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There is starting to be a trend on social media where if a trans individual turns out to be a terrible person, the first move is to misgender them as an insult... It's mostly corrected on era in the discussions we've had on Caitlyn Jenner, but there are other trans people besides her and a recent very bad example has brought out people in force in many online spaces.
I've heard excuses of "(that person) doesn't deserve to have their gender respected." or "(that person) is just faking being trans" to get support or sympathy, without anything to back up their statement. Trans and NB individuals are watching these events unfold, and what we see is that we aren't 'really' men/women/NB even to people who say they support us and agree with us. That we are being humored or that our identities are conditional to falling into line in other aspects.
You do not have to respect awful people because they are trans individuals. You don't have to like or support them individually... but by focusing on their gender while tearing them down, you are also harming every other trans person who've done nothing wrong, because you are reinforcing that we are fundamentally not real.
There is starting to be a trend on social media where if a trans individual turns out to be a terrible person, the first move is to misgender them as an insult... It's mostly corrected on era in the discussions we've had on Caitlyn Jenner, but there are other trans people besides her and a recent very bad example has brought out people in force in many online spaces.
I've heard excuses of "(that person) doesn't deserve to have their gender respected." or "(that person) is just faking being trans" to get support or sympathy, without anything to back up their statement. Trans and NB individuals are watching these events unfold, and what we see is that we aren't 'really' men/women/NB even to people who say they support us and agree with us. That we are being humored or that our identities are conditional to falling into line in other aspects.
You do not have to respect awful people because they are trans individuals. You don't have to like or support them individually... but by focusing on their gender while tearing them down, you are also harming every other trans person who've done nothing wrong, because you are reinforcing that we are fundamentally not real.
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