Vader being Lukes dad heightened the drama and the stakes.
I agree.
Killing Snoke and Luke, Reys parents are nobody, Kylo doubling down on seizing dark power, these things greatly lowered the drama and the stakes.
I totally disagree. Snoke was presented as being far more composed than Ren is. The First Order are now lead by a pissy man child who flips on a dime. In terms of The First Order versus The Rebellion, I think going into IX, we're in a much more interesting position.
Rey's parents being nobody of note also raises the stakes. It removes the element of genetics. The greatest living Jedi? Just some random woman who's been a force user all of two days. Rey will remain the protagonist, but they've opened it up to a huge potential in terms of new force using support characters.
We now know Kylo and Rey won't be switching sides, and Kylo always loses and Rey always wins.
Rey will win, yes, good will win out, it is a family friendly film, after all. And so were the originals. There was never any doubt that the Jedi were going to defeat the bad guys in the original trilogy either. I don't see that as a fair criticism. It's not about the destination, we know that already, it's about the journey. As for either of them flipping, I disagree that it's not a possibility.
There is literally no drama and no reason to care going into 9. We all know Rey is going to win, and thats the only fight that matters. Going into Return of the Jedi Han was probably dead and Luke was the weaker Jedi grappling with the crazy truth that the villain was his dad. Yeah people need to stop with the Empire comparisons. Actually THAT idea is more Star Wars nerdery than what the critics are saying.
No, Han wasn't probably dead. They specifically state that the freezing worked. Luke was weaker, yes, but again, the good guy wins, so no, that's not any different.
I'm not sure what you mean by 'that is more crazy', comparing the film to Empire? Personally, I think it had more in common with Jedi, but in the specific instance that poster mentioned, I think it was countered by the fact that Empire had done something similar. Of course people are going to compare them though. Star Wars 'nerds' or otherwise. And for that matter, I would consider myself anything but a Star Wars nerd, there's three films I quite like out of nine, and none I'd consider great. Hardly a ringing endorsement.