR]
I was thinking that another one of my kinks is master/slave/dominate/submissive roles and other role play. Not really into pain though, besides spanking and minor stuff. I'm mostly into the actual role playing aspects of the master/slave relationship. I actually haven't talked with my former master in awhile actually. Hopefully just busy and nothing bad happened.
I'm still trying to figure out what I like and some kinks I haven't actually accepted yet. Especially out in public, so to speak. I've always been shy, hence my username, but especially about sexual stuff.
I'm still trying to figure out what I like and some kinks I haven't actually accepted yet. Especially out in public, so to speak. I've always been shy, hence my username, but especially about sexual stuff.
Hey KinkyERA, have you seen this: https://www.resetera.com/threads/do...-8-weeks-to-live-update-donations-open.12759/
It's the heartbreaking story of a fellow member who is fighting cancer and needs our help to pay for his treatment in order to survive. He needs 37,000 dollars. It sounds a lot, but ERA has 33,000 members, if everyone donated at least 1 dollar we will get very close!
Lets make this happen!
It's the heartbreaking story of a fellow member who is fighting cancer and needs our help to pay for his treatment in order to survive. He needs 37,000 dollars. It sounds a lot, but ERA has 33,000 members, if everyone donated at least 1 dollar we will get very close!
Lets make this happen!
I want to use Harden to bolster my defenses and then proceed to Vine Whip them into submission, and when all is said and done, spew a String Shot over their face to let them know I'm a Pokemon Master.
I have a fetish, or preference, or kink, or paraphilia, or whatever you should call it, for women or feminine people who have completely flat chests and narrow hips.
That is, a chest and hip size that is totally male passing and androgynous.
Which is interesting, because most everything else I tend to be attracted to is very feminine, even exaggerated or hyper femininity.
I also have a thing for female body builders. A woman who goes beyond just having a flat chest, and has muscular pecs like might be expected of a male body builder, is even sexier, to me.
I consider myself mostly vanilla in terms of the whole BDSM thing. But the more feminine or pretty someone is to look at, especially in terms of face, the more of a bottom I feel for them. I don't have a lot of sexual interest at all in masculine men and their masculine features or sex characteristics. But if I have an ability at all to be a top, it would only be for someone much more masculine or male passing than I am. But this is more in terms of being assertive or in the sense of penetrating or being penetrated than the more 'extreme' acts. How far away I fall from "total vanilla" to one side or the other, depends on how pretty or how male passing or intimidating they look. I would never let a big, scary man have their way with me. But would be much more open to it with someone who is very pretty.
That is, a chest and hip size that is totally male passing and androgynous.
Which is interesting, because most everything else I tend to be attracted to is very feminine, even exaggerated or hyper femininity.
I also have a thing for female body builders. A woman who goes beyond just having a flat chest, and has muscular pecs like might be expected of a male body builder, is even sexier, to me.
I consider myself mostly vanilla in terms of the whole BDSM thing. But the more feminine or pretty someone is to look at, especially in terms of face, the more of a bottom I feel for them. I don't have a lot of sexual interest at all in masculine men and their masculine features or sex characteristics. But if I have an ability at all to be a top, it would only be for someone much more masculine or male passing than I am. But this is more in terms of being assertive or in the sense of penetrating or being penetrated than the more 'extreme' acts. How far away I fall from "total vanilla" to one side or the other, depends on how pretty or how male passing or intimidating they look. I would never let a big, scary man have their way with me. But would be much more open to it with someone who is very pretty.
It's so nice to get my dirty thoughts out of my head through writing erotica. The time I have to write at all is criminally narrow but always a treat especially when I get into it and fly through a story.
EDIT: Holy fukc! People need to actually use pictures of themselves when they use dating/kink apps! And put your real fucking age as well! Like what the hell...If you wouldn't want someone showing up who isn't what you're interested in, don't do the same to other people. This should be common damn sense.
EDIT: Holy fukc! People need to actually use pictures of themselves when they use dating/kink apps! And put your real fucking age as well! Like what the hell...If you wouldn't want someone showing up who isn't what you're interested in, don't do the same to other people. This should be common damn sense.
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Ahhhh I got hit by a dragon tail for the first time tonight. It stung so much but felt so nice for a good while after...I need more.
Also got whacked by a french rolling pin lol...that was nice and thuddy. Bet the bruising will come in nicely.
Also got whacked by a french rolling pin lol...that was nice and thuddy. Bet the bruising will come in nicely.
Thought I should bump this topic with some relevant info.
Among the myriad of fucking horrors coming out of the Trump administration we now have to deal with the harmful SESTA/FOSTA bill recently signed. If anyone is in the dark, here's a break down article from Slate and a recent topic on EtcetEra about the harm it's already doing. It's a bid to restrict the internet to Christian morals disguised as an anti-sextrafficking bill. Mistress Matisse on the Savage Lovecast recently broke down not only how harmful it is for sex workers but for sex discussion, advice and openness on the internet in general. Sets an extremely dangerous precedent and I encourage everyone to rally around sex workers and make sure to CONTACT YOUR REPRESENTATIVES. The only way this is pushed back against is if people are loud as fuck about it.
Among the myriad of fucking horrors coming out of the Trump administration we now have to deal with the harmful SESTA/FOSTA bill recently signed. If anyone is in the dark, here's a break down article from Slate and a recent topic on EtcetEra about the harm it's already doing. It's a bid to restrict the internet to Christian morals disguised as an anti-sextrafficking bill. Mistress Matisse on the Savage Lovecast recently broke down not only how harmful it is for sex workers but for sex discussion, advice and openness on the internet in general. Sets an extremely dangerous precedent and I encourage everyone to rally around sex workers and make sure to CONTACT YOUR REPRESENTATIVES. The only way this is pushed back against is if people are loud as fuck about it.
SESTA/FOSTA is basically going to kill online discussions about sex work, from being able to find workers/clients to even workers talking to each other in an effort to help each other. It's a terrible bill, and I can't believe it passed with bipartisan support because they slapped anti-sex trafficking rhetoric onto it.
- Gender? Male
- Sexual Orientation? Gay
- Age? 29
- Are you a Top, Bottom, or Switch? Swish Swish Bish
- What are your fetishes and kinks of note? Dom/sub, public, rough play, spit, nibbling, spanking, threesomes, leather and edging.
- Porn or No? If so, what kinds? Gay Bear porn
- What's the best position? Reverse Cowboy or missionary on a sex swing. Spitroat is nice
- Favorite games? Bayonetta, Dead by Daylight, Lost Kingdoms, Killer 7
- Favorite music genres? Pop, rock, metal
- Favorite food? Pasta
- Would you give up sex for life or food for life? Sex for life. #ForeverFatty
So, gave edging a dude a try. Got my friend to give it a go and I gotta admit it was fun! Used a combination of a thick gel ringed cock sleeve, chilled lubricant, a massaging vibrator for that extra bit of alternative stimulation and a bit of old fashioned wrist-work! Went at it for about an hour and a half on his sofa. Needed verbal cues from him at first to tell if he was close to climax the first few times but after a few rounds I got into the swing of things! Tapping and rubbing at the frenulum combined with the cold lube and the vibrator wand worked especially well! After a while it got to the point where he was incessantly thrusting up at the air even when I took my hands away. Was kind of awesome to repeat the loop as it got more and more intense. Honestly lost count of how many times I'd stopped before his orgasm and in the end gave him that release about 90 minutes later and oh my god! I'd never seen a release shoot so many times and so hard and far before. He was like a quivering mess when he finally came! He was a gentleman and cleaned the coffee table in front of the sofa afterwards though! Overall it was a blast, and he wants me to give it the old college try tomorrow as well. Mission accomplished!
Recently found out about a great sex and sexuality podcast that's pretty entertaining and covers a pretty wide range of topics with relevant guests. It's called the American Sex Podcast.
Well Damn! I've never had the fortitude/discipline to try it on myself. Might ask my next partner to try it on me
It's nice having a steady partner but I always get more reserved when they're in an open relationship. Hate intruding when the other partner is around because it feels a bit awkward despite everything being copacetic. :/
Yeah what happened to her?
Anyways, guess I'm taking over. I was already banned once for being kink shamed.
Wait why are you here?
You can't know about this. This is my safe place. Go back to reading comics you nerd.