Here's the kicker, the dad doesn't speak English so that's not possible haha. I respect her decision but she kinda owes me a reason for blocking me. We're both tied to the $4k loan.
And you think she is going to pay you back if she maxed out 4k, then took 4k from you? Kiss the money goodbye, also admit it isn't about the money...She maxed out her credit cards that amounted to the $4k sum. She wanted to pay them off so her checks didn't go straight to just paying bills.
No it wasn't like that. She didn't know I had money till 3 months ago. I told her because she was crying and stressing about paying her bills and buying her daughter diapers.. so I gave her what she needed. I was a good person to her
Eyyyyyyyyyyy!!!I think you're making up this story as you go along. Your story has jumped the shark.
Slept drunk in the same room as her baby, by the way, everyone.We have Snapchat. should I just go to her house? or is that creepy and weird? Lol
Sensible post alert. Saying "I was a good person to her" is a little naive, and you've now learned why it's a little naive.What a thread lmaaaao
Hate to break it to you but all of your friends know you have money. You were hanging out for 9 months before that conversation? She 100% knew.
Some of your posts give off major nice guy energy and this is one of them. You "gave" her what she needed and you were good to her but here you are complaining about it and wanting it back lmao. You can't have it both ways. I'm on team leave her alone because it really comes across like this is only an issue because she hasn't spoken to you for two (whole!) days after you got piss drunk at her dad's house and slept it off in the room where her kid was sleeping. Not a great look dude. Seems like either pettiness or an excuse to stay in her life so just let it go.
We have Snapchat. should I just go to her house? or is that creepy and weird? Lol
OP needs to at least take her to small claims court. Yeah cut the relationship aspect off completely but 4k is not "move on" money.Bad idea! Period!
Leave her alone. If she wants to talk to you again, she will. Is she doesn't, move on.
I️ mean. If the parents are putting her and the baby up and she has financial problems they can probably say stop having someone who's drunk sleep in that kids room. That doesn't seem unreasonable lol. But still op. Wtf. You're not getting that money and you can move on and aim for healthier relationshipsI don't think I've ever met an adult that would block a number in their phone because their parent requested it. The decision was hers to make. You were blocked by her for a reason, and the next step is accepting that reality.
You aren't going to get 4k from someone who racked up 4k in CC debt only to get out of that debt by 'napkin promising' to return it after tax season which if I check my watch was a while ago.This thread has been scrumptious.
But yeah OP, small claims court is made for this. Hell take it to Judge Judy, their producers would salivate over a case like this.
But o lease OP
OP needs to at least take her to small claims court. Yeah cut the relationship aspect off completely but 4k is not "move on" money.
I think you're making up this story as you go along. Your story has jumped the shark.
Could be worse. Years ago my uncle loaned a woman he worked with $20k. And then she died.And you think she is going to pay you back if she maxed out 4k, then took 4k from you? Kiss the money goodbye, also admit it isn't about the money...
I treat threads like this with the same amount of credibility as Reddit threads. Basically none until proven otherwise.Coming out of the nursery wasted at 9 am to greet the dad 🤣
There's no way this happened. Right...?
haha why is this the detail that did it for you? plenty of people don't speak english!I think you're making up this story as you go along. Your story has jumped the shark.
haha why is this the detail that did it for you? plenty of people don't speak english!
I unfortunately know people like the OP. It's just as much of a headache as you would assume, too...Because It's always something with OP. There's always another detail he failed to mention.
Ok this thread is a troll. This was in response to someone saying to the best way to get back into contact was to CashApp her more money
lmao she blocked your ass because she was never gonna pay you back. the red flags were there and you chose to ignore them because you were thinking with your little head.
She doesn't owe him his money back?
Doesn't those tv court shows cover the settlements?You aren't going to get 4k from someone who racked up 4k in CC debt only to get out of that debt by 'napkin promising' to return it after tax season which if I check my watch was a while ago.
At this point I'm expecting OP to tell us he's bought a gun and sent a picture of it to her to show he means business.Ok this thread is a troll. This was in response to someone saying to the best way to get back into contact was to CashApp her more money
literally she owes him four thousand dollars
I nearly chokedThread summary for those just joining us:
• OP had an awkward encounter with her parents when leaving their house hungover because apparently Bowling for Soup was right and high school never ends.
Legally, sure. It doesn't absolve her from repayment though.
We have Snapchat. should I just go to her house? or is that creepy and weird? Lol
I didn't say he's getting the money. I said she owes him the 4k. You're responding to a very different statement.Through what? Sending people to beat her knees? How else you getting the money if not legally?
I didn't say he's getting the money. I said she owes him the 4k. You're responding to a very different statement.
OP mentioned they have the text where they agreed to pay them back around tax time (lol)
LMAO this is the best post I've seen in a while